FabSwingers.com forum: Hey look at me!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!"

I wouldn't turn my back on someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been drinking buddy?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Would you like a cup of tea, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a cry for help, attention, or what? Maybe I'll understand better when I'm awake. It's early.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Is this a cry for help, attention, or what? Maybe I'll understand better when I'm awake. It's early."

Not sure if it's a cry for help, irony or just because he's squiffy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a cry for help, attention, or what? Maybe I'll understand better when I'm awake. It's early.

Not sure if it's a cry for help, irony or just because he's squiffy.."

As you're making the OP a tea, I'll have a coffee please. Then I'll be able to try work this out.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Is this a cry for help, attention, or what? Maybe I'll understand better when I'm awake. It's early.

Not sure if it's a cry for help, irony or just because he's squiffy..

As you're making the OP a tea, I'll have a coffee please. Then I'll be able to try work this out.

Espresso, or latte?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a cry for help, attention, or what? Maybe I'll understand better when I'm awake. It's early."

I think its a "women are bitches csuse they wont sleep with me" but is ok as he cant stand the women on fab anyway

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s not a counsellor or Jeremy Kyle as his profile states

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself. "

You sound a very bitter young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

Well humans are social animals you'd actually have to be pretty broken to not conform to a few of those at varying times in your life.

People who are entirely independent of society/others views of them are typically antisocial and have all the problems that come along with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

Well humans are social animals you'd actually have to be pretty broken to not conform to a few of those at varying times in your life.

People who are entirely independent of society/others views of them are typically antisocial and have all the problems that come along with that

People who don’t socialise don’t always have problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

Well humans are social animals you'd actually have to be pretty broken to not conform to a few of those at varying times in your life.

People who are entirely independent of society/others views of them are typically antisocial and have all the problems that come along with that

People who don’t socialise don’t always have problems."

I didnt say not socialise. Antisocial people tend to socialise a lot.

They dont conform to societal norms though and tens to cause problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

Well humans are social animals you'd actually have to be pretty broken to not conform to a few of those at varying times in your life.

People who are entirely independent of society/others views of them are typically antisocial and have all the problems that come along with that

People who don’t socialise don’t always have problems.

I didnt say not socialise. Antisocial people tend to socialise a lot.

They dont conform to societal norms though and tens to cause problems."

So if they don’t conform to the “norm” they could have other problems?

We could have a whole thread on this discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need fixing mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats you have pretty much described most of the female profiles on fab. Pussy rules the world and if you don’t like it no one is holding a gun to head to stay on the site I do get where you coming from though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you need fixing mate?

OP sounds very angry in his profile

Just a smidge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

I wouldn't turn my back on someone."

Behaviour breeds behaviour

Just because it’s Fab doesn’t mean we are less deserving of respect and compassion

“An eye for an eye makes the world go blind”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP, a fairly accurate description of a large proportion of society

Well humans are social animals you'd actually have to be pretty broken to not conform to a few of those at varying times in your life.

People who are entirely independent of society/others views of them are typically antisocial and have all the problems that come along with that

People who don’t socialise don’t always have problems.

I didnt say not socialise. Antisocial people tend to socialise a lot.

They dont conform to societal norms though and tens to cause problems.

So if they don’t conform to the “norm” they could have other problems?

We could have a whole thread on this discussion

Yes antisocial behaviour disorders

Colloquially known as arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congrats you have pretty much described most of the female profiles on fab. Pussy rules the world and if you don’t like it no one is holding a gun to head to stay on the site I do get where you coming from though."

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Hey look at me, i think I make hilarious observational comments about people I don't care about on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds up"
You do us an injustice we make you think that but everyone knows pussy rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did post something quite long and laborious. (Deleted by mistake).

In a nutshell.

Good luck trying to cheat yourself up with posts like these op.

your part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheer. Not cheat. *stupid f,in phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds upYou do us an injustice we make you think that but everyone knows pussy rules "

I dunno the amount of messages i got before i blocked guys i think cock would give pussy a run for its money :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask ya mum im busy reading the paper son

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds up"

Haha women do.. we just like the men to believe they've some say

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds up

Haha women do.. we just like the men to believe they've some say :"

not the embarrassed one...sheesh me and my thumbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought patriarchy ruled the world?

Typical women can never make thier minds up

Haha women do.. we just like the men to believe they've some say

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A little bit of perspective here,

Tired of hypocrisy, and hypocrites.

Carrot danglers, and BS artists.

Seen through the veil of this site, and life in general.

Don’t pretend not to see it either. Just calling BS, don’t like it, don’t post any more on this thread

True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"A little bit of perspective here,

Tired of hypocrisy, and hypocrites.

Carrot danglers, and BS artists.

Seen through the veil of this site, and life in general.

Don’t pretend not to see it either. Just calling BS, don’t like it, don’t post any more on this thread

True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd.

You're an anonymous person on the internet, with nothing to lose. This is hardly an act of bravery.

