FabSwingers.com forum: Turned down after a social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have just not "clicked" with you, or he may have another reason which he'd rather not share in case he thinks it'll upset you.

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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago

blackburn

It happens... there's got to be that natural spark there! No matter what you do sometimes it just isn't happening x

P.s if thats not there, the sex would be shit anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have just been so so polite but if so then a valid reason expected

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By *rMrsWestMidsCouple
over a year ago

Dudley

"I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

Unfortunately it sounds like you liked him more than he liked you best just move on and look for someone who is interested in meeting you.Good luck.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

He married feels guilty for meeting you.....

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Why worry luv

His loss

Just move on

Shit happens

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Just trying to work out if you are taking the Mick OP...

A long-term forumite, who has probably advised many other posters in regards to similar situations??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooo a social experiment!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Unfortunately a fab social meet isn't like a job interview process where you are entitled to feedback afterwards!

Accept he wasnt for you and move on.

You win some, you lose some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let that one go Steel, plenty of other guys on the site would be dying to meet you I'm sure, some of whom you'll click with

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Unfortunately he doesn’t have to give you a reason.

He doesn’t owe you anything. You were, for whatever reason , not what he was looking for.

But at least you had a nice social out of it.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We have had a number of socials where they have not been for us as the spark wasn’t there.

It’s the main reason why we find the clubs are better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah .... it’s happened to me before ( unbelievably I know

) I don’t think he believed I was a larger woman so when we met and he realised I wasn’t lying he was both happy that I didn’t lie but realised I wasn’t for him.

Thing is ... in person you get to feel the spark. I met a gorgeous looking man a few weeks back , but I felt absolutely nothing for him so I knew I’d not meet him to bump uglies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man turning down a woman wtf.

Are you sure this is fabs

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep it’s happened to me ... nothing you can do .... Next

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Just trying to work out if you are taking the Mick OP...

A long-term forumite, who has probably advised many other posters in regards to similar situations??

She's also a very naughty girl (adapted media reference).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

Fucking get a grip, she doesn’t owe you anything! It’s her prerogative to do what she wants - it’s why people have socials as men normally look nothing like their pics. I actually feel sorry for her that she wasted her time.

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on Steel..is this real..you have re worked your profile to make it shit ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

I can’t believe what I’m reading.....

I must have drank too much wine.....

You are out of order and have passed your place....

This man owes you nothing , he bought you free drinks and probably food... and didn’t Ghost you.....

You should be very happy he told you he didn’t want to see you again.....

This is the exact reason I ghost women....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet when the Op doesn’t get the reaction she wants... she will start a thread about this wonderful Fabber and the social they had.....

You can’t make this stuff up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As its you I'm guessing this isn't a true post

But I'll answer the reasons I've not met after a social.

The kiss - I've had guys that have been perfect in every way but when I have kissed them I've felt dead in side

The way they smell - not in a gross you stink way but there have been guys that just have a smell that doesn't attract me

And lastly, some mannerism, ie the way they speak or breathe

can't put my finger on it but they annoy me in some way

I'm just a picky bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its you I'm guessing this isn't a true post

But I'll answer the reasons I've not met after a social.

The kiss - I've had guys that have been perfect in every way but when I have kissed them I've felt dead in side

The way they smell - not in a gross you stink way but there have been guys that just have a smell that doesn't attract me

And lastly, some mannerism, ie the way they speak or breathe

can't put my finger on it but they annoy me in some way

I'm just a picky bitch

So if they met you in a club environment, they stood a better chance of hooking up with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

Brilliant and true!! Made me laugh! Oh the hypocrisy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You bored him with your conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its you I'm guessing this isn't a true post

But I'll answer the reasons I've not met after a social.

The kiss - I've had guys that have been perfect in every way but when I have kissed them I've felt dead in side

The way they smell - not in a gross you stink way but there have been guys that just have a smell that doesn't attract me

And lastly, some mannerism, ie the way they speak or breathe

can't put my finger on it but they annoy me in some way

I'm just a picky bitch

So if they met you in a club environment, they stood a better chance of hooking up with you."

Nope I usually just do clubs to socialise and spend time in the dungeon. I don't fuck men in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t that the point of a social first you would be more upset if you had got down and dirty straight away and then they said I don’t want to see you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its you I'm guessing this isn't a true post

But I'll answer the reasons I've not met after a social.

The kiss - I've had guys that have been perfect in every way but when I have kissed them I've felt dead in side

The way they smell - not in a gross you stink way but there have been guys that just have a smell that doesn't attract me

And lastly, some mannerism, ie the way they speak or breathe

can't put my finger on it but they annoy me in some way

I'm just a picky bitch

So if they met you in a club environment, they stood a better chance of hooking up with you.

Nope I usually just do clubs to socialise and spend time in the dungeon. I don't fuck men in clubs. "

They never stood a chance......

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

Love this - and so true!

