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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women.

I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct.

Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I have met several men doing this- telling me they are 45 when in reality they are at least 10 years older. Immediate turnoff for me nothing has progressed from there.

I am 45 and have never felt the need to hide my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very high percentage of men I have met from here had their wrong age up.

A few younger ones were younger than they said. One 45 year old was nearer 60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met several men doing this- telling me they are 45 when in reality they are at least 10 years older. Immediate turnoff for me nothing has progressed from there.

I am 45 and have never felt the need to hide my age! "

You might when you're 55.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct, don't see the point in lying about it, esp if it's that obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly the age I say. Though have been accused of looking much younger.

Don't see the point of being dishonest about age really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6 months younger than my fab age myself

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women.

I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct.

Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. "

Filter bypass would be the most common reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly my age... End of the day... It's just a number

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm the age stayed on my profile - I'm very proud of the fact that I'm 57 and look younger.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Am age as my profile

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I don't my profile age is my actual age

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

My age is correct. What's the point in lying about it? You'll only get found out when you finally meet, as the ladies who've commented have already said.

I don't understand why people get so hung up on age to be honest. It's just a number at the end of the day. You're only as old as you feel, both physically and mentally.

Around 11pm on a Saturday night I feel like I did in my 20s. Around 8am the following morning I feel about 90 until I've sobered up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about changing my age to be honest. Wish I had now

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

My age is spot on even though I look a lot younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t understand why you would lie about your age, it’s just another thing to cause someone to lose their trust in you and if they can’t trust you why would they want to do anything else

I look younger than I am, even being id’d by one meet once which was awkward to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea why others do it..

Well there is a theory on here for men that women won't look at anyone over 48 so perhaps thats a reason why there are so many of that age knocking around...

As for me, I've never lied about my age as i dont see the point, but people I have met say i could get away with knocking at least 10 yrs off my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is slightly different as I don't like people to cotton on to my couples profile if I'm meeting alone. The pics are very different to try and keep the two separate too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a happy granny tranny but never have my zimmer frame in any profile photos

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

My age is correct and photos are up to date don't see the point in shaving years off or sending out of date photos surly this would make the person there meeting think twice of taking things any further

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By *kynyrd64Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I'm 54 and proud of it .

Why lie ?

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Well apparently no lies about their age so may as well close the post down

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

In fairness to that man Op, he probably used the fab cock suze chart to judge his age by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is correct, I was told I look younger so should put my age as younger, well as I have a penchant for older men that would be silly.

I've met guys who admit they have the wrong age. I usually question them on their age during a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way.

That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know why you’d knock years off your age.

Id be interested to see if people would talk to people who they wouldn’t normally on here if we didn’t put our age in stall and had to go off what people look like.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We put our correct ages up, can't really see the point in fibbing. If we are going to meet someone we will always want a face pic first, if we find them attractive then age doesn't come into it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am 37 and I am 37

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the correct ages up, met plenty who have had really tough paper rounds though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 37 and I am 37 "

It’s easier to remember when you tell the truth isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic "

I'm actually 47 in human years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 14

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm my age but been told I look younger... Not sure if that's a good or bad thing

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By *haggynMuffCouple
over a year ago

Kidlington oxtord

I'm 45 on here and i am actually 45. No need to hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way.

That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me. "

Understandable.

Question though, is your age within the ballpark of your real age? By that I mean not greatly exaggerated?

No judgement, just that I'd not personally be bothered by an age lie if it is close to accurate. But 10 years or more and it would be something to make me think otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the point in lying about your age

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We haven’t changed our age or told a white lie on it but obviously others do, the only problem we have with that is what happens if you decide to meet and the pictures exchanged weren’t current? Could be awkward

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age has been questioned on numerous occasions, not sure whether I look younger or older than I am, no one has ever actually said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought about changing my age but then who knows how I might feel in 20 years time.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ours a correct. Don't see the point in lieing.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep right age here, was id’d for alcohol last year though so don’t look like I’m 40 in 3 weeks.

