FabSwingers.com forum: Hmmmm ....

By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

I get a lot of msgs from unverified guys saying they would like to meet me , when I point out I won’t meet unverified guys as it states in my profile they clearly don’t read in capitals , the go on to tell me what up standing guys they are and can I make an exception and I say politely no ,some get very abusive , now not sure what I’m trying to say , I guess it’s read ppls profiles to avoid disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to say no thank you and block.

You can't reason with some people.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Been there with a previous Profile I wrote, just gave up after a while, left their message unread and then deleted it.

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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"Been there with a previous Profile I wrote, just gave up after a while, left their message unread and then deleted it. "
I’ve also done that only to be called a stuck up bitch some times you can’t win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your profile so unverified men can’t message. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get a lot of msgs from unverified guys saying they would like to meet me , when I point out I won’t meet unverified guys as it states in my profile they clearly don’t read in capitals , the go on to tell me what up standing guys they are and can I make an exception and I say politely no ,some get very abusive , now not sure what I’m trying to say , I guess it’s read ppls profiles to avoid disappointment

I found as Cixi, it paid to be quite blunt about what I wasn't looking for. If they messaged regardless, it's on them when I deleted it automatically for not reading or respecting my wishes.

It works the same as me. Only you get 1/4 the interest as a man in the Forum, so I rarely have to put up with it.

Write a nice profile that tells us about you, but put some filters in the bottom e.g don't message if.. bald/fat/No profile pic/whatever. Then filter out the rest for being stupid. You'll meet nicer people who are better for you if you stop engaging with those who aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters wisely op. I’ve never actually had any bad experiences talking to single men or saying no to unwelcomed propositions when it clearly states what I’m here for, or that I’m actually straight.

A couple of women however....but that would be for another thread though. I’m sure a woman bashing thread will be along shortly I could join in on.

Concentrate on the good stuff op. Positive attract positive (In your face Physics teachers!!!!!)

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