Op - less than half of my socials result in a future meet! That’s exactly why I have them!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

No, probably not. But this is the sort of response she was wanting (I think) so nicely summarised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling this may be a pisstake post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn’t that the point of a social first you would be more upset if you had got down and dirty straight away and then they said I don’t want to see you again "

Exactly this. This is the whole point of a social... to find out if there is a click, a spark, to see if you want to get naughty with this other person. I’ve had a couple of socials where we walk away and say nothing to each other. This guy was kind enough to say no thank you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s will just be one of those feelings you either do or don’t get when you meet. This is why I always have a social, you can put all the groundwork in place but when you’re alone and face to face it is different, it just is and most of the time it is probably going to be fine but it won’t always be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the level of intelligence I see you operating at, I find it a strange post from you (like others have also said).

My questions are. Why do you want to meet him again, if it's not reciprocated? Do you really need a reason if it's not going to happen? Will that reason make you feel better or worse about yourself? Should his opinion effect you in that way, when you're clearly a well liked, popular person?

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

piss take post by OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have entered a parallel universe. Where did you meet him.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

The OP likes to makes posts to encourage discuss and it works. She’s good at it and I like her threads

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

No body should be questioned why they don't want to meet u after one meet or phone call or chat

I say move on if u can't get over this maybe he has a good reason maybe he thought u wanted more than fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your posts SH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet when the Op doesn’t get the reaction she wants... she will start a thread about this wonderful Fabber and the social they had.....

You can’t make this stuff up"

She has and she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

lol keep stalking him,be persistent,he can't ignore you forever you'll wear him down eventually

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

He doesn't fancy you and dosent want to say so.

Nothing wrong with the first part of that sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was fab straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As its you I'm guessing this isn't a true post

But I'll answer the reasons I've not met after a social.

The kiss - I've had guys that have been perfect in every way but when I have kissed them I've felt dead in side

The way they smell - not in a gross you stink way but there have been guys that just have a smell that doesn't attract me

And lastly, some mannerism, ie the way they speak or breathe

can't put my finger on it but they annoy me in some way

I'm just a picky bitch

. Yep.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

Did you (or of course anyone close by) let out a silent but deadly fart during the social?

He may be apportioning blame to you in error?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it did happen.

No it's not a piss take. I'm interested in people's opinions.

No it wasn't recently but I wasn't aware of a time limit for asking questions on the forum.

Yes I do like to hear different opinions, even those who think I'm daft. Keeps me rounded.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Given the level of intelligence I see you operating at, I find it a strange post from you (like others have also said).

My questions are. Why do you want to meet him again, if it's not reciprocated?"

Yup, that would be my answer to a genuine question - if they havn't got the screaming hots for me when we meet, well I'm losing interest in nanoseconds anyway lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it did happen.

No it's not a piss take. I'm interested in people's opinions.

No it wasn't recently but I wasn't aware of a time limit for asking questions on the forum.

Yes I do like to hear different opinions, even those who think I'm daft. Keeps me rounded.

Okay. If this is genuine lovely, I'm guessing he didnt feel that sexual chemistry with you. It's that good on paper situation. It doesn't always translate when meeting in person. Maybe he just didn't fancy enough to take it to the next level. It happens sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stage fright?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say “ he doesn’t have a good reason to not meet you again!” Were those his words or your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"his loss" haha, why is it his loss if he didn't want to meet her? Give your head a wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

Actually that is about right dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it happens, I’ve met folks for socials and we got on so well before with messaging and phone calls but when we met it just wasn’t for me. The conversation didn’t go down too well and we had nothing to say (unusual for me) at the end I said I wouldn’t be meeting him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*digs out ACME tongue in cheek post detector*

__________________+____________________

waits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it did happen.

No it's not a piss take. I'm interested in people's opinions.

No it wasn't recently but I wasn't aware of a time limit for asking questions on the forum.

Yes I do like to hear different opinions, even those who think I'm daft. Keeps me rounded.

At least he stayed till the end and gave some feed back

I was once left in a pub after he made his escape without telling me ! Lol

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Without being a mind reader you’re never going to know. I guess the best way to not do your own head in over it is just go with what you can assume is fact; he’s just not as interested as he was originally.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

@ Dans post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it did happen.

No it's not a piss take. I'm interested in people's opinions.

No it wasn't recently but I wasn't aware of a time limit for asking questions on the forum.

Yes I do like to hear different opinions, even those who think I'm daft. Keeps me rounded.

There is a really simple answer really ... He's a male and he's on fab ... Nuff said?

(Tongue set very firmly in cheek)

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Does he have to give a reason he doesn't want to meet you again. He may be not saying as he does not want to offend. You might not like it if he told you the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a standard response I would give to anyone who didn’t make it last the social stage.

People can look different from their pictures so when you meet them in the flesh there’s just no attraction.

People might not click, I know personally I met a guy recently twice for just socials but he was very posh, nice car, good job, plus I could sense there wasn’t a connection then so that went no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that, but I did get my reason (too kinky)

I definitely understand your frustration not knowing though.