I’ve been in a group of fabbers in a club and ironically the fab age came up in conversation, on fab i was showing as the oldest, reality though I was the youngest of the lot! They do it to get round filters, have to say though some can get away with it, one gorgeous extremely fit guy knocked 15 years off and could definitely get away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic "

I noticed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some of the older ones lie about it get get within the age filters but honesty is the best policy

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By *e_jpMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My profile has the right age on it too. Really don’t see the point in lying. It’s not like it wouldn’t be obvious when you met with someone anyway, and then how could they trust you about everything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the older ones lie about it get get within the age filters but honesty is the best policy "

So do some of the younger ones!

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Mines my exact age too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some of the older ones lie about it get get within the age filters but honesty is the best policy

So do some of the younger ones!"

Yes allsorts do all ages male & female straight fab straight bi gay etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is right ... If I was gonna lie I wouldn't put 50!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is right ... If I was gonna lie I wouldn't put 50!! "
You could be 57!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28, no big deal? Don't claim to be older but some gorgeous women have their age pref too old.. give a young lad a chance

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm 53, will be 54 in May, don't see the point or need to lie about it, the last time I did was to get served in a pub.

If people take my age into account for anything that's their prerogative and not mine to worry about - likewise if people choose to lie about their age, their prerogative, and if they've lied about it so ridiculously that people don't believe it, then more fool them.

Personally I don't understand the need for anyone to, but not for me to say either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is right.

It really annoys me when I find someone's not been honest & usually results in a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say he obvs didn’t look it so why does it matter if you found him attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way.

That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me. "

But I’m sure it’s not years off what it should be. I’ve heard of people knocking 15,years off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say he obvs didn’t look it so why does it matter if you found him attractive "

He used old photos , in reality he looked very different to the photo he sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie, simple really. If you don't like how I look then we move on simple. Im very secure and i have nothing to prove and no ego to feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea why some lie about their age?

Our age's are correct xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

54 next month Ms

I only feel 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is right ... If I was gonna lie I wouldn't put 50!!

You could be 57! "

I could be, but I ain't!! If I was gonna lie, I'd put 47 like most of the men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are correct xx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic "

I'm 69yo I have always used my correct age and as you can see it hasn't held me back.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I’m changing my age in 6 days time...

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By *ichmond GentMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

57 pushing 58 told i look much younger. I have been accused about lying about my age on numerous occassions, once from a lady on Fabs i.e no way are you 57 why would i lie ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 54 and not that long until I’m 55. My age doesn’t bother me one bit. I look better than I did 20 years ago anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age on here is my real age. No point lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women.

I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct.

Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. "

I met a guy who’s profile says 28 but he’s actually 22. I was not impressed. He was very inexperienced and wanted to meet an older women who could teach him. I’m sure some women love that. Not me.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

My Fab age is my real age. I don't feel that makes me more identifiable because there are many many thousands of other women exactly the same age as me. Maybe it puts some people off and obviously it affects search parameters but I've never lost any sleep over that because it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real, met a guy that catfished me turned out to be over 60 I'm just glad it was a public place ended up running home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 37. No point fibbing about it x

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

why the f....do people lie??

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

im 29

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 50 i look it so why lie about it

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We're honest, but have been told that everyone lies about their age on here!

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"57 pushing 58 told i look much younger. I have been accused about lying about my age on numerous occassions, once from a lady on Fabs i.e no way are you 57 why would i lie ?"

Think I need to raise my age limit there are some really sexy 50 odd yr olds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"57 pushing 58 told i look much younger. I have been accused about lying about my age on numerous occassions, once from a lady on Fabs i.e no way are you 57 why would i lie ?"

People expect us oldies to be leather-skinned and wrinkly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there you go op. No one lies apparently... except me. Gotta love the forum. I've never encountered a bunch of more honest people

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

My age is correct, although my salt and pepper (going "saltier" every day) possibly makes me look older.. Sob.. Sob..

