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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am asking you to generalise, but I’ve been told men have been found to be more needy. And in fairness I can see why they have that argument.

When it comes to men and women who do you think is generally the needy sex? And can you back it up with a good argument?

Do you feel like your needy?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't think I am. Hope I'm not anyway haha. Get told I'm too independant and stubborn to 'let anyone in' all the time x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I need no fucker end of story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need oxygen and whisky. Anything else is a luxury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the concept and the circumstances. I can be needy but I am a strong independent woman who knows what I want

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can ever know, if you're putting men against women.

I know needy men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not remotely. Far too independent and happy in my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to generalise but I think;

Women are more in need of emotional support than men,

And men are more in need of physical support, having things done for them.

Again a general observation, many men and women don't fall into these categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all and I want it now. Is that needy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need no fucker end of story"

“Don't waste your words I don't need anything from you

I don't care where you've been or what you plan to do” - Stone roses. Just for you

Cheer up you miserable twat! You need a hug, or a beer..... Or try and hug a beer it’s worked for me in the past.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m not needy.

I have encountered people that I feel are needy and I struggle a bit with that. I don’t feel one sex is needier than another though, it’s simply a personality trait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Difficult to generalise but I think;

Women are more in need of emotional support than men,

And men are more in need of physical support, having things done for them.

Again a general observation, many men and women don't fall into these categories "

A woman said completely the opposite to me, men are emotionaly needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you men are needy feckers! Most of the time you just want to be mothered....

I just want to be adored and worshipped, not needy at all

Peach x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm not needy, I'm wanty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is being “more” needy gender specific, I’m not sure on here it is, seen examples of both over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not needy, I'm wanty!! "

Yes this

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

I'm more likey.. I'd like to meet folks but know I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Difficult to generalise but I think;

Women are more in need of emotional support than men,

And men are more in need of physical support, having things done for them.

Again a general observation, many men and women don't fall into these categories "

Not the women I know. I know loads of strong, independent women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Difficult to generalise but I think;

Women are more in need of emotional support than men,

And men are more in need of physical support, having things done for them.

Again a general observation, many men and women don't fall into these categories

A woman said completely the opposite to me, men are emotionaly needy. "

I would go with men too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is being “more” needy gender specific, I’m not sure on here it is, seen examples of both over the years.

"

Exactly the same here. I’ve also had my moments of neediness and my moments of completely strong independence too.

The person who said that men are more needy, is in my opinion a strong independent woman. Maybe that has a bearing on her views. I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeeeeeee "

And then I give my head a wobble and think fuck it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?"

I don’t understand your point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?"

Do couples have to be needy in here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

I don’t understand your point. "

I mean everyone is needy!! Atleast physically, hence they are on this site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m needy ... when I’m horny

I’m horny ... so I’m needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definately not needy, I'm very independent.

I find independence a turn on too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

I don’t understand your point.

I mean everyone is needy!! Atleast physically, hence they are on this site!! "

Not everyone on here is having sex or meeting though.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

I don’t understand your point.

I mean everyone is needy!! Atleast physically, hence they are on this site!!

Not everyone on here is having sex or meeting though. "

Yes, true is my case. More is the pity...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm needy, yet I'm independent at the same time. Go figure.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some needy women who can't cope with life if they're not constantly getting texts and 'likes' on their pics.

I know some needy men who can't cope with life if they don't have a woman to show off and boost their fragile self esteem.

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Aries

xslut

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I needy cock.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"I needy cock."

...happy to oblige x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I needy cock."

. Haha

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"

I am asking you to generalise, but I’ve been told men have been found to be more needy. And in fairness I can see why they have that argument.

When it comes to men and women who do you think is generally the needy sex? And can you back it up with a good argument?

Do you feel like your needy?

"

More like greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some needy women who can't cope with life if they're not constantly getting texts and 'likes' on their pics.

I know some needy men who can't cope with life if they don't have a woman to show off and boost their fragile self esteem. "

This is how I'd perceive needy too. I've noticed this need for constant approval also continues into relationships and coupled with almost always low self esteem mean the relationship is already failing. It's sad, the couple of vanilla friends I have who are like this are the most sweet, wonderful people when you get to know them!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being needy is very unattractive in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can be needy for different things. I dont give a monkies for fabs and compliments on looks and shallow things, but am finding myself needy for reassurance at the moment with people I care about.

I admit it is a problem, but one Im working on. Everything else I have to be firecely independant on so one little flaw can be forgiven

I don't find it particulary limited to one sex either. Men can need that reassurance just as much I find.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a bit like Autumn above in that i need reassurance from people i care about. If in a relationship i need to feel cared about, loved, that sort of thing. I like being told how much i mean to someone.

I like to know where i stand - and that sometimes comes off as needy to cool cucumbers.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a bit like Autumn above in that i need reassurance from people i care about. If in a relationship i need to feel cared about, loved, that sort of thing. I like being told how much i mean to someone.

I like to know where i stand - and that sometimes comes off as needy to cool cucumbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have to go and admit it...I'm proper needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

I don’t understand your point.

I mean everyone is needy!! Atleast physically, hence they are on this site!!

