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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"

If you’re not interested just ignore her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete it and ignore if you feel that strongly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t trust her delete block and move on

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Yes youve answered your own question =you dont trust her! so its not going to work.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Just don't email back. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"

I'd be honest, say you don't want contact with her because you don't trust her anymore.

Or ignore it and she'll get the message eventually.

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By *hunks91Man
over a year ago

port talbot

If she meant anything to you email back stating that you cannot forget what she done, and you therefore do not wish to have anything to do with her.

Or if you can forgive and forget then let things go and just don’t fall back in love with here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously she's your ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you ask that? What are you hoping for in response? Maybe you should speak to her and her why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something similar a few weeks ago.

It's it was tricky because I knew it was toxic and shouldn't go there again but at the same time I still had feelings for him. it's not always as easy as just ignoring it.

In my case I did ignore it but I understand your dilemma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you wanna have fun with her

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tell her you don’t want what she is offering and ask her to not contact you again.

Be firm but polite.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Hey.... From me as your friend - tell her how you feel and why, then ask her not to make contact again.

If she does then look at blocking her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've blocked her email address which has instantly deleted the email.

I've moved on from what happened and I've never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone.

It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone.

It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart."

Sounds a wise choice.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

If it was me I would ignore and move on as it wpuld mess with my head.

But each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone.

It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart.

Sounds a wise choice."

Indeed it was. I didn't want to send a reply back so I thought it would be best to just instantly block.

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"

Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?"

Why all the hassle of a pub when you can ask on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"

Yes. That is what you must do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Yes. That is what you must do."

Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you feel strongly about it. Water under the bridge? What’s in the past is in the past?

Or fuck you, I dealt with your shit years ago?

Pick one.

*a more sensitive personalised advice would need all your details of what happened and back history of both your lives.

P.s I’m not a councillor.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?"

He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Yes. That is what you must do.

Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again."

Good! On with life now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Yes. That is what you must do.

Already done as I didn't want all that hassle again.

Good! On with life now

Yep. Onwards and upwards

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?

He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends"

Yes true, theres no REAL friendships anymore anyway, especially in northern countries

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Man you must be a lonely keyboard warrior to post this one on here...havent you got a mate to go for a pubt and chat..?

He's simply a man who's come into the forum for advice. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about this with his friends

Yes true, theres no REAL friendships anymore anyway, especially in northern countries"

That isn't my experience. I have real, long standing friendships. One of which is 50 years in duration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life...never go back.The right girl could be waiting round the next corner.(unless the police have moved her on.lol!)

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Did you a sense of dread when you saw the message or a kick of excitement?

Either way, go with your gut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you a sense of dread when you saw the message or a kick of excitement?

Either way, go with your gut!"

When I received the email a couple of hours ago, I felt dread so blocked her email address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone.

It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart."

Good for you. You deserve better. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone.

It was tough but I think I made the right decision of keeping it in the past as I don't want to be friends with someone who broke my heart.

Good for you. You deserve better. X"

Yeah I sure do.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"Did you a sense of dread when you saw the message or a kick of excitement?

Either way, go with your gut!"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Go with your instinct and you will never go far wrong,good luck.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Without knowing what happened in the past couldn't possibly advise, but may you could try again on a different footing, have some fun just as a FB couple maybe she just needed some extra cock, lots of couples on here are happy to enjoy this basis.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

To the OP, I'm glad you got it sorted, you have to do what's right for you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To the OP, I'm glad you got it sorted, you have to do what's right for you. X"

Thanks. I definitely did the right thing by blocking, moving on and not looking back.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?"

Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.

Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.

I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.

Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.

I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse."

sounds like the most sensible thnig to do no point opening up old wounds and having the issues that come with it best just to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave it ex's are ex's for a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My previous ex has somehow got in touch with me by email recently and wants me to be her friend again.

I don't want to email back as I can't trust her after what happened over two years ago.

What must I do? Should I block her email address and delete the email?

Ignore and block. Don't enter into any kind of dialogue with her as it will just escalate.

Already ignored and blocked her email address yesterday.

I agree that any form of dialogue would only make it worse.

sounds like the most sensible thnig to do no point opening up old wounds and having the issues that come with it best just to move on. "

I couldn't agree more.

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