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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys." I don’t class anal as vanilla! | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! " Choc chip? | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! " It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky" Depends how you do it 
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky" Thanks God for not making me common. * That's my arsehole. Still as God made it. | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky" You are right, anal is very much part of my sex life. | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky Depends how you do it
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky Depends how you do it
Women receiving is vanilla, men receiving is kinky "Perfect response | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky Depends how you do it
Women receiving is vanilla, men receiving is kinky
Perfect response "Haha even that's going to change in the next few years given the amount of pegging threads on here | |||
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"One person's vanilla is another's raspberry ripple" This... spot on x | |||
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"One person's vanilla is another's raspberry ripple" This is right. I think the availability of watching porn, and seeing what can be explored has opened up peoples adventurous sides in the bedroom. Missionary was okay if that’s all you knew, but we see also sorts of sex and kinks that speak to us. So, my kinks are normal to some because they discovered the same in this modern age, but completely ‘out there’ to my friends who visit church each Sunday and think showing cleavage is still wrong. | |||
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"One person's vanilla is another's raspberry ripple This is right. I think the availability of watching porn, and seeing what can be explored has opened up peoples adventurous sides in the bedroom. Missionary was okay if that’s all you knew, but we see also sorts of sex and kinks that speak to us. So, my kinks are normal to some because they discovered the same in this modern age, but completely ‘out there’ to my friends who visit church each Sunday and think showing cleavage is still wrong. " Showing cleavage is wrong? Oops | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky Depends how you do it
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days?" Those that don't cause joints to dislocate | |||
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days?" All the ones from 1-69, others require advanced gymnastics and are therefore kinky! | |||
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days?" Are you asking in fab? The human centipede  | |||
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days? Are you asking in fab? The human centipede "Knob | |||
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"I don’t like anal but view it as vanilla for women but not for men too " Just because something has become more commonplace doesn't make it vanilla in my view | |||
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"Then = they kept their clothes on mostly and he lifted her nightie and intercourse commenced. Now = kissing, touching, oral, intercourse, most likely missionary. No funny stuff! That’s vanilla then and now "
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"I don’t like anal but view it as vanilla for women but not for men too Just because something has become more commonplace doesn't make it vanilla in my view" Do you know what, I think that’s actually what I think but couldn’t get to it on my own | |||
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days? All the ones from 1-69, others require advanced gymnastics and are therefore kinky!" I’m being serious I need to know | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky" It's taboo in my arse!  | |||
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"I’m still trying to establish which sex positions are considered the norm/vanilla these days? " I don't think positions are non-vanilla, after all the Joy of Sex came out in 1972 and contained plenty - our parents had that book! | |||
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"I’m still trying to establish which sex positions are considered the norm/vanilla these days? I don't think positions are non-vanilla, after all the Joy of Sex came out in 1972 and contained plenty - our parents had that book!" Nooooooo stop it!!!! | |||
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"Is rimming vanilla now ? " Not in my bedroom it isn’t | |||
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"Vanilla sex is vanilla sex + anal and soft toys. I don’t class anal as vanilla! It's so common now, I can't possibly call it taboo or kinky It's taboo in my arse! "That’s on the no list | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? " I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! " That’s very much inline with what someone suggested to me. I was sceptical although until Swing came along I’d had no experience of younger men (plus he isn’t THAT young shhhhh). You seem to have definitely seen and experienced the shift. If the young’uns are wanting all that why do these younger guys want to meet us more mature ladies? I know we won’t all be vanilla but given what you’ve said we’re more likely not to be wanting to do the things they expect. | |||
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"What sex positions are considered the ‘norm’ these days?" Denial. | |||
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"Is rimming vanilla now ? " Good idea... vanilla essence on my shopping list | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! That’s very much inline with what someone suggested to me. I was sceptical although until Swing came along I’d had no experience of younger men (plus he isn’t THAT young shhhhh). You seem to have definitely seen and experienced the shift. If the young’uns are wanting all that why do these younger guys want to meet us more mature ladies? I know we won’t all be vanilla but given what you’ve said we’re more likely not to be wanting to do the things they expect. " Why do they want us? Simple! 
.... because we actually know what we enjoy and focus on doing that bloody well - rather than trying to be second rate porn stars!
