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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a divorce then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Get a divorce then "
that would be a different thing to experience.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You will feel the fire when she sticks a red hot poker up your arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience. "

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience. "

I just don't feel the need for the marrieds on here to post and try to find someone to say "there there of course it's ok" ... When their wife doesn't know *shrug*

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Have you got your funeral pre-paid?

They always find out in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you got your funeral pre-paid?

They always find out in the end."

Wtf! You back on this one now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t judge. If having a quick nsa fuck with a willing woman keeps your family together if your wife has gone off sex then so be it. There will be hundreds of different opinions about this and none are more right or wrong than the next. Only you have to live with the guilt and morale dilemma if it vexes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you got your funeral pre-paid?

They always find out in the end."

Where the fuck have you been?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Have you got your funeral pre-paid?

They always find out in the end.

Wtf! You back on this one now?"

Just popped over momentarily to check a few things x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Have you got your funeral pre-paid?

They always find out in the end.

Where the fuck have you been?

Around

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

I think she will set fire to your underpants mate with you in them get her to join in or just have a wank like the rest of us.

Life’s too short "

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Is it wrong in your mind?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Actually, watching porn and having a wank is quite a good idea. Sometimes the Saturday night movies are really crap. As long as you don’t cry yourself to sleep, all will be well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?"

That's far too sensible!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

whether its wrong or not is up to you to decide.

You aren't alone on here there are a lot of married people whose partners don't know.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?

That's far too sensible! "
well, I could have added......”about having sex with a few guys”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?

That's far too sensible! well, I could have added......”about having sex with a few guys” "

Maybe she should

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?

That's far too sensible! well, I could have added......”about having sex with a few guys”

Maybe she should

"
Maybe she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it you want to try ?

Are they things that you think your wife won't do ?

Or do you just want to fuck lots of other women as well as her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to meet marrieds playing away that is their business. But for me why would I want to meet someone I know is an out and out liar? If you are capable of lying to a loved one how can I trust anything you ever say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Your so right life is way too short, how pissed off she is going to be realising the time she had wasted on a disrespectful git who she thought she trusted

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

When you say fun, do you mean sex? We're allowed to say sex on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking

Married

Men.

"I won't bore you with it but I can't talk to her about it weh weh". Then you're a shit communicator and she's probably desperate for you to fuck off properly. She'll hardly be turning cartwheels that she's in a shit marriage with a cheating turd.

No judgment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens, the corpse of the last married man thread is still warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

re read ya wedding vowels to yaself

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"You will feel the fire when she sticks a red hot poker up your arse"

Your takes you to the cleaners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

If you would have no problem with her doing every thing you're doing then fill yer boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"re read ya wedding vowels to yaself"

I.O.U you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

...it will be if she finds out soft lad!!!

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By *oisineandAlCouple
over a year ago

limerick

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Then why have you not spoken to her about it. If she was on here saying the same thing about you ... How would you react? I bet you would have some choice words to say about her. Marriage is not a one way thing. Disrespectful I would say.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

None of us are innocent so married' living together whatever way your life is you should try everything that's on offer. Glass houses and all that. Just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

So no sex or boring sex? Have you tried talking to her?

That's far too sensible! well, I could have added......”about having sex with a few guys”

Maybe she should

Maybe she is

All I can say is ... Good for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

Crikey you're only 32...lifes to short not to talk your problems through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t judge. If having a quick nsa fuck with a willing woman keeps your family together if your wife has gone off sex then so be it. There will be hundreds of different opinions about this and none are more right or wrong than the next. Only you have to live with the guilt and morale dilemma if it vexes you. "

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

I find it crazy that any person on here would ask if it’s ok! Trusting your other half with absolutely everything in life including sexual experiences display unlimited respect in our book so to ask if we think you should be so disrespectful as to betray her trust (the woman you are supposed to love) is unbelievable!

So on that this must be an attention seeking post fishing for reactions?

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn

How would you feel. Living your comfortable life, mortgage sorted, 2.4 children.

