FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting - are you any good at it?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a useless flirt and rarely tell if someone is flirting with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Bloody rubbish. And dirty talk. I’m on totally the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "

Haha I'm rubbish at seeing the signs and flirting, and I don't have much hair to twirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Bloody rubbish. And dirty talk. I’m on totally the wrong site

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snap with the dirty talk ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im better at it in person than on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it accidently all ghe time

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'm better at in person than online as I can then see their body language and facial expressions and also if their is that glint in their eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue at doing it or knowing if someone is flirting with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’

Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.

So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits on you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mates say im an unintentional flirt , especially in a pub. I can never tell if a lass is flirting with me though. Figure that one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "

Nice move.

I wish I could say that a sit squeezing my nipples whilst licking my Lips looking at them at them, but I can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’

Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.

So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible. "
did you go for the fingers or crackers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a stunning blonde in the supermarket and I just walked right up to her and I said ‘Has anyone ever told you, you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables ?!’

Cut to 20 minutes later and I’m back home tucking into a rather lovely cheese dip.

So in answer to your question, no I’m terrible. did you go for the fingers or crackers?"

Always with the fingers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nice tits on you op "

You’ve got this flirting off to a fine art.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always flirting just not very good at it and rubbish at telling if people are flirting back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice tits on you op

You’ve got this flirting off to a fine art. "

French charm for you.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nope, wouldn’t know where to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, wouldn’t know where to start

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms I’m a survivor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

Oh wow I have a rug that would look perfect for you to lie on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

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my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Nope, wouldn’t know where to start

Your eyes are like deep wells of desire, once in your arms I’m a survivor."

I'm a survivor (what), I'm not gon' give up (what)

I'm not gon' stop (what), I'm gon' work harder (what)

I'm a survivor (what), I'm gonna make it (what)

I will survive (what), keep on survivin' (what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
are you twirling your hair now???

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow"

Oh Moo you haven’t

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm absolutely dreadful at flirting. Flirt skill level 0.

I'm even worse at noticing if someone's flirting with me.

I am genuinly shit at everything flirt related.

How I ever manage to have the sex is one of life's greatest mysteries.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

As a man you have to be so careful these days before flirting in the real world .

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m not good at spotting the signs. I’m do try to read body language and look for hair twirling lo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

Oh wow I have a rug that would look perfect for you to lie on

But the beds more comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow"

Me flirty cow! More like feisty cat with claws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm a big flirt but I don't know I'm doing it. I'm told it's all in the eye contact I give, the touching my hair, my giggle and apparently I'm quite touchy feely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I'm a big flirt but I don't know I'm doing it. I'm told it's all in the eye contact I give, the touching my hair, my giggle and apparently I'm quite touchy feely "

superflirt

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

Oh wow I have a rug that would look perfect for you to lie on

But the beds more comfortable

I'm always open to suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I'm useless at flirting wouldn't know what to do

my arse iv seen u keep up with me many times ya flirty cow

Me flirty cow! More like feisty cat with claws

Id tame ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a man flirting with a woman now considered ‘toxic masculinity’ ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Nope, I am rubbish at it

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me. "

Hello cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think they are being nice and no don’t have a clue really, unless they tell me...

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I just think they are being nice and no don’t have a clue really, unless they tell me...

HOW much more obvious do I need to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that would be for the flirtee to say. But I used to be more flirtatious in real life than I am now. I can recognise the difference between someone being attentive and friendly, versus lighthearted friendly flirting, versus I’d really like to get in your pants flirting. Although the line between the last two can be less clear depending on circumstances.

On here it’s easy to flirt but it’s mostly just banter. It’s also easier to be overt about wanting to get horizontal with someone, so distinguishing real interest is easier.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.

Hello cleavage

Eyes up man!

oh there isn’t any eyes

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.

Hello cleavage

Eyes up man!

oh there isn’t any eyes

Now there's a cock up

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Is a man flirting with a woman now considered ‘toxic masculinity’ ? "

No.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.

Hello cleavage

Eyes up man!

oh there isn’t any eyes

Now there's a cock up

You’re forever making mistakes

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"In person? No I don’t notice. I suppose it would depend on how obvious they made it.

On here ... I can’t flirt but I don’t take any of it seriously, it is just a bit of silliness unless someone talks to me privately and makes it clear to me.

Hello cleavage

Eyes up man!

oh there isn’t any eyes

Now there's a cock up

You’re forever making mistakes

It's what I do best

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Is a man flirting with a woman now considered ‘toxic masculinity’ ?

No. "

Jesus, if it was i'd be put away for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to flirt when we are out in the city, bar hopping. Sometimes it yields good fun, sometimes it doesn’t but it’s great to try.

