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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bi Curious I am confused as to what people mean by this I assume it’s a first timer who has never been with a women but from some of the messages I get it’s not the case ?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Maybe they have doubts, and want to try again to make sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they have doubts, and want to try again to make sure"
Possibly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Cliched response time - it means different things to different women. So for some it would mean they are still exploring their sexuality - even though they've had some experiences, it's been of varying levels. For others it would mean they are more straight than bi? Well, I've seen it used that way. It could mean they'd be "tempted" by the right woman.

It's really individual so you'd have to probably talk about it with the woman. (What a vague response, apologies!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take is as hasn't yet but is keen, or is just giving it a few goes to make sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own opinion. I class myself now as bi curious because I have had flings and relationships with women Many years ago.

It's not something I'm actively searching for but I'm not ruling out never going with a woman again.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Bi Curious I am confused as to what people mean by this I assume it’s a first timer who has never been with a women but from some of the messages I get it’s not the case ? "
For men Bi-Curious means they just suck dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cliched response time - it means different things to different women. So for some it would mean they are still exploring their sexuality - even though they've had some experiences, it's been of varying levels. For others it would mean they are more straight than bi? Well, I've seen it used that way. It could mean they'd be "tempted" by the right woman.

It's really individual so you'd have to probably talk about it with the woman. (What a vague response, apologies!)"
Not vague at all I probably wrongly assume they are first timers but may have had limited interaction with a women and they just haven’t decided yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means Mr wants a MFF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bi Curious I am confused as to what people mean by this I assume it’s a first timer who has never been with a women but from some of the messages I get it’s not the case ? For men Bi-Curious means they just suck dick. "
Simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It means Mr wants a MFF "
Yes usually and she will be a pillow princess ffs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It means Mr wants a MFF "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My own opinion. I class myself now as bi curious because I have had flings and relationships with women Many years ago.

It's not something I'm actively searching for but I'm not ruling out never going with a woman again.

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Fair enough

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

For me it means that I like bi play but have no emotional need for men and doubt I'd ever be in a relationship with one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Means different thing to different people like the Fab Straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means Mr wants a MFF "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd interpret that as - at very first stages of exploring sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your best asking individually, it’s pretty much like any term on here, everyone has a different opinion personally what it means. It’s like finding out what they mean by soft swing,, exhausting!!! To me it means they are curious about going with women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Not just exclusive to women.

I’m bi curious In my own way and not afraid to say so. Curious if I could feel turned on enough to open up sexually with a guy. Curious if I could get jiggy with a guy. Curious to know if I’m only trying to tick something off in my mind. Curious to know if I like it, will I still like women? It’s all curious.( But not done anything about it yet) and that’s it, that’s how I see BiCurious.

I don’t know what I would label someone who has tried it and not enjoyed it and wouldn’t do it again with the same sex. Straight probably.

Labels are curious and confusing on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Means different thing to different people like the Fab Straight "

Yep.

If in doubt just ask.

I've noshed a few knobs but not interested in any other interaction with men and would never meet one to one with one. If I was to change mine to 'bisexual' I'd be inundated with requests from single guys. Hence it's set as 'bi curious' because that to me is the closest I can get to bi playful or situationally bi. When we were meeting it was clear in the profile text. Had the odd chancer message but not too many.

There are many, many people who are so scared of being perceived negatively by folk that they'll stick 'straight' on their profile even if fully bi.

Always worth asking/discussing with anyone if you're unsure.

A

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It can mean almost anything and on Fab, that probably means that it can mean absolutely anything. Assuming it means that it's not a primary interest and pursuit, in general, is probably the reason it's most used.

Or a potential excuse and/or early warning, that they may not be that great in the sack?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

They are looking for a guinea pig ... that's how I feel sometimes anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*Not just exclusive to women.

I’m bi curious In my own way and not afraid to say so. Curious if I could feel turned on enough to open up sexually with a guy. Curious if I could get jiggy with a guy. Curious to know if I’m only trying to tick something off in my mind. Curious to know if I like it, will I still like women? It’s all curious.( But not done anything about it yet) and that’s it, that’s how I see BiCurious.

I don’t know what I would label someone who has tried it and not enjoyed it and wouldn’t do it again with the same sex. Straight probably.

Labels are curious and confusing on here. "
They certainly are and no it’s not just women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Means different thing to different people like the Fab Straight

Yep.

If in doubt just ask.

I've noshed a few knobs but not interested in any other interaction with men and would never meet one to one with one. If I was to change mine to 'bisexual' I'd be inundated with requests from single guys. Hence it's set as 'bi curious' because that to me is the closest I can get to bi playful or situationally bi. When we were meeting it was clear in the profile text. Had the odd chancer message but not too many.

There are many, many people who are so scared of being perceived negatively by folk that they'll stick 'straight' on their profile even if fully bi.

Always worth asking/discussing with anyone if you're unsure.