I'd mentally move on by searching again and finding someone better suited and more upfront x

All the best X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a standard response I would give to anyone who didn’t make it last the social stage.

People can look different from their pictures so when you meet them in the flesh there’s just no attraction.

This.

The frustration is the guy who doesn’t just want to get his willy wet is often the guy you’d want to meet again.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op -welcome to the world of single dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contrary to popular belief, guys can be choosey too and he obviously wasn’t feeling attracted to you in the flesh.

Put it behind you and move on. I’m sure there’s plenty of other offers.

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately he doesn’t have to give you a reason.

He doesn’t owe you anything. You were, for whatever reason , not what he was looking for.

But at least you had a nice social out of it. "

This is very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just trying to work out if you are taking the Mick OP...

A long-term forumite, who has probably advised many other posters in regards to similar situations??

She's also a very naughty girl (adapted media reference). "

Why am I naughty?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

You're so right.

It did happen a couple of times. Ok more than a couple.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"... How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

Erm, step away from the cooker and put the bunny down!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes a few times it just the way people are sometimes there loss

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I have a feeling this may be a pisstake post

Bingo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it. Bad manners are common place in here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet all the criteria on his profile for what he's looking for. We chatted and swapped pics.

We met for a social and everything went well.

But now he says he doesn't want to meet me again. I've asked him why not but he won't give a reason!

Has anyone else had this? We got on, so how can he now turn me down? How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

He doesn’t owe you a reason, same way you wouldn’t owe him one if the tables were turned. He doesn’t want to play and he was polite about it, that’s about as much as you can ask for tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on I’ll just get my pre-prepared “turned down after a social” forum reply pack.

I’m too transfixed by the pretty snow scene outside my window so I’ll let you choose the right option for you.

For ladies :

Aww hun, he must be be mad, you’re absolutely gorgeous, what the hell was he thinking of?

Well it’s his loss, I’d never do that to you. Men hey? What utter bastards!

Fancy a fuck?

For men :

You men seem to think that Fab owes you a fuck, GET OVER IT! Men hey? What utter bastards!!

just teasing OP! (p.s. this didn’t really happen did it?

You might be teasing, but that's spot on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you say “ he doesn’t have a good reason to not meet you again!” Were those his words or your thoughts?"

My thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry luv

His loss

Just move on

Shit happens"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""... How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

Erm, step away from the cooker and put the bunny down!

I did the OP at like 5am, I could have worded it better, I agree. I was half asleep.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

""... How can I make him tell me why he won't meet me again?

He doesn't have a good reason not to meet me again!"

Erm, step away from the cooker and put the bunny down!

I did the OP at like 5am, I could have worded it better, I agree. I was half asleep.

Lol, yup, it did sound a little "Sharon Stone-ish"!

I'm still trying to wrap my head around the fact that it happened to you more than once.

On a positive note, it sounds like your selection process works, you are, on these occasions at least, picking guys who don't subscribe to the "any holes a goal" mentality, so I would say getting the odd one or two knock-backs is the price you pay for picking good guys.

Ok, I'm not sure that sounds as good written down as it did in my head, but I hope the meaning comes across.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

No spark. Big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an interesting post,I had a social meet once and we didn't hit it off because she was too posh,and another time the lady had bad breath and obviously her so called friends hadn't told her,I don't take offence if somebody doesn't want to develop a first meet because that's life. Not everybody is going to find us attractive because there are so many variables.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happened to us with a couple after weeks of chatting online, the guy didn't take to the Mrs and the Mrs didn't take to him, nothing was said on the night but we just stopped talking, it happens so just move on.

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

SteelHeels I know your pain only too well. It happens to me all the f***ing time. I should fit most of the criteria... for most on Fab... I mean I'm...

Handsome

Scottish

Nice cock

All parts fully functioning

No beer belly

Own hair

Own Teeth

No stupid beard - clean shaved

Live in the Central Belt

Unattached

Good job

Own car

Enjoys travelling

Unfussy

The Scottish (Thistley) tumblewede rolls past outside on the frosted snowdrifts... the empty message box echoes like a Death Knell in the background of my existence...

Try not to take it personally Steelheels.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It could just be something to do with him. Yes he could be attached and got cold feet, at the last hurdle. It would be nice to know why we get turned down, but it doesn't change anything, just curiosity, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SteelHeels I know your pain only too well. It happens to me all the f***ing time. I should fit most of the criteria... for most on Fab... I mean I'm...

Handsome

Scottish

Nice cock

All parts fully functioning

No beer belly

Own hair

Own Teeth

No stupid beard - clean shaved

Live in the Central Belt

Unattached

Good job

Own car

Enjoys travelling

Unfussy

The Scottish (Thistley) tumblewede rolls past outside on the frosted snowdrifts... the empty message box echoes like a Death Knell in the background of my existence...

Try not to take it personally Steelheels."

Ah hah! You need a stupid beard then.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

The why is irrelevant, it happens.. move on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

He shot his load, under the table? And he's now got a few more 'socials' lined up.

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