I did meet a woman on here who was showing as 43, when she was actually 55! Fortunately she looked great for her age, so It wasn't a problem. I may have considered her outside my preferred age bracket back then, so I would have missed out on a very enjoyable meet if she hadn't fibbed a little.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women.

I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct.

Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. "

They're just age fluid.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I am the age it says on my profile. Nothing to hide here

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world!

People lie about age on here for numerous reasons!

Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older!

I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way.

That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me.

Understandable.

Question though, is your age within the ballpark of your real age? By that I mean not greatly exaggerated?

No judgement, just that I'd not personally be bothered by an age lie if it is close to accurate. But 10 years or more and it would be something to make me think otherwise. "

Put it this way. Over the 6 years I've been meeting I've not once had anyone question it when I've sent face pics and when we've met. The less random strangers know about me the better as far as I'm concerned. Hope that answers those that question "why lie?" ... and I never actually said whether I've added or taken off years

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women.

I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct.

Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. "

The answer is to "get laid".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world!

People lie about age on here for numerous reasons!

Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older!

I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! "

You look amazing if you don't mind me saying so

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world!

People lie about age on here for numerous reasons!

Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older!

I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck!

You look amazing if you don't mind me saying so "

Thanks - most kind!

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down


"I’m 54 and not that long until I’m 55. My age doesn’t bother me one bit. I look better than I did 20 years ago anyway"

Thats exactly the same as us!

Debs

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are both now in our 50's and the age on our profiles is correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world!

People lie about age on here for numerous reasons!

Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older!

I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! "

People are still having sex, wow, what a time to be alive!

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I've been tempted to put a lower age in our profile as apparently I look 10 years younger but I'm happy being 52 and think that if people won't meet us because of my age then it's their loss, not ours.

Honesty is always the best policy on fab!

Geo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about "

Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I'm 73.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 73. "

You don’t look a day over 72

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I’ve noticed men online lie more about their Hieght and cock size.....

Women are notorious for lying about their age....

They get away with it more because guys never call them out on it.....

I’ve webcamed with a 45 year old potential meet.... what I say on FaceTime was my nan in a sexy nightie....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Honestly I’ve noticed men online lie more about their Hieght and cock size.....

Women are notorious for lying about their age....

They get away with it more because guys never call them out on it.....

I’ve webcamed with a 45 year old potential meet.... what I say on FaceTime was my nan in a sexy nightie...."

Your nan would fucking get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 73. "

We know Cher.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"I'm happy being 52"

That should say 53! It was a typo, I wasn't lying about my age, honestly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is 3 months or so out, purely because I don't trust sites to not get hacked (I got caught on Ashley Maddison) but I'm really 47.

Some days I look younger and feel older, other days it's the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is right. Who would lie about being that old lol

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm really 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't age irrelevant if you actually like the person in question, OK I'm not down with liars, but is it really such an issue if there's a genuine connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put our correct ages up, can't really see the point in fibbing. If we are going to meet someone we will always want a face pic first, if we find them attractive then age doesn't come into it.

"

Exactly this

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Forty is the old age of youth

Fifty is the youth of old age.

69 is grown up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about those born feb 29 leap year babies should they lie!!!! Doesn't the queen have two birthdays (is she on this forum) Are there ANY queens on here ...?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Forty is the old age of youth

Fifty is the youth of old age.

69 is grown up! "

69 is a matter of taste

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I find myself excluded from all sorts of meetings... Including purely social evenings because I am 62...the upper age limits for a lot of things is 60 ...what difference does a couple of years make ... I can understand if someone doesn't want to meet anyone over 50 ..but there's not much difference between 55 plus and 60 plus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they probably do it to be able to have some contact with a younger person and are mad enough to believe they will pull it off!