Take deep throat - for instance! Young people seem to think that’s a prerequisite for great sex! I’ll happily point out that I gag cleaning my own teeth sometimes! What I DO do though - like most other women of a similar age I suspect - I do because I love it rather than because I think I should! | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! " Brilliant,you have articulated something very important.The last paragraph reasonates espiecially. The best state of mind to be in about sex is relaxed. Youngsters have so much more things to have to be 'expert on' or lie about. Porn is not to be used as the last word on sexual conduct, I have learnt and enjoyed by doing not copying. | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! That’s very much inline with what someone suggested to me. I was sceptical although until Swing came along I’d had no experience of younger men (plus he isn’t THAT young shhhhh). You seem to have definitely seen and experienced the shift. If the young’uns are wanting all that why do these younger guys want to meet us more mature ladies? I know we won’t all be vanilla but given what you’ve said we’re more likely not to be wanting to do the things they expect. Why do they want us? Simple!
.... because we actually know what we enjoy and focus on doing that bloody well - rather than trying to be second rate porn stars!
Take deep throat - for instance! Young people seem to think that’s a prerequisite for great sex! I’ll happily point out that I gag cleaning my own teeth sometimes! What I DO do though - like most other women of a similar age I suspect - I do because I love it rather than because I think I should! " | |||
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"This was suggested to me yesterday but I’m not convinced. I just think non vanilla sex is more readily discussed etc. This isn’t swinging related but more about the expectations of the type of sex that is considered the ‘norm’. Has it changed and what is the then and now? What do you consider to be vanilla sex? I think people’s views and expectations of sex - particularly the younger generation - have changed beyond recognition in my lifetime/adulthood! From my late teens I was every boyfriends ‘best Shag by far!’ How did I get that accolade? Simply my moving rather than lying like a rag doll, regularly changing position (including getting on top) and occasionally putting their cock in my mouth! This - and actually enjoying it - was enough to separate me hugely from any other girlfriend/sexual partner any of them had had! Fast forward 30+ years and I’m quite sure that the young adult me would be considered very vanilla/boring! People are expected to do everything seen on porn in order to be ‘good in bed’ or sexually adventurous! Whether they all enjoy it or not is an entirely separate matter I think! That’s very much inline with what someone suggested to me. I was sceptical although until Swing came along I’d had no experience of younger men (plus he isn’t THAT young shhhhh). You seem to have definitely seen and experienced the shift. If the young’uns are wanting all that why do these younger guys want to meet us more mature ladies? I know we won’t all be vanilla but given what you’ve said we’re more likely not to be wanting to do the things they expect. Why do they want us? Simple!
.... because we actually know what we enjoy and focus on doing that bloody well - rather than trying to be second rate porn stars!
Take deep throat - for instance! Young people seem to think that’s a prerequisite for great sex! I’ll happily point out that I gag cleaning my own teeth sometimes! What I DO do though - like most other women of a similar age I suspect - I do because I love it rather than because I think I should! " | |||
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"I’m not really arsed what the new fancy way of doing sex is. I still do the same position now as I did the first time I ever had an orgasm when I was 17 years old. Guys full body weight on top of me and me reaching down to rub my bean. " That’s soooooooo romantic 
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"I’m not really arsed what the new fancy way of doing sex is. I still do the same position now as I did the first time I ever had an orgasm when I was 17 years old. Guys full body weight on top of me and me reaching down to rub my bean. That’s soooooooo romantic
Also Lacey’s fav orgasm position "Interesting, do you ever fly solo, home visits? | |||
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"Oh I just do whatever position I'm put in "Surprisingly obedient in the sex department in stark contrast to your personality | |||
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"I’m not really arsed what the new fancy way of doing sex is. I still do the same position now as I did the first time I ever had an orgasm when I was 17 years old. Guys full body weight on top of me and me reaching down to rub my bean. That’s soooooooo romantic
Also Lacey’s fav orgasm position
Interesting, do you ever fly solo, home visits?"*shakes head* You’re no casual sex girl anyways. | |||
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"Oh I just do whatever position I'm put in
Surprisingly obedient in the sex department in stark contrast to your personality "It's the only time.  | |||
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"I’m not really arsed what the new fancy way of doing sex is. I still do the same position now as I did the first time I ever had an orgasm when I was 17 years old. Guys full body weight on top of me and me reaching down to rub my bean. That’s soooooooo romantic
Also Lacey’s fav orgasm position
Interesting, do you ever fly solo, home visits?
*shakes head*
You’re no casual sex girl anyways.
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