Scarlett is a natural flirt, although she would say differently. It is easier for her as she only has to smile at someone at the bar and they seem to part the crowds as if they had Devine intervention to get close for a chat.

With me it’s more difficult but if we are having a conversation with a couple it’s lovely to flirt with the lady. Always wary that there’s a fine line to be on the right side of. Black eyes are not very becoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wolf whistle!

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I'm utterly hopeless at flirting and reading signals. The hair playing thing that a woman does, and suggestive biting of their bottom lip, are things I find a real turn on though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start off flirting then before you know it end up saying something wildly inappropriate or incredibly cheesy.

My brain to mouth filter is broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm poop at flirrtin but once I get started I'm a right minx

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am when I really fancy her

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm horrendous at flirting. Once was chatting to someone at a table with mates and one scurried away- apparently she was laughing because I'd brought up nominative determinism. She felt it was a perfect example of me not getting the hang of talking to people I fancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
You may be able to help me (not literally) As I walk down the street,which does happen.I get a ridiculous amount of women that start playing with their hair.I have some times wondered what is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. You may be able to help me (not literally) As I walk down the street,which does happen.I get a ridiculous amount of women that start playing with their hair.I have some times wondered what is that."
Sometimes..one word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never notice and have to be told about it, likewise if a lady likes me I’m never sure until she tells me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 years and my wife still flirts with me - it’s actually quite lovely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly....

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly....

Peach x"

It stops being just friendly when you're rubbing their cocks through their trousers

I'm awful at it, even worse for picking up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't realise I'm doing it ... It has been pointed out though but I don't mind ... Better to be flirty than miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I don't ever stop! I don't even realise I'm flirting some of the time! Probably explains why 80 year old men ask me on dates at work, I think I'm being nice and friendly....

Peach x

It stops being just friendly when you're rubbing their cocks through their trousers

Eurghhh...give me some credit, that only happened a couple of times...

I'm awful at it, even worse for picking up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have no idea really but get told I'm good at it and apparently always doing it.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Have no idea if someone's flirting with me but aparently I'm an amazing flirt according to the people I work with haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think they are being nice and no don’t have a clue really, unless they tell me...

HOW much more obvious do I need to be xx

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are you telling me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

In person i can’t tell at all.

I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.

On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In person i can’t tell at all.

I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.

On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all."
id bum ya

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"In person i can’t tell at all.

I never know if someone fancies me unless they straight out tell me or their tongue is down my throat.

On here i just assume they are playfully teasing and don’t fancy me at all.id bum ya

Stop ya teasing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm embarrassingly awful at it

and someone has to make it blindingly obvious to me or I don't get it lol.

I never think anyone wants to flirt with me so I assume they're acting weird for shady purposes

Shocker I'm single innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m told I must have kissed the Blarney Stone! Wouldn’t say flirting so much just like the sound of my own voice sometimes !! Filth talk , well I like to think I have the ability

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I just wolf whistle!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I don't realise I'm doing it ... It has been pointed out though but I don't mind ... Better to be flirty than miserable

How on earth does not being flirty equate to being miserable?!

I'm hopeless at both doing it and recognising that someone is flirting with me and even when I do vaguely think someone *might* be flirting I'm at a loss for words to know what to say and often the person concerned will pass me by as a result.

Even in meet situations on here, my awkwardness with it knows no bounds and I often get round the flirting bit by just making a more direct move if I think it will be welcomed.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Flirting 7/10 at a push

Dirty talk 2/10

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x"

Think it comes naturall in the flesh, I think we don’t realise we’re doing it most of the time, I think if I actually decided I liked someone and maybe thought “I’ll flirt” I’d be clueless and guarantee I’d fuck up end up having the reverse effect

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x

I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m awful and can’t tell if people are flirting with me

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't think I'm very good at it and hopeless at reading signs.

It'd be so much easier if someone just said, "I fancy you".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x

I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x"

Yes speak 100 miles an hour (as opposed to 90) say things so random and unrelated that just leave them confused, and possibly trip over, spill something on my top, u can picture the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell when a man fancies me. He gets that look of hope in his eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can tell when a man fancies me. He gets that look of hope in his eyes."

Ohh I love the sass!!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Crap at picking up signals off others but been pointed out to me that I'm a shameless flirt. Never realised I was. Better in person flirting than in messages though x

I agree. It's an unconscious thing. When I really like someone in the flesh I'm hopeless at it. I get all awkward x

Yes speak 100 miles an hour (as opposed to 90) say things so random and unrelated that just leave them confused, and possibly trip over, spill something on my top, u can picture the scene

I've lived that scene haha x

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

"I often don’t notice the signals at all that someone is interested. I realised I twirl my hair with my fingers when I like someone. "
I do this to most of time in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm atrocious at it!

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