FabSwingers.com forum: What does this term mean?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Smaller BBW.......

Before the body shamer brigade comes out with their pitch forks and torches.... please understand the context of the question....

Someone describing themselves as a smaller Bbw is confusing and a oxymoron.....

This would be like me describing myself as a smaller BBC on my profile....

So please help a neophyte out....

What does the term smaller bbw mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 5ft?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Under 5ft?"

So it’s more to describe a bbw’s height, than body size?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Shorter in height probably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shorter in height probably."

This crazy..... I thought it meant they could lose 10-20 pounds and fall out of the bbw spectrum or gain 10-20 pounds and go full bbw or ssbbw...

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Message them and ask? I wanna know now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop using acronyms ASAP

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Radical solution..... Ask them!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Shorter in height probably.

This crazy..... I thought it meant they could lose 10-20 pounds and fall out of the bbw spectrum or gain 10-20 pounds and go full bbw or ssbbw..."

Is there a specific scale that denotes BBW or SSBBW.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've never heard of that before it it makes sense what the poster above says about there being a scale. Like penis size but for, dare I say it, fat people.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

[Removed by poster at 29/01/19 08:44:40]

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them! "

Almost too simple a solution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them! "

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

There's still a broad spectrum of what BBW covers.

Some might be in to chunky chicks but not SSBBW or vice versa

No harm in making it clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?"

Naked full length pic should do the trick. I suppose it's a way of saying a bit fat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Almost too simple a solution."

The email is sitting in my inbox..... I made this post because I’m not versed in bbw culture....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"Radical solution..... Ask them! "

This! It could apply to their height or dress size and you wouldn’t know for sure unless you asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shorter in height probably.

This crazy..... I thought it meant they could lose 10-20 pounds and fall out of the bbw spectrum or gain 10-20 pounds and go full bbw or ssbbw...

Is there a specific scale that denotes BBW or SSBBW.

I've been called a BBW. I don't feel I'm beautiful or fat enough to own that label. I'm an overweight average woman.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Almost too simple a solution.

The email is sitting in my inbox..... I made this post because I’m not versed in bbw culture....

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ask them or ask for a picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?

Naked full length pic should do the trick. I suppose it's a way of saying a bit fat."

I don’t ask for full naked pics off the bat....

All the pics on her profile are all lying down or ass shots.....

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?"

I meant ask them what small BBW means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?"

Ask them what they mean? You must have seen it on a profile?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Almost too simple a solution.

The email is sitting in my inbox..... I made this post because I’m not versed in bbw culture....

I'm Not sure there is a culture

if something intrumigues you on a profile the only person that can enlighten you is that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?

Naked full length pic should do the trick. I suppose it's a way of saying a bit fat.

I don’t ask for full naked pics off the bat....

All the pics on her profile are all lying down or ass shots....."

Get her to hold a Sky remote next to her arse for some perspective.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I suspect it's proportional.

Surely a 6" dick looks larger on a 5ft 8 stone guy than on a 6ft 3" 17 stone man mountain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?

Naked full length pic should do the trick. I suppose it's a way of saying a bit fat.

I don’t ask for full naked pics off the bat....

All the pics on her profile are all lying down or ass shots.....

Get her to hold a Sky remote next to her arse for some perspective. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the fuck cares

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Ask them their dress size ?

Height?

Weight?"

Is this really such a difficult concept? Do you want us to write it for you?

'I hope you don't mind me asking but you say on your profile that you are a smaller bbw. I've never seen that term used before so just wondering what you mean by that?'

Polite but to the point

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Almost too simple a solution.

The email is sitting in my inbox..... I made this post because I’m not versed in bbw culture....

I'm Not sure there is a culture

if something intrumigues you on a profile the only person that can enlighten you is that person. "

*intrigues

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Radical solution..... Ask them!

Almost too simple a solution.

The email is sitting in my inbox..... I made this post because I’m not versed in bbw culture....

I'm Not sure there is a culture

if something intrumigues you on a profile the only person that can enlighten you is that person. "

Bbw culture - Bbw parties and the men that admire them...

Kinda like BMFC

Good point, I’ll bite the bullet and ask...

I swore people on the forums would know the answer....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who the fuck cares

You couldn’t help yourself......

