FabSwingers.com forum: What is it about you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the first thing people should know about you?

I rarely don’t read profiles, and I’m probably not alone.

So if we we’re talking what the most important thing I people should know about you before I get into a conversation that they may not like? Or what’s is it that completely gets your attention?

What is it about you that should be front and centre in your shop window?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I'm just unique.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'm polyamorous and it's not negotiable...but I also do casual fun from time to time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

that if someone hasnt read my profile they get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the first thing people should know about you?

I rarely don’t read profiles, and I’m probably not alone.

So if we we’re talking what the most important thing I people should know about you before I get into a conversation that they may not like? Or what’s is it that completely gets your attention?

What is it about you that should be front and centre in your shop window?

You rarely dont read or rarely do?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm just unique."

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not currently meeting..

Which people would only know if they read the profile

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there"
He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm just unique."

Like everyone else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s the first thing people should know about you?

I rarely don’t read profiles, and I’m probably not alone.

So if we we’re talking what the most important thing I people should know about you before I get into a conversation that they may not like? Or what’s is it that completely gets your attention?

What is it about you that should be front and centre in your shop window?

You rarely dont read or rarely do?

At least someone reads posts properly.

I’d say it’s more important to read profiles if you were actively seeking a sexual partner on here and not just chatting on a forum. *a reply to your other post below.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil."

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm polyamorous and it's not negotiable...but I also do casual fun from time to time. "

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I am no prince charming but don't think I'm a toad eather.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I can waffle on beautifully. Probably best not to get chatting with me if you're a stoic, one word reply sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am no prince charming but don't think I'm a toad eather. "

That’s what you’d lead with? Surely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ugly as can be to the point anything reflective grows legs, runs away then decides to smash

But i do have a rather large cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can waffle on beautifully. Probably best not to get chatting with me if you're a stoic, one word reply sort. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not currently meeting for sex - says on profile and if they miss that being the only thing on there then there is no hope!

When we are meeting the commonest 'misunderstanding'seems to be the fact we are a couple, not a cuck couple or a hotwife couple,....

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"that if someone hasnt read my profile they get blocked"

Cool. Do you put that as the first line on your profile text then?.......wait, there’s a paradox here.

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

That I’m a fetishist, which I think I make pretty clear on my profile. Still doesn’t stop people asking what I’m into.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud"
Just joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I’m a fetishist, which I think I make pretty clear on my profile. Still doesn’t stop people asking what I’m into.

People are stupid then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking."

You should say you're crap at back tracking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking.

You should say you're crap at back tracking

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I have the emoji after, then evil. I'm not a fan of Ted Bundy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking.

You should say you're crap at back tracking

I have the emoji after, then evil. I'm not a fan of Ted Bundy."

I prefer Al Bundy

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"People are stupid then

Yes... yes they are

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

That we're both disabled. It gets a positive response usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually alright once you get to know me.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking.

You should say you're crap at back tracking

I have the emoji after, then evil. I'm not a fan of Ted Bundy."

All right everyone -keep your eyes on him while we all edge towards the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually alright once you get to know me."

You are. You’re a dark horse

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm actually alright once you get to know me."

You're not canvassing for the Lib Dems are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not great with small talk or platitudes. Call me babe or hun or one of those sickly type names and we're done.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking.

You should say you're crap at back tracking

I have the emoji after, then evil. I'm not a fan of Ted Bundy.

All right everyone -keep your eyes on him while we all edge towards the door"
Funny fucker aren't ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m a switch, and only submissive to my partner (Mr) and don’t meet for sex without him. Surprising how many think I will, it’s in the profile, but they still ask. Guess it’s a case of “never know, unless you ask”

A massive issue I have are people who think, as I’m his sub, they can demand I be treated like chattel, to be given away. Wrong! I still have a say over my body, I choose to be submissive to my partner, no one else- they learn that though, haha x Viv x

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"That I’m a switch, and only submissive to my partner (Mr) and don’t meet for sex without him. Surprising how many think I will, it’s in the profile, but they still ask. Guess it’s a case of “never know, unless you ask”

Far too many people see the word "submissive" and wrongly assume this equates to "doormat" or "available for me to do with as I choose"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Copy and paste this into your profile. It’s as clear as a bell reading this post.

thank you fir this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Far too many people see the word "submissive" and wrongly assume this equates to "doormat" or "available for me to do with as I choose" "

Or lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I should have a health warning on the profile regarding the fact I talk...a lot. Don't see this myself

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with hair.......

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there He was a charming motherfucker apparently.

Just evil.

You really need to work on your thought filters -you do realise that you posted that thought out loud Just joking.

You should say you're crap at back tracking

I have the emoji after, then evil. I'm not a fan of Ted Bundy.

All right everyone -keep your eyes on him while we all edge towards the door Funny fucker aren't ya.

I like to keep my options open alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many people see the word "submissive" and wrongly assume this equates to "doormat" or "available for me to do with as I choose" "

I had one dominatrix demand I give her my partners details (very lazy as they’re on the profile) so she could tell him that he wasn’t a good dom as I wouldn’t give myself to her, a guy say he was going to message my partner to ask him for me, and another say I wasn’t being a good sub as I wouldn’t do as he said and meet him.

Haha, bless, there’s an etiquette to observe, and there’s such a thing as respect. I wouldn’t dream of being so rude, and not because I’m submissive but because I respect boundaries xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste this into your profile. It’s as clear as a bell reading this post.

thank you fir this. "

Thank you! It’s a breath of fresh air when people respond positively to me trying to explain my perspective. It doesn’t always happen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually alright once you get to know me.

You are. You’re a dark horse "

Yousay the sweetest things

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste this into your profile. It’s as clear as a bell reading this post.

thank you fir this.

Thank you! It’s a breath of fresh air when people respond positively to me trying to explain my perspective. It doesn’t always happen xx"

Your submission is a gift that you and you alone can share. Anyone who thinks otherwise really doesn't understand the dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me ice cream and im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just unique.

So was Ted Bundy but we won't go there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk too much- best way to shut me up- make me breathless...in A good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should know that I'm hard work to meet, not through lack of desire but lack of time. You should also know that I probably won't believe a single word you say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That we don't kiss and I don't like receiving oral sex, oh and we're soft swing.

Fabs version of undateable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can waffle on beautifully. Probably best not to get chatting with me if you're a stoic, one word reply sort. "

*Nods*

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"That we don't kiss and I don't like receiving oral sex, oh and we're soft swing.

Fabs version of undateable.

Fab-eunuch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your submission is a gift that you and you alone can share. Anyone who thinks otherwise really doesn't understand the dynamic."

Thank you. There are definitely some who don’t understand that. I’m not a commodity that can be used by just anyone. I trust him completely, hence my becoming submissive to him to the extreme that I have. Haha, has been a few hiccups, as sexually I’m not naturally submissive, but it’s something we share, and I will only share with him xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"That we don't kiss and I don't like receiving oral sex, oh and we're soft swing.

Fabs version of undateable.

Fab-eunuch?"

It's an option...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't take this place seriously.

But for some it's a matter of life and death

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By *yvanwy black wild childTV/TS
over a year ago

Northwich

I'm disabled but then the stil don't realise that even when the meet me as I don't let it stop me from having fun

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"That we don't kiss and I don't like receiving oral sex, oh and we're soft swing.

Fabs version of undateable.

Fab-eunuch?

It's an option..."

Fucked if i know -I just take out the trash round here

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