One evening, your wife has gone over the road to Joan’s and you hear a message on her phone. You pick it up and have a glance.

“ hi babes, loved taking your anal virginity yesterday. Surprised you have never indulged before, given the intensity of your orgasm. When is he away next?”

I imagine Krakatoa would sound like tinkling glass and the effects of the earthquake marginally less than a football hitting your conservatory, compared to the crushing vacuum that had just enveloped your world???

Or am I wrong

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

"How would you feel. Living your comfortable life, mortgage sorted, 2.4 children.

One evening, your wife has gone over the road to Joan’s and you hear a message on her phone. You pick it up and have a glance.

“ hi babes, loved taking your anal virginity yesterday. Surprised you have never indulged before, given the intensity of your orgasm. When is he away next?”

Or am I wrong"

A point very well made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting you don't mention anything in your profile, OP.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Depends really.

Do you not hold the values of respect and honesty highly?

Most decent people take a dim view on treating your partner like that and cheating on her.

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn

"How would you feel. Living your comfortable life, mortgage sorted, 2.4 children.

One evening, your wife has gone over the road to Joan’s and you hear a message on her phone. You pick it up and have a glance.

“ hi babes, loved taking your anal virginity yesterday. Surprised you have never indulged before, given the intensity of your orgasm. When is he away next?”

Thanks. Never happened, by the way, but I can imagine the absolute chaos, on either side, when the truth is outed.

Not a hypocrite, have played with both parties of a couple, but with other parties knowledge, or together

Or am I wrong

A point very well made. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people want to meet marrieds playing away that is their business. But for me why would I want to meet someone I know is an out and out liar? If you are capable of lying to a loved one how can I trust anything you ever say?"

This is so true...the messages that I get from married men always start with "I am married...just being honest" ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting you don't mention anything in your profile, OP."

What's also interesting is that as nobody has told him that it's "fine" he hasn't contributed anything further to his thread... Speaks volumes that he knows it's not right

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn

Besides which, as a cheating guy, how many of us singles are affected, lol

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t

Life’s too short "

I feel your pain. .

I can't PM you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

So try them with her.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

Selfish.

Why doesn't she get a choice?

You have chosen what you want to do, however you have decided that she doesn't have the right to choose whether she will accept your behaviour or not?

Wow!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t

Life’s too short

I feel your pain. .

I can't PM you..

You need a divorce too then???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not deciding on quick fun".. but status says "Anyone for a quickie? I'm horny".

I think you're a bit confused, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what ever you got to do but.. why does she have no choice in this matter? She could be out there having "fun" or being treated right by someone that wouldnt cheat on her.

If she's responsible for your smile then Your responsible for her heart. Sounds corny I know but it's true

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn

This guy needs a REAL reality check. The majority of people, who are swingers in the real sense, know he is looking for , sadly lacking, approval. He needs to know his potential losses??

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Get a divorce then "

It’s a simple answer yes, but woe betide any man who wants a divorce!!

Hell is frozen by women who suck blood out of the ex husbands in a divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way is honesty im here but my partner is ok with it as she gets involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then

It’s a simple answer yes, but woe betide any man who wants a divorce!!

Hell is frozen by women who suck blood out of the ex husbands in a divorce"

And if they have cheated on them, then good luck to them...

Incidentally, this applies to cheating women too because I know there are plenty of those as well ...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short

If you would have no problem with her doing every thing you're doing then fill yer boots.

My thoughts too,would you think it wrong if you found her on here meeting men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Talk to her she may feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then

It’s a simple answer yes, but woe betide any man who wants a divorce!!

Hell is frozen by women who suck blood out of the ex husbands in a divorce"

Takes two people to make a relationship ... and either can break it, not just women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if the OP'S would contribute more often to these threads they make....

There view point I would welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting you don't mention anything in your profile, OP.

What's also interesting is that as nobody has told him that it's "fine" he hasn't contributed anything further to his thread... Speaks volumes that he knows it's not right "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her first, she may surprise you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t judge people. People’s relationship status is their business not mine and I understand that some people have a ‘different side’ to them, where they find a thrill out of doing things that they know they shouldn’t.

