FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting name dropped

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Just looking over the fab legends thread and reminiscing about the people that I've remembered from my time on fab. Several people have mentioned current or recent incumbents in their posts and apologised to others that they've missed off, but does it actually bother people if you don't get name dropped on popularity threads like that?

Honestly now folks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice to be acknowledged publicly but if I'm not it doesn't bother me at all.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We never get mentioned, it used to bother me but now it doesn't.

We can't all be popular, liked or even noticed.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m still sulking

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm well pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a happy bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We never get mentioned, it used to bother me but now it doesn't.

We can't all be popular, liked or even noticed. "

I notice ya.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Just looking over the fab legends thread and reminiscing about the people that I've remembered from my time on fab. Several people have mentioned current or recent incumbents in their posts and apologised to others that they've missed off, but does it actually bother people if you don't get name dropped on popularity threads like that?

Honestly now folks... "

I’ve not looked at it - but no!

I dip in and out of the forums fairly regularly - but I’m far too busy having mind blowing sex with nice people to concern myself with who the ‘legends’ might be!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

No. I’ve never started a thread that wasn’t related to Ebay. I’m hardly going to be unforgettable on that basis.

Besides, there’s more to life than Fab notoriety so onwards and upwards.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeaaah. I'm distraught.

I'd much rather get a message from someone I like than a mention on the forum to be honest. I guess if I wasn't using the forum/on the forum any more and heard I'd been mentioned, depending on who by, I'd be tickled.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

No. I’ve only started using this profile again recently. It does bring back great memories from when I 1st ventured into the forums though

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We’re only newish so we’d have no chance of being mentioned in a thread like that but it’s always good to see others

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No. I’ve never started a thread that wasn’t related to Ebay. I’m hardly going to be unforgettable on that basis.

Besides, there’s more to life than Fab notoriety so onwards and upwards."

I agree, I always find though that on those types of threads you get the 'not me then?', '*checks for name*' or 'I'm not bothered' type messages. If they weren't bothered then why post?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes we throw a big strop and go and sit in the corner sulking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly now folks... "

I'd be more likely to appear in a Hall Of Shame thread, so I'm happy not being mentioned at all.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve been here years too so a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

same

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

Me too, me too...

No one remembers me now, let alone from back then! *sobs*

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I occasionally get a mention on those type of threads and whilst it's nice to be acknowledged, it more often than not bemuses me as I certainly don't think I am anything special or more worthy of a mention than a whole lot of others who aren't.

Doesn't bother me in the slightest if I'm not named though.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Its a happy bonus"

This

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yeah I’ve been here years too so a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss like"

Perhaps you confuse people with the constant name changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt I have been mentioned but no doesn't bother at all.... Sob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m throwing a massive tantrum

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No it doesn’t bother me. I like to name people occasionally ... if I can remember their name!

The only time I notice it about myself is when privately someone is saying they want to meet me but publicly they name lots of people other than me. Even then I’m more curious as to why than anything else. From a privacy perspective it works for me.

I find it a little uncomfortable when people moan about not getting mentioned. That’s my honest answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I read them to see who I've forgotten over the years.

I change my name often, so people don't become attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could remember all my names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it doesn’t bother me. I like to name people occasionally ... if I can remember their name!

I find it a little uncomfortable when people moan about not getting mentioned. That’s my honest answer

I think it's because they want to keep their sex life private. The ones they are really interested in meeting stay behind closed doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I could remember all my names

I remembered Floro. There's no chance I could associate you with your other names.

I had a couple of mine written in my notes on my phone, for when I log out and forget my sign in details.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Don't wish to talk about it (sulks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now being name dropped by someone you wanted for ages but u wernt sure knew you existed thats where its at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind getting mentioned , just enjoy the forums

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No it doesn’t bother me. I like to name people occasionally ... if I can remember their name!

I find it a little uncomfortable when people moan about not getting mentioned. That’s my honest answer

I think it's because they want to keep their sex life private. The ones they are really interested in meeting stay behind closed doors. "

Yes, I think you’re right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’ve been here years too so a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss like

Perhaps you confuse people with the constant name changes"

Maybe, in order then...

