FabSwingers.com forum: Who’s family and friends know there swingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well after almost swinging a year now and being on a lot of social media dating sites our parents needed to know what we do from the horses mouth rather than others! Since telling them we’ve found it a lot easier to relax and go for the ride!! How about you lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not something I shout about but then I hardly think people go up to their mum and say.....You will never guess mum I had a really fat 9inch cock last night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate says Fab has ruined my life in the respect that I can’t survive on boring vanilla relationship sex.

If she isn’t squirting everywhere screaming at me to fuck her ass I get bored easily!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mine no one...they would be terrified..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one! And I’m keeping it that way.

Hubby family know he is one as his ex wife told everyone including his sisters and his kids!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

my brothers... they've offered to join me on meets but wont join up the site unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody, and I'm keeping it that way

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Family know but not friends

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Pretty much all of my circle know. My family weren’t shocked. I had no reason to keep it a secret. We’re quite open about these things as long as I’m sensible they don’t really care.

I understand why lots of folk don’t divulge that information and that’s also fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends do, family don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of friends who know. They are so intrigued because isn't not something they would do but family... No way! Mother would have a fit

Jenny x

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I got the swinging 60s and what fun it was, swift exit when I told my mum

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Pretty much all of my circle know. My family weren’t shocked. I had no reason to keep it a secret. We’re quite open about these things as long as I’m sensible they don’t really care.

I understand why lots of folk don’t divulge that information and that’s also fine. "

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I have a couple of friends who know. They are so intrigued because isn't not something they would do but family... No way! Mother would have a fit

Jenny x"

Promise I won't tell anyone. I'm non-judgemental, local, and a lot older but experienced. Anytime you have a free evening, pop round.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

For the life of me I fail to see why anyone would want their parents and family to know about their sex life . And there’s nothing more boring than listening to friends who constantly bang on about it too .

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few select friends and my ex. That’s the limit and it’s how I’d like it to stay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends do, family don't

And similar to me; Select friends yes, family fuck, no.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Friends do, family don't

And similar to me; Select friends yes, family fuck, no.

my brothers think its brilliant!! haha

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

No one knows and if they find out or I tell them, I DON'T CARE.

I'm a human being I'm allowed a sex life weather it the boring sort (missionary, with the lights off) or the experimental,exciting one.

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By *arahBaby123Woman
over a year ago

WORCESTER

I made the mistake on confiding in my best friend who at first was intrigied but later declared ' You can't think much of yourself if you do that'.

My repose was 'actually the opposite is true..I am doing this because I think I am fuckity fabulous and I fuckity deserve this'.

My friend is banging a married guy and they are as miserable as fuck.

Yet I am the one being judged. Muggles eh?!Just cant fathom them out.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I told my parents because my ex husband & his new partner joined here & I didn’t want it being held against me. I wanted them to hear from me & no-one else. They were also my contact when meeting people. But I was actually a rubbish swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dogs are aware yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would anyone feel the need to mention it to family,,nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dogs are aware yes"

They haven’t caught you have they? Mine has once and I was mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dogs are aware yes

They haven’t caught you have they? Mine has once and I was mortified"

No but they’ve probably heard! And my ex fuck buddy was obsessed with pugs, and I have one so once we played, he’d get dressed and I’d bring through the pug. Probably spent more time playing with him than me sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum knows and was great about it x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"My mum knows and was great about it x"

brilliant

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

"For the life of me I fail to see why anyone would want their parents and family to know about their sex life . And there’s nothing more boring than listening to friends who constantly bang on about it too .

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

This exactly. But at the end of the day, it's all up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t tell anyone it’s no ones business but ours , we don’t have any interest in anyone’s sex life in the vanilla world and wouldn’t expect anyone to want to know about ours ..

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"We don’t tell anyone it’s no ones business but ours , we don’t have any interest in anyone’s sex life in the vanilla world and wouldn’t expect anyone to want to know about ours .. "

my brothers saw me with a local couple who were later 'outed' as swingers... they had absolutely no business being at my home, there my brothers and i trust them with my life! plus they want join me sometime haha

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

As far as we are aware no family or vanilla friends know that we are swingers and we would like it to stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Daughter knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine do

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Mine do... my eldest knows too and all are of the opinion as long as I'm happy and safe it's all good

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not one of my pre fab friends or family know i'm on fab. It's my delightful personal secret and _hillout is my alter ego / parallel life now. I'd equate it to a sexualised version of Clark Kent / Superman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine do... my eldest knows too and all are of the opinion as long as I'm happy and safe it's all good"

Mine are the same ... Never any details because details aren't needed about one's private life but we're all happy and supportive knowing we're all doing what makes us happy.

Also I have no insecurities about being outted ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister does , as she messaged on here and said Hi a few months back lol

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Ours know - including the kids (21+) - but we don't talk about it unless they ask. We find being honest saves us having to make excuses for not being available/going out/needing to know if the kids will be out etc.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

It isn't discussing sex life tho.. it's no different than coming out as bisexual or gay. Plus who wants to lie all the time when they go clubbing? It's not like family/friends shout about it plus it educates and will hopefully dispel the myth that it's something dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends. None of my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it really, especially as I’m single but I dont let friends or family know about my fantastic sex love.

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Couple of friends I inform of my whereabouts and send some pics when I am off to a meet. Mainly for safety in case someone turns out creepy..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Both family and friends know. They also know how bad I am at this.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Everyone I even have it tattooed on my forehead!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

My close friends do, was just easier to tell them the whole story when I got together with SSS.

They’ve been very accepting and intrigued!

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By *oungnCheekyCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Ours know and they don't mind at all, if anything there's a relief that we don't have to hide it

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Friends yes family no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends and family know. I never told my parents..my mum came out and asked..when I asked her how she guessed..she said your aunt has been to the same club.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Most of my friends and family know. With the exception of my younger children x

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

Yep, my friends and family know of my exploits as it were. It's secrets and lies that hury people more than the truth, in my opinion.

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By *wazuluMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

".....You will never guess mum I had a really fat 9inch cock last night! "

We should never kiss and tell

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Might save on the excuses for what we're up to but no! 2 friends know but that's it. They were curious but not horrified. Family... Wouldn't discuss sex life with them anyway and it's not like we're bringing anyone home to meet them so no need to tell

V x

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By *nk_and_starrCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Close friends know and my mum

His parents don’t they “wouldn’t get it”

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"Nobody, and I'm keeping it that way

Same. I like my privacy. This is my dirty little secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody I hope hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 4 walls of my bedroom know... ooohh and my neighbours..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

Even though mine know I'm on here, might go to the odd party or club ... I'd never tell them details as believe a private life is just that let's face it most people don't sit around and discuss their sexual details

but it is part of my life without any embarrassment! Just feel discretion and secret are separate things ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

This ^ ffs

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some of my/our freinds/family do, most dont. Not ashamed of it in the slighted but most just dont need to know that information.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say about 1/2 of friends do because they are from the swinging scene mainly ex swingers. The other 1/2 are football mates - so they know I am not innocent but keep out of asking to many questions

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Well after almost swinging a year now and being on a lot of social media dating sites our parents needed to know what we do from the horses mouth rather than others! Since telling them we’ve found it a lot easier to relax and go for the ride!! How about you lot?"

As far as I know, no one knows about my Fab/club life. I've never told anyone, other than my ex GF who's now a huge convert to the club scene.

Only reason I told her was it seemed a logical thing to disclose due to a conversation we were having and I trust her implicitly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion seems to be a thing of the past nowadays .

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I think my kids would be horrified if I told them. As far as they are concerned their parents don't have sex.............

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