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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partener does have a kinky fantasy and I am a bit reluctant to do it! She wants to be teased with oral and clit stimulation then my cock(8” and girthy) full of lube to be brutally deep and fast pushed in her vagina! I personally think she will be in severe pain! Anyone tried this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Everyone'pain threshold is different,

and a lot of people get of on how much pain they can take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string. "
I can vouch for this it's no fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it.

She loved it.

It was good.

She’ll be fine with yours.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string. I can vouch for this it's no fun... "
so can I omg at least you can only do it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string. "

Ouchie! I knew a couple who actually did this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s me...However can’t be seen the size in that picture but....will see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I thick ?

If she’s your partner , surely you’ve had sex ?

And define ‘brutally’

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Here's the thing.....

YOU ate reluctant to do it??

So what you even considering it for then???

If your wife was reluctant to do something you found kinky would you push her into doing it??

So it's the same principle for you.

If she's got a kink that you don't want to do then tell her you're not comfortable and don't do it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

With foreplay and lube I can't see why there'd be a problem, surely we've all had a passionate quickie that required less?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!"

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it "

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

That is considered vanilla on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this quite regularly yes it hurts but it is so much fun for the female. If you have trust and if she tells you if it gets to much that's what matters most alltho only had to ask mrm to stop once

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is considered vanilla on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!"

What position does she want it to be in for it?. Some are easier to take than others, her legs over your shoulders or her knees by her ears is eye watering but from behind or missionary style shouldnt be too brutal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string.

Ouchie! I knew a couple who actually did this."

So what snaps and how

Mrscxxx

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!

What position does she want it to be in for it?. Some are easier to take than others, her legs over your shoulders or her knees by her ears is eye watering but from behind or missionary style shouldnt be too brutal. "

Doggy style, digging tunnels like Charles Bronson in the Great Escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry "

Bit harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t this just a ‘ I’m well endowed look at my cock’ post ?

I hope you get what you want out of this , and as for the definition of brutal sex ... brutal always makes me shudder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t this just a ‘ I’m well endowed look at my cock’ post ?

I hope you get what you want out of this , and as for the definition of brutal sex ... brutal always makes me shudder "

This! I don’t do brutal, prefer if you said a hard fucking OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry

Bit harsh"

Maybe it's because I'm feeling very cynical at the minute but when I read the post I read it more as a look at me post.

She's well lubed so can't see the issue all he's talking about is a long deep thrust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry "

Actually I had a nose, I think it’s the perfect size x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!

What position does she want it to be in for it?. Some are easier to take than others, her legs over your shoulders or her knees by her ears is eye watering but from behind or missionary style shouldnt be too brutal.

Doggy style, digging tunnels like Charles Bronson in the Great Escape. "

Brace yourself love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry

Actually I had a nose, I think it’s the perfect size x"

He's added additional cock pick now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry

Actually I had a nose, I think it’s the perfect size x"

My thoughts

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!

What position does she want it to be in for it?. Some are easier to take than others, her legs over your shoulders or her knees by her ears is eye watering but from behind or missionary style shouldnt be too brutal.

Doggy style, digging tunnels like Charles Bronson in the Great Escape.

Brace yourself love"
Be like being hit by a steam train.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that your cock on the first photo on profile? If so I don't think you need to worry

Actually I had a nose, I think it’s the perfect size x

He's added additional cock pick now "

I did ad a pic with, so people can have a better picture of what I’m asking...

I don’t need attention...if I was after attention I would formulate this differently!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Here's the thing.....

YOU ate reluctant to do it??

So what you even considering it for then???

If your wife was reluctant to do something you found kinky would you push her into doing it??

So it's the same principle for you.

If she's got a kink that you don't want to do then tell her you're not comfortable and don't do it."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes we have had sex...but she can take it all deep after few minutes and not brutal...

Define brutal: head of cock at the entrance of vagina pushed all of it deep and very fast with no mercy!

Thats just standard sex here sure she'll love it

I can’t say it’s standard...depends what you’re into...but for me is rough!

What position does she want it to be in for it?. Some are easier to take than others, her legs over your shoulders or her knees by her ears is eye watering but from behind or missionary style shouldnt be too brutal.

I forgot to mention about position... she’s considering knee by her ears or doggy with breast on bed!

Doggy style, digging tunnels like Charles Bronson in the Great Escape.

Brace yourself love"

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

If you are using oral and lube it's not really being that brutal, try unprepared tight and dry, but beware of bruising or injury, maybe you should remove your statement of having no restrictions from your profile, perhaps she could try one of the selection of toys you offer and do it herself if you are unwilling to help her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p"

I don’t want to imagine what she been through...I hope she enjoyed at the end!

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish


"There's probably more chance of you snapping your banjo string. "

It's more than probably lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p"

Oohh you devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it.

She loved it.

It was good.

She’ll be fine with yours."
this made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it usually take some easing in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My partener does have a kinky fantasy and I am a bit reluctant to do it! She wants to be teased with oral and clit stimulation then my cock(8” and girthy) full of lube to be brutally deep and fast pushed in her vagina! I personally think she will be in severe pain! Anyone tried this?"

Kinky ?

Man arouses woman orally , then lubes up, then fucks her .....

Kinky ? Really ?

I'd call this thoughtful.

Such sheltered lives.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy..."

Thought it was your partners fantasy ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p"

Here's hoping it was your own.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy..."

Confused.. this is your fantasy now? Not just another look at my cock thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p

Here's hoping it was your own."