Of course being married and ‘cheating’ on fab has always been a touchy subject for others, but at the end of the day, you’re an adult and can make your own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put a note on your profile so people can make an informed choice, rather than being mislead and only finding out when its too late..

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By *layalongCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My advise to anyone thinking about cheating is don’t do it. Yes it might be fun, the flirting, meeting and the sex but the heartbreak it’ll cause to the person dumb enough to love you is horrible. Just leave if you aren’t happy. I’d be gutted if my husband cheated

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We have needs as well as wants - needs are for shelter, safety, food, water and socialising. We choose the rest of the things we want to have.

We also decide upon our moral code- what is right and wrong. You must decide for yourself op - as married, you know what you have agreed with your partner and their likely response if known. You must live with yourself. What would the better person do?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Funny enough I had a message from a woman in the Wrexham/Chester area this week saying

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married woman that is looking for fun?

He would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cheating end of! You have to ask yourself is it worth it. Plus a note in your profile would be helpful. Second question are woman going to want to shag you if you are married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's cheating end of! You have to ask yourself is it worth it. Plus a note in your profile would be helpful. Second question are woman going to want to shag you if you are married?"

Loads would - they're here for sex, enjoyment! It isn't their issue if the other person is married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny enough I had a message from a woman in the Wrexham/Chester area this week saying

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married woman that is looking for fun?

He would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short"

Don’t share pms in the forum.

just a heads up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

If the sex is bad with your wife why do you think it would be better with others?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I,I,I,me,me,me. It isn't all about you. Try talking to your wife or going to counselling OP.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

If the sex is bad with your wife why do you think it would be better with others?

Once you've seen to the burn, take time to consider this statement. Talk to your wife. Chances are she thinks it's shit too.

Are you here to find support? Lots of married men proclaiming they're doing the same and life is grand?

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

Certainly brings the hanging and flogging brigade out on these type of threads. Even the Holier than thou types join on...

Of course none of them actually want to admit to being on a Sex site, looking for casual sex or the Married Couples Not actually forsaking others unto thee

Would totally hate the thought of their friends or family finding out their sordid little secrets, but are right up the front judging others and putting them on trial....just saying.....

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Certainly brings the hanging and flogging brigade out on these type of threads. Even the Holier than thou types join on...

Of course none of them actually want to admit to being on a Sex site, looking for casual sex or the Married Couples Not actually forsaking others unto thee

Would totally hate the thought of their friends or family finding out their sordid little secrets, but are right up the front judging others and putting them on trial....just saying....."

Fair point,but the other things that you point out above.

Which ones of them involve dishonesty or an abuse of trust??

Just a thought hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it is wrong, but it’s your life OP but how would you honestly feel if she was on here and you wasn’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certainly brings the hanging and flogging brigade out on these type of threads. Even the Holier than thou types join on...

Of course none of them actually want to admit to being on a Sex site, looking for casual sex or the Married Couples Not actually forsaking others unto thee

Would totally hate the thought of their friends or family finding out their sordid little secrets, but are right up the front judging others and putting them on trial....just saying....."

My friends all know and not everyone has a Christian marrige.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

[Removed by poster at 26/01/19 13:28:16]

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Depends on how you'd feel if you found out she was shagging about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Ans. Yes.

Life is too long. Too long to be in a marriage and be unfulfilled. Of course these things are way more complex than a simple yes or no answer.

Why don't you try the "fun things" with your wife?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Been here a year and had so much action just give up ..

Spend more time with the wife bet she would surprise you if you where more upfront...

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well my hubby told me he wanted to try different things and was happy to live in the car and still loved me

Communication now means we are more satisfied more happier and stronger than ever

All because he was honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it clear on your profile you are married, people have a choice then.

Sit back and think of the hurt and pain/devastation your wife/family would go through if they found out, dont just assume she wont, she might... Can you risk the pain yourself at losing the love and respect of everyone that loves you for a bit more sex..

