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By *r99mr99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Someone has just kik chatted me a d sent pics of his wife. Black bar over her eyes but still quite identifiable.

It hasn't been sent with her permission and its infuriated me. It isn't the first time someone has done this.

I am being unreasonable to not want to continue conversations with people thst don't respect consent and boundaries?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Are you sure it’s his wife and not some random photo he purports to be his wife

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By *r99mr99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Are you sure it’s his wife and not some random photo he purports to be his wife "

Quite possibly- I didn't do a reverse image search. But either way...

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By *herealdavidjonesMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Can you kik them to me so I can be outraged too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was speaking to a guy before who sent a very clear face picture of a girl sucking his dick.

Quick search for him on Facebook and that girl in his picture was his actual current girlfriend. Like why would you do that!?

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

When I first joined (and knew no better) a male half of a "couple" sent me a picture of his wife sleeping in bed..

She was always "too busy to talk" and the first time I said oh not sure she'd like that too much, conversation died and then he did it again a few days later. Blocked and reported him.

I'm cautious about letting men have pics of me, alot send them and claim they are exes (not even covering faces).

Block him.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

It doesn't sit well with me .I doubt the majority know their intimate pix are all over a website.

Apart from couples profiles I think there should be a blanket ban of third parties in single people's profiles.

Total turn off for me.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've encountered this in groups, men (It's always men) sharing nudes of their wife/girlfriend or whatnot with the group. The consensus is very firmly that this is seriously not cool, it's a massive breach of trust. And I want no part of that, seeing non-consensual pics feels like a massive violation

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I'm always reporting single males with pictures of women and their faces in full view. It's completely wrong to use somebody's picture without consent.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Not being funny OP but you've not exactly hidden the women in your photos that we'll.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being funny OP but you've not exactly hidden the women in your photos that we'll.

A"

I was just about to post the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint it illegal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone has just kik chatted me a d sent pics of his wife. Black bar over her eyes but still quite identifiable.

It hasn't been sent with her permission and its infuriated me. It isn't the first time someone has done this.

I am being unreasonable to not want to continue conversations with people thst don't respect consent and boundaries? "

I had a person ask me the outher day if we could exchange pics of our wives on kick. Errrrr why. Shes not even on this site. But i bet she be if i had. And without her knowing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

"

On this site? It is still enforced so if you see any that have been passed by mistake please report.

The OP was talking about on KIK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone has just kik chatted me a d sent pics of his wife. Black bar over her eyes but still quite identifiable.

It hasn't been sent with her permission and its infuriated me. It isn't the first time someone has done this.

I am being unreasonable to not want to continue conversations with people thst don't respect consent and boundaries?

I had a person ask me the outher day if we could exchange pics of our wives on kick. Errrrr why. Shes not even on this site. But i bet she be if i had. And without her knowing. "

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Someone has just kik chatted me a d sent pics of his wife. Black bar over her eyes but still quite identifiable.

It hasn't been sent with her permission and its infuriated me. It isn't the first time someone has done this.

I am being unreasonable to not want to continue conversations with people thst don't respect consent and boundaries? "

Meet them then ask her in person if she knew about it maybe she does.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

On this site? It is still enforced so if you see any that have been passed by mistake please report.

The OP was talking about on KIK "

Yes, on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to see pics of me i refer them to my profile... i don't have naughty or action ones and even if i did i wouldn't swap them with some strange fecker on kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not going to be happy if you meet them OP so bum them off and find someone else.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

On this site? It is still enforced so if you see any that have been passed by mistake please report.

The OP was talking about on KIK

Yes, on here.

"

Have to be honest I rarely see photos with other people's faces (that shouldn't be in the photo) unblurred. If they are all you have to do is report it.

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By *r99mr99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Not being funny OP but you've not exactly hidden the women in your photos that we'll.

A

I was just about to post the same thing "

You're both right I forgot that was even on there. They both howvwe k ew the photo was going on here, and the obscurance was for the fab rules than to hide their identities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being funny OP but you've not exactly hidden the women in your photos that we'll.

A

I was just about to post the same thing

You're both right I forgot that was even on there. They both howvwe k ew the photo was going on here, and the obscurance was for the fab rules than to hide their identities "

Did the person that sent you the picture explicitly tell you , he didn’t have permission?

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By *r99mr99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Not being funny OP but you've not exactly hidden the women in your photos that we'll.

A

I was just about to post the same thing

You're both right I forgot that was even on there. They both howvwe k ew the photo was going on here, and the obscurance was for the fab rules than to hide their identities

Did the person that sent you the picture explicitly tell you , he didn’t have permission?"

Yes. I asked if he did and he said to send to a couple of mates yes but for random chats no

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I see single bloke pics on my updates with various women hanging off them.

It's a bug bear for me, shows total lack of respect.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I see single bloke pics on my updates with various women hanging off them.

It's a bug bear for me, shows total lack of respect. "

Yep, same here. They aren't a one off, it happens all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

It doesn't sit well with me .I doubt the majority know their intimate pix are all over a website.

Apart from couples profiles I think there should be a blanket ban of third parties in single people's profiles.

Total turn off for me."

Agreed but I'd like it to include all profiles.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I see single bloke pics on my updates with various women hanging off them.

It's a bug bear for me, shows total lack of respect.

Yep, same here. They aren't a one off, it happens all the time."

I used to have photos from meets on my old solo profile that featured others. Many of those pics also appeared on the other parties profile on here too.

I don't have an issue with people posting pics from fab meets, assuming consent has been given. But it would be good (if logistically tricky for the site) for them to be recognised as containing another fab member so that if for whatever reason the other party wanted them removing they could be, especially if they're leaving the site.

Other sites do have bans on singles posting pics of others in their profiles. It doesn't stop fake profiles being set up or singles setting up a couple's profile when there is no other half.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was speaking to a guy before who sent a very clear face picture of a girl sucking his dick.

Quick search for him on Facebook and that girl in his picture was his actual current girlfriend. Like why would you do that!?"

Bloody hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are pix all over here with randoms included in the photos.

Used to be when I first joined that they had to be obscured in some way.

This doesn't seem to be enforced anymore.

It doesn't sit well with me .I doubt the majority know their intimate pix are all over a website.

Apart from couples profiles I think there should be a blanket ban of third parties in single people's profiles.

Total turn off for me.

Agreed but I'd like it to include all profiles. "

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