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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Received today an unsolicited message for a guy who attached a face pic photo which was his (public sector) works ID card. I could see it was current and all the details clearly. I sent a polite message suggesting that he should not send an image of this card to strangers he did not know well and I was just concerned for his safety and privacy.

Was I wrong to do so and what would you do?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Is he that desperate? I would just block him

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Did the right thing..

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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You were right to point it out but I'm afraid he probably won't thank you for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he that desperate? I would just block him "

I gently let him down, I'm kind that way

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


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Was I wrong to do so and what would you do?"
Defo did the good and decent thing.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

You did the decent thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You were right to point it out but I'm afraid he probably won't thank you for it "

He hasn't responded but very silly of him in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did right. We had one a while back and a quick Google search matched with his linkdin profile with all his personal details, turns out he was an actor! I let him know and he vanished!

Peach x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Ask for a copy of his bank statement and a recent utility bill too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Received today an unsolicited message for a guy who attached a face pic photo which was his (public sector) works ID card. I could see it was current and all the details clearly. I sent a polite message suggesting that he should not send an image of this card to strangers he did not know well and I was just concerned for his safety and privacy.

Was I wrong to do so and what would you do?"

You did the right thing.

Although does his other pics match the id?

I'd be concerned that he could be a victim of an elaborate set up. Someone sends a pic of his ID to you, you respond, messages start getting racy, he gets outed maliciously etc...

Not saying it is wrong to message a TV/TS, but if the ID owner has no idea this is going on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask for a copy of his bank statement and a recent utility bill too"

Not worth it as I know he doesn't earn a lot in his position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good shout and well done

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

You did the right thing - there are too many unscrupulous people on this site that would possibly use the information against him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Received today an unsolicited message for a guy who attached a face pic photo which was his (public sector) works ID card. I could see it was current and all the details clearly. I sent a polite message suggesting that he should not send an image of this card to strangers he did not know well and I was just concerned for his safety and privacy.

Was I wrong to do so and what would you do?

You did the right thing.

Although does his other pics match the id?

I'd be concerned that he could be a victim of an elaborate set up. Someone sends a pic of his ID to you, you respond, messages start getting racy, he gets outed maliciously etc...

Not saying it is wrong to message a TV/TS, but if the ID owner has no idea this is going on..."

Who can tell? I was very polite so no harm can come from my response

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You did the right thing - there are too many unscrupulous people on this site that would possibly use the information against him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did the decent thing if there were only more like you

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I always prove its me with a picture of my bank card and proof of my pin. I don't usually hear back from them though.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always prove its me with a picture of my bank card and proof of my pin. I don't usually hear back from them though....."

But did anyone feel sorry for you and pay some money in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have done the absolute right thing the world need more people like you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Received today an unsolicited message for a guy who attached a face pic photo which was his (public sector) works ID card. I could see it was current and all the details clearly. I sent a polite message suggesting that he should not send an image of this card to strangers he did not know well and I was just concerned for his safety and privacy.

Was I wrong to do so and what would you do?"

Very sensible response, one would hope he would pay heed

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