ClamClub, BeefDripping, Athena, TeaBag, Fag&Slippers, MissWilkes, TheEmpress, GoochSniffer, Atropos, AnnieWilkes, LookAtMyHooves

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

A lot of those names are people who’ve stood out for me in the forums over the years, so I think it’s great they get a mention.

There’s probably loads of others worthy of it too though. Don’t ask me though - I’m shit with names until I see them talked about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly now folks...

I'd be more likely to appear in a Hall Of Shame thread, so I'm happy not being mentioned at all."

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

Me too, me too...

No one remembers me now, let alone from back then! *sobs*"

I remember you beardy bollocks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’ve been here years too so a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss like

Perhaps you confuse people with the constant name changes

Maybe, in order then...

ClamClub, BeefDripping, Athena, TeaBag, Fag&Slippers, MissWilkes, TheEmpress, GoochSniffer, Atropos, AnnieWilkes, LookAtMyHooves"

I applaud you , I can’t remember mine except for my first and present one

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By *ayMyName2018Man
over a year ago

Where the Wild Things Are

I’ve been on Fab for 10 years or so, 3 name changes. Not mentioned once.

Really couldn’t care less TBH

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's nice getting a mention but not concerned if I don't. I don't trawl threads looking for myself

I named a lot on the legend thread the other day, could have named more who stand out for me, but it was getting a tad long already and I can't remember everyone, it's hard enough remembering what I did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly now folks... "

Not at all, you can tell how popular you are by the amount of posts you get in the threads you post, I'm lucky if I get over 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on Fab for 10 years or so, 3 name changes. Not mentioned once.

Really couldn’t care less TBH

We must’ve crossed paths ...

I’m useless at remembering names but I remember faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly now folks...

Not at all, you can tell how popular you are by the amount of posts you get in the threads you post, I'm lucky if I get over 20"

Not necessarily....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt I have been mentioned but no doesn't bother at all.... Sob! "

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

Me too, me too...

No one remembers me now, let alone from back then! *sobs*

I remember you beardy bollocks!!

Ive never thought of myself, or set out to memorable, I don't court controversy and purposefully try to keep myself to myself in general. I would much rather the things that I write be remembered than myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the way to get popular is post about 10 threads a day,grind people down, oh and 4 of them have to be snog fuck blah blah threads

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Doesn't bother us in the slightest. Don't need validation from strangers to know that we are great people. Don't tend to meet people from the forums and have never come across any of the regular posters in clubs. Both been here along time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not really because I don't check them.

Years ago someone started a thread saying how beautiful my hair is. About two people agreed and the remaining posts pointed out that I wasn't all that and named various others who had much better hair than mine.

. I've never liked popularity contests since I came second in a beauty competition aged nine, there were two entrants...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Not really because I don't check them.

. I've never liked popularity contests since I came second in a beauty competition aged nine, there were two entrants...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"No. I’ve never started a thread that wasn’t related to Ebay. I’m hardly going to be unforgettable on that basis.

Besides, there’s more to life than Fab notoriety so onwards and upwards.

I agree, I always find though that on those types of threads you get the 'not me then?', '*checks for name*' or 'I'm not bothered' type messages. If they weren't bothered then why post? "

I suspect that could be because someone who they are messaging daily and who they think they are in with, has mentioned someone else other than them, and they’re a bit peeved.

Just a thought. Some folk get quite territorial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really because I don't check them.

. I've never liked popularity contests since I came second in a beauty competition aged nine, there were two entrants...

Seriously ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I’ve never started a thread that wasn’t related to Ebay. I’m hardly going to be unforgettable on that basis.

Besides, there’s more to life than Fab notoriety so onwards and upwards.

I agree, I always find though that on those types of threads you get the 'not me then?', '*checks for name*' or 'I'm not bothered' type messages. If they weren't bothered then why post?

I suspect that could be because someone who they are messaging daily and who they think they are in with, has mentioned someone else other than them, and they’re a bit peeved.