Furthermore, the general gist of what you have pointed out is not a startling revelation. There's a lot of people on here looking for attention, it's the internet, everybody already knows this. Sometimes people like to brag, sometimes they act needy, sometimes people will make long ass posts, ranting about things that are at most, a minor inconvenience to them. Who cares?

There's nothing you can do to stop such things anyway, just do what everybody else does: ignore the things you're not interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little bit of perspective here,

Tired of hypocrisy, and hypocrites.

Carrot danglers, and BS artists.

Seen through the veil of this site, and life in general.

Don’t pretend not to see it either. Just calling BS, don’t like it, don’t post any more on this thread

True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd.

Youve been here a week.

And you havent called out anything especialy nothing wrong youve just had a vuage whine be specific.

Why is a look at me thread wrong for instance? So what if theyre fishing for compliments or validation or simply wanting to boost thier views to get more meets?

Whats the "wrong" to call out there?

Seen through the veil of this site and life in general? Mate youre not mystic meg, but you are 40, you should have realised all this stuff when you were about 18 like everyone else.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"A little bit of perspective here,

Tired of hypocrisy, and hypocrites.

Carrot danglers, and BS artists.

Seen through the veil of this site, and life in general.

Don’t pretend not to see it either. Just calling BS, don’t like it, don’t post any more on this thread

True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd.

You're an anonymous person on the internet, with nothing to lose. This is hardly an act of bravery.

Furthermore, the general gist of what you have pointed out is not a startling revelation.

Then I wonder why he got some of the comments he did

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't discuss the persons profile, it is against forum rules unless they have asked you to or they are asking why they are not getting any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd."

The true hypocrisy is this line though. You are the herd you are doing the same as countless others do each week on here.

True bravery would be taking a look at yourself honestly, reflecting upon it and deciding if you are happy with what you see and all its outcomes or having the courage to change.

You've done neither, instead you have shifted the blame to all others.

So nothing will change, well for you at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little bit of perspective here,

Tired of hypocrisy, and hypocrites.

Carrot danglers, and BS artists.

Seen through the veil of this site, and life in general.

Don’t pretend not to see it either. Just calling BS, don’t like it, don’t post any more on this thread

True bravery is by calling out what’s wrong not following the herd.

Wow, typing in a box and pressing send, you sir are a hero.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's bravery and then there's anonymously lashing out.

Problems exist on Fab. Sure. No one group is exempt. But we know this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself. "

People who seek constant help, attention and validation are energy vampires. No matter how much you give them it will never be enough and they will suck you dry emotion ally, mentally, spiritually, physically & at times financially.

OP is correct in saying that he's not here to fix you, only you can do that.

A simple truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself.

OP is correct in saying that he's not here to fix you, only you can do that.

A simple truth "

Finally!

The crux of the matter, so to speak.

I am not here to be an emotional crutch, not looking for wifey or hubby.

Don’t drain other people, those who court drama, seek validation or money, they feed on it.

Like many profiles say, I am not attempting to fuck my way through fab.

So why should I deal with the BS associated with it, drained of energy, so to speak?

FYI,

Yes, my profile is not sycophantic like many here. It’s a filter, and yes I have spoken to many people who have the same view.

There are more than you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself.

OP is correct in saying that he's not here to fix you, only you can do that.

A simple truth

Finally!

The crux of the matter, so to speak.

I am not here to be an emotional crutch, not looking for wifey or hubby.

Don’t drain other people, those who court drama, seek validation or money, they feed on it.

Like many profiles say, I am not attempting to fuck my way through fab.

So why should I deal with the BS associated with it, drained of energy, so to speak?

FYI,

Yes, my profile is not sycophantic like many here. It’s a filter, and yes I have spoken to many people who have the same view.

There are more than you think.

No ones asking you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me, the exact thing you are doing Op, is the thing you are critising people for, you are drawing attention to yourself by causing drama, but at least they aren’t trying to hide it behind the faux idea that they some kind of maverick.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Hey look at me, there is something wrong with me and need cheering up waah!

Hey look at me! Why doesn’t nobody like me? I need validation for my existence!

Hey men look at me! Make me feel better my ego needs a boost!

Hey look at me! I can snap my fingers and droves of men will want to me meet me.

Hey look at me! My body looks shit, though I am normal I need someone to say it’s good.

Hey look at me! I need drama in my life to make me feel special.

I looked at you, and I saw you were broken, that’s why I stopped looking a you!

Not here to fix you. Only you can fix yourself.

OP is correct in saying that he's not here to fix you, only you can do that.

A simple truth

Finally!

The crux of the matter, so to speak.

I am not here to be an emotional crutch, not looking for wifey or hubby.

Don’t drain other people, those who court drama, seek validation or money, they feed on it.

Like many profiles say, I am not attempting to fuck my way through fab.

So why should I deal with the BS associated with it, drained of energy, so to speak?

FYI,

Yes, my profile is not sycophantic like many here. It’s a filter, and yes I have spoken to many people who have the same view.

There are more than you think.

So filter them out and don't meet them. No need to lash out at everyone else in the process.

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