A"
Thats true a lot of ‘straight’women message me too confused.com

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are looking for a guinea pig ... that's how I feel sometimes anyway"
Yes probably on occasion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd interpret that as - at very first stages of exploring sexuality. "
Thanks Cixi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just make it clear I'm bi and if it's the case that I'm attracted to them. I've found the labels quite ambiguous, and met plenty of seemingly 'straight' women who actually aren't! Guaranteed that if I'm getting clit twitch over a lady she'll be completely and utterly straight!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just make it clear I'm bi and if it's the case that I'm attracted to them. I've found the labels quite ambiguous, and met plenty of seemingly 'straight' women who actually aren't! Guaranteed that if I'm getting clit twitch over a lady she'll be completely and utterly straight!

Peach x"
Glad it’s not just me then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi Curious I am confused as to what people mean by this I assume it’s a first timer who has never been with a women but from some of the messages I get it’s not the case ? For men Bi-Curious means they just suck dick. "

And if they do it with their fingers crossed they are Fab straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bi Curious I am confused as to what people mean by this I assume it’s a first timer who has never been with a women but from some of the messages I get it’s not the case ? For men Bi-Curious means they just suck dick.

And if they do it with their fingers crossed they are Fab straight. "
Its like topsy turvy world on fab straight women are gays as fuck and gay women are straight straight men suck cock and bi men won’t ffs help someone let me out

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I count myself as Bi-Cursious as I want to have sex with women but I’d not want to be in a relationship with a woman..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I count myself as Bi-Cursious as I want to have sex with women but I’d not want to be in a relationship with a woman.."
Thats cool I pretty much sleep only with women and I don’t want a relationship with them either

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i had bi curious when we first come on fab. Then i played with one lady off fab changed it to bi sexual it should still be curious as i need to gain more experiance as still quite a newbie really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would class myself as bi curious. I do find women sexually attractive but I haven't played with a lady... Yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bi curious. I do find women sexually attractive but I haven't played with a lady... Yet "
See that’s exactly my definition of bi curious

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I count myself as Bi-Cursious as I want to have sex with women but I’d not want to be in a relationship with a woman..Thats cool I pretty much sleep only with women and I don’t want a relationship with them either "

I guess in truth I am Bi as I’m no longer curious about sleeping with a woman, I’ve done it and I know I love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I count myself as Bi-Cursious as I want to have sex with women but I’d not want to be in a relationship with a woman..Thats cool I pretty much sleep only with women and I don’t want a relationship with them either

I guess in truth I am Bi as I’m no longer curious about sleeping with a woman, I’ve done it and I know I love it "

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

it would be nice to try with a women that likes to give as well as receive

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"They are looking for a guinea pig ... that's how I feel sometimes anyway"

Well they won't find one up there!

Pets at Home is over thattaway....

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"They are looking for a guinea pig ... that's how I feel sometimes anyway

Well they won't find one up there!

Pets at Home is over thattaway...."
nobody should feel that way thats awful i think thats one of the reasons why i havent tried again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't an option for bi, only in bed, or once in a blue moon at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bi curious. I do find women sexually attractive but I haven't played with a lady... Yet See that’s exactly my definition of bi curious "

I have done sexual things with a woman but I wouldn't class myself as bi sexual. I might do it again one day, but I might not and I would never have a relationship with a woman.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

very true mine isnt even that i have to really get on with the lady in question or its a no go

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sexuality isn't as simple as just saying straight, bi or gay - hence the kinsey scale.

I choose bi curious because there isn't an option for how I identify on fab.

I'm mostly straight but am bi playful or hetero-flexible in the right situation. I don't actively seek to play with women but if it feels right in a group play I will enjoy playing with both men and women. I have no desire to play one to one with a woman though.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Sexuality isn't as simple as just saying straight, bi or gay - hence the kinsey scale.

I choose bi curious because there isn't an option for how I identify on fab.

I'm mostly straight but am bi playful or hetero-flexible in the right situation. I don't actively seek to play with women but if it feels right in a group play I will enjoy playing with both men and women. I have no desire to play one to one with a woman though. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it would be nice to try with a women that likes to give as well as receive"
i am sure you will find someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexuality isn't as simple as just saying straight, bi or gay - hence the kinsey scale.

I choose bi curious because there isn't an option for how I identify on fab.

I'm mostly straight but am bi playful or hetero-flexible in the right situation. I don't actively seek to play with women but if it feels right in a group play I will enjoy playing with both men and women. I have no desire to play one to one with a woman though. "
i get that there are some many labels one for ever day of the week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are looking for a guinea pig ... that's how I feel sometimes anyway"
That sucks I have never felt like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I identified as bi-curious while I was checking it out to see if I liked it. I now say I’m pansexual but non-practising because I can fancy anyone regardless of gender, but for a long time I’ve only had sex with women. On Fab I use the label bisexual.

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By *he SurveyorMan
over a year ago

Bury

I think the best label for a lot of fun is “Try Sexual”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget the guys can be curious you are so sexist sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t forget the guys can be curious you are so sexist sometimes "
Cheeky see MistrBees comment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the best label for a lot of fun is “Try Sexual”"
Yes covers everything

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