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Uninvited friend requests

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By *teelcitycouple85 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

You all know the ones we’re talking about. No message, no interaction at all just a straight up friend request.

Anyone else wait until they’re offline, accept friend request, have a nosey then delete?

Or is that just us?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't be bothered doing that. I just ignore them.

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

I look at profile . And block . if they can't be bothered to chat why would I want to add them as a friend .

You should do what you feel is best OP .

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't get many but when I do they're usually from a profile that holds no interest for me anyway, so I just straight delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all know the ones we’re talking about. No message, no interaction at all just a straight up friend request.

Anyone else wait until they’re offline, accept friend request, have a nosey then delete?

Or is that just us?

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I used to when i first joined years ago, nowi get far too many so just ignore them...

FYI don't ever delete them as they just send a request again

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I do it when i can be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore ...leave them pending then they can’t resend ...if they send an instant request, they probably won’t be of interest to us anyway..

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yep check they are offline have a look then delete.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin


"Yep check they are offline have a look then delete. "

This !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've seen an increase in them since the new year.

Don't accept them and don't delete them as that way they can't resend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer look at my friends requests

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I click the button so the X new goes away, then leave it pending. If I'm in a bad mood I might block them.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Ignore, wait till they are off line then add peep at pics and then unfreind but be sure to tell them you weren't impressed with their pics so they know what you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do that sometimes, if I've been talking to them.

Silent profiles I ignore and do a mass delete every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all know the ones we’re talking about. No message, no interaction at all just a straight up friend request.

Anyone else wait until they’re offline, accept friend request, have a nosey then delete?

Or is that just us?

"

I used to do that but can’t be arsed. Don’t even delete the requests as this stops them trying to re-friend me

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Ignore, wait till they are off line then add peep at pics and then unfreind but be sure to tell them you weren't impressed with their pics so they know what you did. "

Nice idea.

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By *teelcitycouple85 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Would love to know how many people just accept, surely they can’t get much success from them. Whatever floats your boat I suppose, not for us. Few face pics in our friends pics and would hate to get a a knowing wink or nod while on the school run x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's way too short for silly games...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just delete those types ..we never look .. no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the exact same thing. It’s like a private little win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t bother looking at friend invites anymore, I don’t delete them either as it means that they can’t be sent again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't accept....save them up...then when they go offline for a while....then accept, have a gander at the pics and if they are horrid then delete or keep as applicable!! Simples

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By *teelcitycouple85 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"I don’t bother looking at friend invites anymore, I don’t delete them either as it means that they can’t be sent again "

Good thinking! Never thought of that before. Although it’s like a mini victory and a slap in the face for them having a nosey at their pics without them seeing yours haha. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm getting an unusually high volume of them just lately. My general response is to send a wink, if they look like they may be a well matched person: except that they've done something stupid. We can all make mistakes, so I'll have a little leeway with some people.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Ignore them.

While it sits there they are held in limbo.

They cannot send another

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