Not everyone on here is having sex or meeting though. "

I think most join with that in mind though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some needy women who can't cope with life if they're not constantly getting texts and 'likes' on their pics.

I know some needy men who can't cope with life if they don't have a woman to show off and boost their fragile self esteem.

This is how I'd perceive needy too. I've noticed this need for constant approval also continues into relationships and coupled with almost always low self esteem mean the relationship is already failing. It's sad, the couple of vanilla friends I have who are like this are the most sweet, wonderful people when you get to know them!

Peach x"

I have friends like this too. I think they made a terrible couple because it wasn't yin/ yang. They were both needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to have to go and admit it...I'm proper needy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I needy a gin and tonic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I needy a gin and tonic "

I'll get you one, I'm going to the bar anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look after myself.

I don't have any family, children or partner.

So I pretty much have to.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"

I am asking you to generalise, but I’ve been told men have been found to be more needy. And in fairness I can see why they have that argument.

When it comes to men and women who do you think is generally the needy sex? And can you back it up with a good argument?

Do you feel like your needy?

"

I wouldn't say I was needy.

I much more "don't give a fuck" these days.

Then again I don't really use fab for meets, more about the forums for me.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

May have needs but not needy just greedy.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"is'nt everyone?? hence on this site!! huuh?

I don’t understand your point.

I mean everyone is needy!! Atleast physically, hence they are on this site!!

Not everyone on here is having sex or meeting though.

I think most join with that in mind though."

Yes I understand that and I agree but I think that’s more about having physical needs. I don’t think it’s the same as being ‘needy’. Different interpretations maybe?

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I could write you a list of needy people....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I could write you a list of needy people.... "

If you insist

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist "

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?"

I’m scared of the answer

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?

I’m scared of the answer "

It's ok you're not on the list......or are you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most the time I'm not needy.

I'm poorly at the moment and it's making me needy. But when I'm needy and dont get what I want it just makes me push people away

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?

I’m scared of the answer

It's ok you're not on the list......or are you!!"

No I’m not, you cheeky devil!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm not needy, so much so, that it's to my detriment. I wouldn't ascribe a gender to it though.

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?

I’m scared of the answer

It's ok you're not on the list......or are you!!

No I’m not, you cheeky devil! "

You're on a list Babs.... that's all I can say.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I could write you a list of needy people....

If you insist

Would you like them in alphabetical order or grouped on gender?

I’m scared of the answer

It's ok you're not on the list......or are you!!

No I’m not, you cheeky devil!

You're on a list Babs.... that's all I can say."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!yes!yes!

I want it now!!!!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Needy? Do you mean on Fab? Just read the forums both sexes are needy, along with many other unsavoury characteristics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair few of both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I’m needy, unsavoury and generally objectionable.

#IfTheCapFits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maslov says everybody is needy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've met some needy people in my time both men and women. I can't be doing with it. One woman actually sort of collapsed down on the floor of the office behind my chair because things weren't going her way and I wasn't showing the correct amount of pity and attention. I just carried on working until she got up a walked away.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Feeling very sorry for myself for that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maslov says everybody is needy "

We all have needs, been needy is a different thing. Fab is not the place to find self worth or build self esteem, that comes from within but I guess some get an ego boast but those who need that lack the other two.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We all need other people in our own ways, some of it influenced by culture.

It's ok to be needy and to let others know how they could support you. Our suicide rates shout loudly that people are often unable to connect with others and be held up to sustain their strength and independence - they get isolation instead.

Don't knock the needy or those who may be weakened, life can be tough. I'm fortunate as well as sensitive and have been fairly strong since young, though always love a good cuddle and tenderness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Needy? Do you mean on Fab? Just read the forums both sexes are needy, along with many other unsavoury characteristics "

No, I didn’t meen on fab at all. But most replies here relate to that because where we are I suppose.

I was asking your experiences in everyday life, I’ve seen needy people everywhere. But I’m unable to say one sexy is more needy than the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have needs. I don't expect people to fall at my feet to fulfil them. I do that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm needy, but I'm worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm needy, but I'm worth it "

If only L’Oréal models were this honest....

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I dont think I am, I kind of like a cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm needy, but I'm worth it

If only L’Oréal models were this honest...."

They offered, I had to turn them down, their product did nothing to soften my bristly beard. I can't knowing my promote something I know to be swollocks.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no im not needy but i dont have to be

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I've met some needy people in my time both men and women. I can't be doing with it. One woman actually sort of collapsed down on the floor of the office behind my chair because things weren't going her way and I wasn't showing the correct amount of pity and attention. I just carried on working until she got up a walked away. "

Brilliant!

Did she try and style it out when she got up?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Needy? Do you mean on Fab? Just read the forums both sexes are needy, along with many other unsavoury characteristics

No, I didn’t meen on fab at all. But most replies here relate to that because where we are I suppose.

I was asking your experiences in everyday life, I’ve seen needy people everywhere. But I’m unable to say one sexy is more needy than the next. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need no fucker end of story"

But you said you couldn’t live without me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on my own for too long to be needy. Never relied on anybody but myself.

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