Shame

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16"

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

I might just wait it out until I get her on cam

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

I might just wait it out until I get her on cam"
what country is she in. If shes in us im guessing us sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

I might just wait it out until I get her on camwhat country is she in. If shes in us im guessing us sizes"
U .S 14-16 is wafer thin .(originally bbw meant big black woman)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

I might just wait it out until I get her on camwhat country is she in. If shes in us im guessing us sizes U .S 14-16 is wafer thin .(originally bbw meant big black woman)"
no it isnt. a size 0 in america is wafer thin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

I might just wait it out until I get her on camwhat country is she in. If shes in us im guessing us sizes U .S 14-16 is wafer thin .(originally bbw meant big black woman)no it isnt. a size 0 in america is wafer thin"

I think size 0 is a Uk 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im going to guess and say its someone around a size 16

That was her reply.... she is a 14-16... but is that UK 14-16 or US 14-16.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe height. Don't know to be honest. Have you asked the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you actually bothered what size she is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus. I just read through the thread. I see stuff like this all the time. Not this particular question but people asking other people what someone else they had spoken to meant. It's so weird to me that people don't ask people questions. Instead they'll go elsewhere for some kind of understanding or general consensus.

If you aren't sure or don't know....ask. That is the purpose of questions. To gain understanding. Surely this is something drummed into everyone at school.

Are people afraid to ask questions these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus. I just read through the thread. I see stuff like this all the time. Not this particular question but people asking other people what someone else they had spoken to meant. It's so weird to me that people don't ask people questions. Instead they'll go elsewhere for some kind of understanding or general consensus.

If you aren't sure or don't know....ask. That is the purpose of questions. To gain understanding. Surely this is something drummed into everyone at school.

Are people afraid to ask questions these days? "
. . .Can I have your bank details? ahhh go on !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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56-34-98

See, if you don't ask....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard that but would like to know the actual definition. My guess would be a size 16

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Too many people feel the need to label themselves or others for that matter its sad really someone can't be an individual as very few two people are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never heard that but would like to know the actual definition. My guess would be a size 16"

that's precise! That should be on gbe other thread about what things mean on profiles..

Smaller bbw - size 16

What's a 'bigger bbw?'

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I kind of like 'smaller bbw'... The whole bbw thing is an attitude and a confidence in your own body size and shape. It's embracing your curves on curves without feeling the need to attain to the media images of perfection. So it's having those standards and ideals at more of the curvy/ample end of the scale rather than large. Makes sense to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you actually bothered what size she is ?"

I’m not bothered what size she is , I’m simply confused....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you aren't sure or don't know....ask. That is the purpose of questions. To gain understanding. Surely this is something drummed into everyone at school.

Are people afraid to ask questions these days? "

You really don’t understand how sensitive people are these days....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many people feel the need to label themselves or others for that matter its sad really someone can't be an individual as very few two people are the same. "

Thank for your reply, but you haven’t given me a drop of knowledge....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I kind of like 'smaller bbw'... The whole bbw thing is an attitude and a confidence in your own body size and shape. It's embracing your curves on curves without feeling the need to attain to the media images of perfection. So it's having those standards and ideals at more of the curvy/ample end of the scale rather than large. Makes sense to me

I get what you’re saying about confidence and attitude...

But I think if we start using oxymorons to describe ourselves... we might open Pandora’s Box..

You will have black guys with 4 inch cocks describing themselves as smaller bbc’s.

Remember it’s a attitude and confidence thing...

What if someone describes themselves as a taller dwarf?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I get what you’re saying about confidence and attitude...

But I think if we start using oxymorons to describe ourselves... we might open Pandora’s Box..

You will have black guys with 4 inch cocks describing themselves as smaller bbc’s.

Remember it’s a attitude and confidence thing...

What if someone describes themselves as a taller dwarf?"
I have a small 6 pack and a small 10 inch dick.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I get what you’re saying about confidence and attitude...

But I think if we start using oxymorons to describe ourselves... we might open Pandora’s Box..

You will have black guys with 4 inch cocks describing themselves as smaller bbc’s.

Remember it’s a attitude and confidence thing...

What if someone describes themselves as a taller dwarf? I have a small 6 pack and a small 10 inch dick.

And i have small size triple G boobs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get what you’re saying about confidence and attitude...

But I think if we start using oxymorons to describe ourselves... we might open Pandora’s Box..

You will have black guys with 4 inch cocks describing themselves as smaller bbc’s.

Remember it’s a attitude and confidence thing...

What if someone describes themselves as a taller dwarf? I have a small 6 pack and a small 10 inch dick.

And i have small size triple G boobs."

I’m starting to see a pattern

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