FabSwingers.com forum: Resons why you will not show Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you pick which ones to show??why do you hide your ??? so people dont know what your up to as its for you to know not others ? I have in passed as had 1 or 2 woman here mailing all the men i meet local .. and was thinking thay needed to sort themselfs out not look at my feedback , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I hide mine because im fake and gave them all to myself

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Hidden because its no ones business who we have met...

And some are a bit too descriptive which I hate

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

DOH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide mine because im fake and gave them all to myself

Hey, what about the dozen we gave you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I hide mine because im fake and gave them all to myself

Hey, what about the dozen we gave you?

I read them all day long with a smile on my face

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Hide most of mine, I don't want everyone knowing im gradually seeing every single lady on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine as I found out one of my meets started messaging my other meets trying to stop them meeting me and telling them we were in a relationship!!! Complete bloody rubbish. So now I hide them and my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show enough to show I am not fake... I will often meet on spur of the moment and don't give out details such as my telephone number and address. So feel there is a huge element of trust involved when someone chooses to meet me and my verifications help that.

There are some I won't show... the most recent one describing me as a 'dirty slut' which I would not like anyone to think about me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show social ones, the more intimate are just that .... intimate.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We tend to show them all.

The only time we have hidden them is if we are not going to be logging on to the site for a long period of time.But then we tend to remove or hide everything.

On another site we have removed a couple totally but only because we had a few problems with the people that had sent them.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

There are some I won't show... the most recent one describing me as a 'dirty slut' which I would not like anyone to think about me!"

Hate when people write stuff like that....No need for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hide mine as I found out one of my meets started messaging my other meets trying to stop them meeting me and telling them we were in a relationship!!! Complete bloody rubbish. So now I hide them and my friends list"
yes i have had this too .Some woman can can get very bitchy at times say all sorts of crap to put people off ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)"

We represent with our massive 2 inches

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I show a few to prove that I'm genuine but not all otherwise people might think I'm a tart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use veris to show that we're the people we claim to be. We've no interest in using them like a display case of campaign medals

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

only show social ones, most of which refer to me as a nutter and can talk for Scotland....neither of which is true.

Play ones are between me, the meet and the pc.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

We represent with our massive 2 inches "

FUCK YEAH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am kinda private really and whilst am happy to receive and send a veri that states the person(s) turned up, was clean, friendly etc, I don't like veri's that are very explicit in their content

What happens behind closed doors should imho remain between the parties concerned

Hence the only ones I show are either social or 'basic' in their content.

Am also a bit 'funny' about befriending people who have an open friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show all of mine, the more explicit ones I keep to myself!

I do like to show some though as I think they are a good way of letting someone know what type of person I am, for instance a few of my verifications are from people I have met several times. To me it shows that I like to get to know the people I play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hide them .!. … I simply choose not to display them,,,,,

I’m on this site to meet people and I’m very happy with my success rate, but whom I’ve already met is my business and theirs alone.

I don’t find posting verifications effects my success rate one way or the other, nor do I find added value maintaining a friend list.

Sox ®™

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's an easy question to answer....

Because I have no verifications.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

We represent with our massive 2 inches

FUCK YEAH!!!

Funkster only has 1.5", I bit the other half inch off

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no buggars business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man i met said he wouldnt show his verification i left him because his other friend would get jealous, i show all mine but dont think people read them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no buggars business"
true , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A man i met said he wouldnt show his verification i left him because his other friend would get jealous, i show all mine but dont think people read them anyway."
yes i have some of that too , lol xx sad really i feel x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I just don't think they are important or of any real value, so I don't bother putting them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always show everything...good or bad.. we dont really give a shit what impression it gives other people... this is who we are...

like us or move on!!

Pauline Xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

We represent with our massive 2 inches

FUCK YEAH!!!

Funkster only has 1.5", I bit the other half inch off

It grew back, I have lizard in me.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It grew back, I have lizard in me.

Didn't the pet shop owner warn you about that already... your bum hole may be a warm place but it is not a suitable environment for geckos.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

show most , if someone is nice enough to send it, i think its nice to show it.Dont care what ppl think from reading themcos imnot interested in small minded ppl

There are a couple of very explicit ones i removed,simply cos i thought they were OTT and thats it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It grew back, I have lizard in me.

Didn't the pet shop owner warn you about that already... your bum hole may be a warm place but it is not a suitable environment for geckos."