If the answer is yes to these and you choose to do it, please for Gods sake keep her safe.. no nasty surprises at the clinic x

Really not judging, just worth thinking about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. I am married. Yes i agree with the above post. You should say. But half of the people on fab are married or in a long term relationship. Its not a sin opp but jesus dont expect to much support on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. I am married. Yes i agree with the above post. You should say. But half of the people on fab are married or in a long term relationship. Its not a sin opp but jesus dont expect to much support on here"

Very true

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Yes it is wrong. If you can betray someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, it says a lot about your values as a person.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Ah, the quiet desperation of people trapped in grey, suburban monogamy.

Never fails to brighten my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

I think you are a coward for wanting the pleasure of affairs but not the pain of the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....You're out of your head! Sleepless nights on an HP bed...etc..

Sorry, can't believe no one posted that yet!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I think its OK, but with one big "As long as....." & that is if she ever comes to you & says "Our sex has been a bit meh, I couldn't be arsed to try & talk to you about it so I joined a site & have been shagging other men".

As long as you can shrug your shoulders and say "Fair do's" then that's fine in my book.

If on the other hand you'd do your conkers, then you are not swinging, you're just being a cheating hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the first line of your post is encouraging an opinion rather than an answer.

People will usually judge with an opinion because it's based on their experience, beliefs or just what they believe morally.

Personally I think you can ask for what ever you want! However, secondly I would never knowingly meet a married guy because that's my choice,

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great... "

Maybe she’s stopped wanting to have fun with you? Maybe it’s you that is the problem?

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

"Get a divorce then that would be a different thing to experience.

Hahah yes agree... But everything except the fun is great...

Maybe she’s stopped wanting to have fun with you? Maybe it’s you that is the problem? "

No maybe about it

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

If you NEED to try new things, try them with your wife!! What’s wrong with having the conversation with her? If you can disrespect someone you’re supposed to love more than anyone else in the world, I’d be surprised if anyone else would be stupid enough to meet you knowing this. You’ve proper wound me up lol. If life’s ‘too short’ save your poor wife the heartache, divorce her and let her be happy with someone else, go and shag about, and grow old lonely. Sounds like you deserve it

and you ASKED for opinions before anyone starts

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't know why people entertain these types of threads, as the OP never bloody returns to them, it is a waste of your energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No excuse for cheating. Your WIFE deserves better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is NOT swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Sounds like your wife needs some fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short "

Really respect you honesty, a lot in fact but married guys just aren't for us. Irish Catholics here, we've enough guilt to be dealing with, without adding anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it that wrong that I’m a married man that is looking for fun?

She would kill me but I need to try new things!

I want to feel the fire and try different things out... Loads I haven’t done!

Life’s too short

Your so right life is way too short, how pissed off she is going to be realising the time she had wasted on a disrespectful git who she thought she trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certainly brings the hanging and flogging brigade out on these type of threads. Even the Holier than thou types join on...

Of course none of them actually want to admit to being on a Sex site, looking for casual sex or the Married Couples Not actually forsaking others unto thee

Would totally hate the thought of their friends or family finding out their sordid little secrets, but are right up the front judging others and putting them on trial....just saying....."

I'm single and honest about being on here ... my kids know and my bestie, apart from those people I'd never actually discuss personal things with others but if it came up in conversation I would be open about it! Dishonesty and secrets are never nice but when these affect another's life and well being ie a partner, spouse, family and children then the cheater is a dishonest liar with the responsibility to hurt many other people whatever reason they give for it!

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

"Certainly brings the hanging and flogging brigade out on these type of threads. Even the Holier than thou types join on...

Of course none of them actually want to admit to being on a Sex site, looking for casual sex or the Married Couples Not actually forsaking others unto thee

Would totally hate the thought of their friends or family finding out their sordid little secrets, but are right up the front judging others and putting them on trial....just saying.....

If you really would admit it and tell those that ask you are on a site actually seeking casual sex, and not disguising it as a dating site, we genuinely take our hats off to you.

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