FabSwingers.com forum: Curious question about message volume

By *inkGent OP Man
over a year ago

London

So I saw this article in the Sun

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/real-life/8169796/fab-swingers/

(not my paper of choice but hey) and I was interested to see just how many messages women get.

I know it is a lot from the what friends have told me, and I have a couple page that gets quite busy too at times - but wow it really is alarming. Also, I read in Vice that the site has exploded in popularity since the disappearance of many personals boards like Craigslist. So, it won't get much better for mail volume.

So, my question to single women, and popular couples is this: how bad is the volume and how do you handle it?

And how do you filter guys? Is it pics? Subject headings? Do you open messages at all? Also, what's the best intro you have ever had? Curious to get views. (Also, any lucky guys our there who get inundated? What your experience?)

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The only times we were hounded by astronomic levels of mail was about five years ago when we regularly had pics at the top of the most fabbed . We would regularly get hundreds of messages every day .

Then our pics were nicked and put on a porn site , so we no longer did any worthy of attention . We left the site for a short time too . Since being back on we’ve never been plagued by too many messages , even when we posted a meet .

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We get bugger all messages.

Seems people do read profiles after all!

Who'd have thunk it....?

By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The only times we were hounded by astronomic levels of mail was about five years ago when we regularly had pics at the top of the most fabbed . We would regularly get hundreds of messages every day .

Nicking your pics...that's just awful and such a shame as judging by your profile pic I bet they were great.