We are both happy with the arrangement. Plus he keeps it clean.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A lot of the people I meet aren't 'officially' bi and obviously don't want to put anyone off who don't swing with bi people.

Having said that, some people I have met socially have been pretty happy not giving a damn what people think.

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Long story but we have now hidden ours, after someone decided they would use them as a way of getting meets.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

DOH!"

*Crosses funky off potential meet list*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Long story but we have now hidden ours, after someone decided they would use them as a way of getting meets.

L"
well i have come across this too xx i under stand why you do ... and i do some .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are some I won't show... the most recent one describing me as a 'dirty slut' which I would not like anyone to think about me!

Hate when people write stuff like that....No need for it!"

LOL one of the ones I won't show put 'not bad for her age', cheeky fecker!

I show 90% of mine. If the person _iewing my profile thinks I am a tart, or even a bike, for being sexually active on (gasp) a swinger site then they aren't the type of people I want to meet. However one guy recently used them to find a guy who would give me a lift to a MMF, which I thought was a bit cheeky. He could have asked if I wanted the MMF first!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

DOH!

*Crosses funky off potential meet list*"

DOH!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

DOH!

*Crosses funky off potential meet list*

DOH!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good way of making sure they aint packing pokemon :O

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I keep mine on for a reason, one to show im genuine, two to show that i want more from this than just a quick shag 3 to show that i have repeat meets although i dont put every repeat meet verification up. Also to show that i do have a genuine interest in meeting with tvs as its not so common for women. I only meet people with verifications, i dont read and analyize them i just read the top couple, but its part of my selection process.

However, if someone doesnt want to show their verifications thats perfectly up to them after all there is an option to either show or hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't 'hide' ours,we just don't display them. Reason? Their purpose is to verify that we're genuine,the green tick covers that. The text of any verification will be subjective and doesn't really tell anyone anything. It's not like people are gonna start displaying bad feedback. And even if they did it's still subjective. They're just opinions

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I put mine on so that people can see what others think of me.

I dont have an issue with what i am or who i am, but as a single guy i like people to know that i am what i say i am and also that i am a decent person as well as a kinky sod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos of my obsessive ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't think they are important "
same here..however, i value the one i have been given, because of the individuals who gave it...for that reason, i'd of happily given them a verification and not taken one in return...but as i found out, the facility doesn't opporate like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide ours cause there are s few and don't want to look like an easy lay, even tho we are!!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're not a 'notches on the bedpost' kind of couple. It's nobody's business but our own who we've met

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

We only show social veri's, who and what we get up to and with is no one's buisness but ours and the other people invovled.

If I wanted the world and his wife to know, I would take an advertisement in a daily rag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

We represent with our massive 2 inches

FUCK YEAH!!!

Funkster only has 1.5", I bit the other half inch off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops error was looking for the code for grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

We represent with our massive 2 inches

FUCK YEAH!!!

Funkster only has 1.5", I bit the other half inch off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my verifications because they always mention my nervous tick and little cock

Erm....yeah me too

I feel you bro!

(not literally, we are cool, straight bros with little cocks and ticks)

ooops did it again

We represent with our massive 2 inches

FUCK YEAH!!!

Funkster only has 1.5", I bit the other half inch off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine because they are from

Archbishop Rowan Williams*

Archbishop Desmond Tutu*

Pope Benedict*

Ann Widdecombe

Steven Hawking

Natasha Giggs

Rebecca Brookes (when she was Mrs Kemp)

Ellen Degeneres

Hilary Clinton

And they all asked me to be discreet.

* On the same night. Talk about bashing the bishop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some I won't show... the most recent one describing me as a 'dirty slut' which I would not like anyone to think about me!

Hate when people write stuff like that....No need for it!"

+1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nobody elses business but my own. I wouldnt go out into the street shouting, so why should I publish it online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately had them used by an idle browser who has pinged the hopefull message to whoever is on my verification,the opening message to them, "ohh hi im a good friend of fine DBS",hmmm, why dont i appreciate that? Dunno, would'nt be so bad if i did know them,but nope,usually news to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided not to show any from Day 1, does not appear to have done me any harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none hidden xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lately had them used by an idle browser who has pinged the hopefull message to whoever is on my verification,the opening message to them, "ohh hi im a good friend of fine DBS",hmmm, why dont i appreciate that? Dunno, would'nt be so bad if i did know them,but nope,usually news to me.

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yes i have had this too .. x saying thay know me its weird what some will do to get meets here.

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