Just a thought. Some folk get quite territorial."

I find stalking them daily works

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not really because I don't check them.

. I've never liked popularity contests since I came second in a beauty competition aged nine, there were two entrants...

Seriously ?? "

Seriously. This was 1965.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m f’in fuming.

Not really, it would take myself too long to scroll through to check. I’d hope someone would tell me...like the ‘am I on your hotlist’ thread. 1. I repeat 1. I’m elated about that (thanks Dave) but at the same time it’s crappy you know. But at least they let me know directly.

It’s a good job I’ve got a good sense of humour and can laugh about all this, I read a lot of you guys and lots Stand out for good reasons and could easily name a few. I’ve spoken directly with those and opened up my PMs to them. Some block single males and I can’t send a message, but name them in a thread? I did it once. Hello MissV.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"No. I’ve never started a thread that wasn’t related to Ebay. I’m hardly going to be unforgettable on that basis.

Besides, there’s more to life than Fab notoriety so onwards and upwards.

I agree, I always find though that on those types of threads you get the 'not me then?', '*checks for name*' or 'I'm not bothered' type messages. If they weren't bothered then why post?

I suspect that could be because someone who they are messaging daily and who they think they are in with, has mentioned someone else other than them, and they’re a bit peeved.

Just a thought. Some folk get quite territorial."

Understatement

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"I’m f’in fuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice to get a mention but it really doesn't bother me if I don't. I think the so called "Ledgends" are the folk that invest a hell of a lot of time in the Forums, plus they are quick- witted, funny and very good with words and expression.

Dan Berks deserves a mention; always like his posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know if there’s ever one I don’t get mentioned on.

(Brilliantwhitetoothgrinface)

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I actually got an affectionate mention / name drop ...I was super chuffed.

How did that happen?...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think the way to get popular is post about 10 threads a day,grind people down, oh and 4 of them have to be snog fuck blah blah threads"

That’s where I’m going wrong then, I can honestly say I have never posted on those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll let you know if there’s ever one I don’t get mentioned on.

(Brilliantwhitetoothgrinface)"

Or quoted on.

there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll let you know if there’s ever one I don’t get mentioned on.

(Brilliantwhitetoothgrinface)

Or quoted on.

there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My humour is wasted on you all.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's very nice to get complimented but I'm rarely, if ever, 'named' on any of those popularity type threads - which is hardly surprising and therefore not an issue, if, like me, you post irregularly (I honestly don't know how some people find the time to use the forums as often as they do!), are a woeful flirt and don't do very much to grab others' attention (which can take all sorts of forms). Anyone who's 'bothered' by being 'ignored' could do well to remember that unless you actually know someone personally, the impression you have of them from their popular online personna might be somewhat different from who they really are - I've certainly seen a few people being praised for stuff that's rather at odds with what I've heard about and/or seen in real life. And if you are someone who gets hurt by such things why torture yourself by scanning those kind of threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

Me too, me too...

No one remembers me now, let alone from back then! *sobs*"

Who were you before?

I can't remember names. I very rarely recognise people when they even just change their profile pics. Changed names I have no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone likes to be noticed

but no, not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh nooooo I’ve always dreamed of Being a fab celeb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes to be noticed

but no, not really.

Believe me, being noticed is not always a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes to be noticed

but no, not really.

Believe me, being noticed is not always a good thing

Find a better tree to hide in or get binocular with a better zoom next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes to be noticed

but no, not really.

Believe me, being noticed is not always a good thing

Find a better tree to hide in or get binocular with a better zoom next time

A camouflage mac

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Yes it fucking does!

I've been here fucking years for Christ's sake!

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I appreciate you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone likes to be noticed

but no, not really.

Believe me, being noticed is not always a good thing

Find a better tree to hide in or get binocular with a better zoom next time

Ha fucking ha.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Yeah I’ve been here years too so a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss like"
and you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying not to be noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for years and have very rarely been name dropped. It doesn't upset me at all.

Granted it would be nice to think I'm memorable but it's not a bad thing to just blend in either x

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