No she did ask for it though. I wouldnt have done it if i wasnt already familiar with what she could take.

Although I'm not opposed to some strapin fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy..."

What fantasy? You said this was your partners?

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I don’t see anything particularly unusual with it.

What are you worrying about?

You’re talking about stimulation beforehand

You’re talking about stopping for loads of lube

I’m really needing you to explain where the brutal comes in. Do you have some kinda sledgehammer hidden under the bed or something?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ive done this to somones unprepared asshole....i think youll be fine with the V :p

Here's hoping it was your own.

No she did ask for it though. I wouldnt have done it if i wasnt already familiar with what she could take.

Although I'm not opposed to some strapin fun "

Either she greased up on the quiet or she has a reinforced rectum ......... ouch !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy...

Confused.. this is your fantasy now? Not just another look at my cock thread?"

This! Haven’t bothered looking at the profile, so the cock hasn’t been looked at by me, and sure others haven’t bothered either xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My partener does have a kinky fantasy and I am a bit reluctant to do it! She wants to be teased with oral and clit stimulation then my cock(8” and girthy) full of lube to be brutally deep and fast pushed in her vagina! I personally think she will be in severe pain! Anyone tried this?

Kinky

I think your playing under BDSM rules...

Man arouses woman orally , then lubes up, then fucks her .....

Kinky ? Really ?

I'd call this thoughtful.

Such sheltered lives."

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy...

Confused.. this is your fantasy now? Not just another look at my cock thread?

This! Haven’t bothered looking at the profile, so the cock hasn’t been looked at by me, and sure others haven’t bothered either xx "

Can't be bothered to here for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, apart from some useful advice, no lady here to describe and help with my fantasy...

Confused.. this is your fantasy now? Not just another look at my cock thread?

This! Haven’t bothered looking at the profile, so the cock hasn’t been looked at by me, and sure others haven’t bothered either xx "

I think people are getting a bit pedantic there.

Id say my question my fantady my problem if i was the one posting about it too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many bitching people around....you perfect one’s.... I wrote wrong, what’s the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many bitching people around....you perfect one’s.... I wrote wrong, what’s the issue?"

You have a penis is the number 1 problem.

The second problem is the "kinksters" on here love to gatekeep more than anything

Not a real kink, not a real sub, not a real dom, yadda yadda yadda.

Its tedious but they like to gatekeep amd signal that theyre better than others.

Your situation is rather mild to experienced people but for yourself who cares about yout partner you are understandably concerned about hurting thier delicate parts. Which is good if you wrent concerned that would be the real problem.

Build up to it would be my advice in the course of normal sex do you have to ease in a bit at a time?

Or are you able to slowly and gently penetrate fully in one stroke?

Be aware of your partner physiology, you dont want to snag a flap for instance as it wont have time to unfold etc with one deep strong thrust.

If your long figure out where you can push to before causing pain.

Once you've done this bit of home work you can when doing the situation penetrate deeply and quickly but also know when to stop and start the second stroke and go from there based on her reaction.

A good way to practice for this would be when having sex nornally fully pull out and go back in a few times she'll already be relaxed so you csn get the feel of the motion wothout the initial risk.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many bitching people around....you perfect one’s.... I wrote wrong, what’s the issue?

You have a penis is the number 1 problem.

The second problem is the "kinksters" on here love to gatekeep more than anything

Not a real kink, not a real sub, not a real dom, yadda yadda yadda.

Its tedious but they like to gatekeep amd signal that theyre better than others.

Your situation is rather mild to experienced people but for yourself who cares about yout partner you are understandably concerned about hurting thier delicate parts. Which is good if you wrent concerned that would be the real problem.

Build up to it would be my advice in the course of normal sex do you have to ease in a bit at a time?

Or are you able to slowly and gently penetrate fully in one stroke?

Be aware of your partner physiology, you dont want to snag a flap for instance as it wont have time to unfold etc with one deep strong thrust.

If your long figure out where you can push to before causing pain.

Once you've done this bit of home work you can when doing the situation penetrate deeply and quickly but also know when to stop and start the second stroke and go from there based on her reaction.

A good way to practice for this would be when having sex nornally fully pull out and go back in a few times she'll already be relaxed so you csn get the feel of the motion wothout the initial risk.

Hope this helps"

Thanks Carter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many bitching people around....you perfect one’s.... I wrote wrong, what’s the issue?

You have a penis is the number 1 problem.

The second problem is the "kinksters" on here love to gatekeep more than anything

Not a real kink, not a real sub, not a real dom, yadda yadda yadda.

Its tedious but they like to gatekeep amd signal that theyre better than others.

Your situation is rather mild to experienced people but for yourself who cares about yout partner you are understandably concerned about hurting thier delicate parts. Which is good if you wrent concerned that would be the real problem.

Build up to it would be my advice in the course of normal sex do you have to ease in a bit at a time?

Or are you able to slowly and gently penetrate fully in one stroke?

Be aware of your partner physiology, you dont want to snag a flap for instance as it wont have time to unfold etc with one deep strong thrust.

If your long figure out where you can push to before causing pain.

Once you've done this bit of home work you can when doing the situation penetrate deeply and quickly but also know when to stop and start the second stroke and go from there based on her reaction.

A good way to practice for this would be when having sex nornally fully pull out and go back in a few times she'll already be relaxed so you csn get the feel of the motion wothout the initial risk.

Hope this helps

Thanks Carter!"

No problem hopefuly some of the women on here can give you more of a first hand perspective

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