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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Does anyone else find it cringey when someone says "I'm really good, I'm a really good ride...just ask 'insert name' they'll tell you"

Surely everyone's preferences are different and what works for one doesn't work for another. Plus if I got a message asking me to rate someone's performance it would put me off.

This just me or do you rate others?

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I was once asked to constantly rate, very offputting. Never been asked to ask someone else

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Umm, yes, that would be a red flag if it was said seriously. It's tacky at best. If you're that good, you shouldn't need to say it. And it puts them in an uncomfortable position: what if they didn't really think you were all that good?

On the other hand, I will say (if they are OK with our meeting being public) that I found someone delightful company and really enjoyed myself with them. That's how verifications work. It's a completely different dynamic the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im really good at being a lazy bastard just ask my boss

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Umm, yes, that would be a red flag if it was said seriously. It's tacky at best. If you're that good, you shouldn't need to say it. And it puts them in an uncomfortable position: what if they didn't really think you were all that good?

On the other hand, I will say (if they are OK with our meeting being public) that I found someone delightful company and really enjoyed myself with them. That's how verifications work. It's a completely different dynamic the other way around."

I’m not a great rider but I’m a bloody good ride so I’m told and I suck and blow like a dyson so everyone keeps saying. They also say don’t pass me by for some reason. Must be reason I’ve not had a ride in months They must be running by me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've never been asked to ask someone else thankfully, that would be very off putting. And I wouldn't be happy if anyone I met sent people to me asking for ratings.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Im really good at being a lazy bastard just ask my boss"

How good a ride is? This how you pick bikes?

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