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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or is fabs not what it used to be, Cuddles & I met on here four years ago and took a break and now rejoined but doesn’t seem the same or are we just remembering through rose coloured glasses

Any feedback on profile would be good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine "

I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe im remembering through a fog or as we both older now maybe looking at it differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your profile is really good and makes clear what you looking for , would you mind taking a look at ours and let me know what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is what you make it"

Very true. It’s completely different to when I joined. I’m having to ignore a lot of crap that’s not for me that wasn’t here in just over a year ago.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ive been here 12 years and its definetly changed especially over the last 4 years. Ive had a couple of friends come back and leave again because of the changes

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

It seems a little unsettled certainly. Been here under various guises for six years.

Must be Brexit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats kind of what im getting at i guess is there seems so much more crap and fake profiles etc than when we were on here before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We left because we found each other on here and wanted to be selfish for a few years by keeping to ourselves now we back and want to have fun

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I don't know I've only been on it a couple of years. I've heard it used to be a lot better before it was compromised though.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

There’s no doubt it’s changed over the past few years . So many more dreamers , fakes and time wasters .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think you might have a point there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah something definitely seems different and cant put my finger on it, although another poster mentioned brexit lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine

I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same. "

I've been here for about 13 years and it goes in circles, people come and people go. Some threads get repeated almost on a daily basis, others are new and refreshing. Some have me in stitches, others I take with a pinch of salt and just avoid

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Or is fabs not what it used to be, Cuddles & I met on here four years ago and took a break and now rejoined but doesn’t seem the same or are we just remembering through rose coloured glasses

Any feedback on profile would be good too "
it isn't the same as it was.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine

I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same.

I've been here for about 13 years and it goes in circles, people come and people go. Some threads get repeated almost on a daily basis, others are new and refreshing. Some have me in stitches, others I take with a pinch of salt and just avoid "

Like most things i guess , do you think this time of year has something to do with it too just after Christmas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is really a look at my profile thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isnt the same as before. I think there are to many fakes and people selling themselves( shall we say). But if you can see through them then its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads perfectly fine to me you’ve got some hot photos too!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"There’s no doubt it’s changed over the past few years . So many more dreamers , fakes and time wasters .

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God definitely x it seems a lot more tame now or maybe I've changed. Who knows x

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we only use fab to chat to friends and check out club parties we have only been on 2 years so dont know what it was like before

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"So this is really a look at my profile thread. "

Well the OP did ask for a profile critique Sherlock

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think broadly it’s the same. I think most people’s experience is heavily influenced by a small number of closer friends and if a few of them leave the site can feel quite different, when in fact it isn’t really.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'm sure there are more time wasters, cheaters and fakes than a few years ago.

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have been on and off here for about 6 years , definitely different, more timewasters , more fake profiles, more people that are here just to chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this is really a look at my profile thread. "

Not intended as such no more we cant believe how much fabs seems to have changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It isnt the same as before. I think there are to many fakes and people selling themselves( shall we say). But if you can see through them then its ok"

Yes most of the time we manage too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile reads perfectly fine to me you’ve got some hot photos too!"

Thats very kind of you thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s no doubt it’s changed over the past few years . So many more dreamers , fakes and time wasters .

God definitely x it seems a lot more tame now or maybe I've changed. Who knows x "

Your right it does but im wondering if that’s because me and cuddles are older and wiser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this is really a look at my profile thread.

Well the OP did ask for a profile critique Sherlock "

I did just in case we were missing something but genuinely started the discussion because we were wondering if others felt the same way about how fabs is now

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think there are less interesting people on these days. The sharp witted swingers that used to be on half of have left and there are a lot more non meeters, vanillas and a lot who read 50 shades readers on these days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there are less interesting people on these days. The sharp witted swingers that used to be on half of have left and there are a lot more non meeters, vanillas and a lot who read 50 shades readers on these days. "

I agree 100% and seems to be a combination of things maybe fab has had its day so to speak

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people "

Yes definitely and we are intending to go to clubs and parties now as a couple as new experience for me but cuddles is an old hand and can show me the ropes

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine

I’ve been here almost ten years and it’s always been the same. "

Yep.

Back after a four year sabbatical and can't see anything different at all.

A

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It works for me.

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By *argaret James200TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine "

I haven't been on as long as some people but I agree there are a huge amount of fake profiles, what is going on when you start talking to someone and they dissapear, their profile, their messages and your messages to them, as if they never existed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The circle of fab life, same ole shite / different people.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Yes I think it has changed, less people arranging meets on here. It still suits us , as I mainly use it for the forums and keeping in touch with friends. We tend to now go to parties and clubs, when we are on holiday, where it is easier to meet people

Yes definitely and we are intending to go to clubs and parties now as a couple as new experience for me but cuddles is an old hand and can show me the ropes "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we first joined eight years ago it went something like this . We check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact with someone we fancy , meet , have fun , all good .

From a couple of years ago it’s been more like this . Check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact , wait , and wait , then get a msg back a few days later at stupid o clock from a clearly pissed up guy . Block , move on . Or arrange a time and place , turn up , they don’t so back to dogging as at least you know what to expect and the people are actually there !

And this is why we can’t be bothered to meet any longer . I don’t think it’s fabs fault , but there are certainly way too many time wasters now .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we first joined eight years ago it went something like this . We check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact with someone we fancy , meet , have fun , all good .

From a couple of years ago it’s been more like this . Check out locals who are looking to meet , make contact , wait , and wait , then get a msg back a few days later at stupid o clock from a clearly pissed up guy . Block , move on . Or arrange a time and place , turn up , they don’t so back to dogging as at least you know what to expect and the people are actually there !

And this is why we can’t be bothered to meet any longer . I don’t think it’s fabs fault , but there are certainly way too many time wasters now ."

That’s exactly how we remember it

Just a shame its not the same anymore but if it wasnt for fabs myself and cuddles may have never met and fallen in love and im glad to hear that this still happens to people on here so its all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The circle of fab life, same ole shite / different people. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it is thats true, but just doesnt seem quite the same and so many fakes that spoil it for all that are genuine

I haven't been on as long as some people but I agree there are a huge amount of fake profiles, what is going on when you start talking to someone and they dissapear, their profile, their messages and your messages to them, as if they never existed."

Yes thats not very nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works for me."

And it did for us for

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