I show my real age. What is the point in lying?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My age is correct at the moment, I think you can only change your age once per profile so I'm waiting until I'm 40 then I'll knock 5 years off

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

My real age is on my profile. Everything is tru on ther, too honest for my own good x

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

What’s the point “ be real, be who you are and be happy with it “. life’s to short to try and be something your not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is real. Don't see the point of taking 10 years off and having people ask if I've had a very hard life lol

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I find myself excluded from all sorts of meetings... Including purely social evenings because I am 62...the upper age limits for a lot of things is 60 ...what difference does a couple of years make ... I can understand if someone doesn't want to meet anyone over 50 ..but there's not much difference between 55 plus and 60 plus..."

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Am I allowed to change my age to older than I am like 48 rather than 42 would love to meet fab kelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m changing my age in 6 days time... "

Sadly I change mine in 5!!

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Mine is real. Don't see the point of taking 10 years off and having people ask if I've had a very hard life lol"

Can’t understand why a genuine caring person would even consider thinking such a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots lie about there age, it’s common on fab and rather pointless, people really are kidding themselves when they take the “you look 10 years younger” seriously, it’s just a chat up line.

How we’ve giggled at face pics of people who claim to be 10 years off younger than us only to discover they are most certainly not.

Hubby hits the big 50 in a few weeks which will probably mean we go off a fair few people radar, oh well.....

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Lots lie about there age, it’s common on fab and rather pointless, people really are kidding themselves when they take the “you look 10 years younger” seriously, it’s just a chat up line.

How we’ve giggled at face pics of people who claim to be 10 years off younger than us only to discover they are most certainly not.

Hubby hits the big 50 in a few weeks which will probably mean we go off a fair few people radar, oh well.....

"

With age comes wisdom and experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about

Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me. "

Although I don't actually lie about my age - it's correct to within a few weeks - everything else I reveal about myself may or may not be a fib. Very few fab friends know my name, even less where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno - I am what I say I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about

Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me.

Although I don't actually lie about my age - it's correct to within a few weeks - everything else I reveal about myself may or may not be a fib. Very few fab friends know my name, even less where I live "

All mine isn’t true. Location, DOB, name. Age is though, just out by a couple weeks.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Can’t understand why you would lie about your age, it’s just another thing to cause someone to lose their trust in you and if they can’t trust you why would they want to do anything else

I look younger than I am, even being id’d by one meet once which was awkward to say the least"

Exactly my thoughts

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I'm only 35 but I used the default date of birth as 1/1/83 instead of my actual month and date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 35 but I used the default date of birth as 1/1/83 instead of my actual month and date "

Think i did similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only 35 but I used the default date of birth as 1/1/83 instead of my actual month and date "
.oooohh you won't go to heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im honest on mine. Im 38, but lots of people think I look much younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really tempted to change it now to my mental age, which like most men, is about 15.

8008135

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually 35 but when I rejoined I didn’t want to have my exact age on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually 35 but when I rejoined I didn’t want to have my exact age on my profile. "

Frankly I'm shocked at your heinous deception..

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Well there you go op. No one lies apparently... except me. Gotta love the forum. I've never encountered a bunch of more honest people "

Mines deliberately wrong. I've never denied that.

Never been questioned to my real age either on here, on a meet or in a club. Nor have I ever asked anyone else. Likewise I don't ask if the names people give are genuine or not, if they live where their profile claims or what their inside leg measurement is.

If someone tells me they're 35 then they could realistically be anything from 30-40. Can anyone actually claim to be able to accurately state the age of a stranger via a photo or even upon meeting face to face?

If someone fudges it by a year or two, so long as they look like their photos if/when you meet who gives a shit?

Sure, it's pointless knocking a decade off. But as Scarlett said - it's amazing how nobody else apparently on here seems to ever be cautious enough with personal info to consider taking a year off their age. Methinks there may be a few fibs being told....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is correct, we’ve never felt the need to change it x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world!

People lie about age on here for numerous reasons!

Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older!

I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck!

People are still having sex, wow, what a time to be alive! "

Isn’t it just?

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

I am what I say I am. No point in denying it and still having fun

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By *dinBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My age is correct.... just my stunning good looks make me look younger haha

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I'm quite proud to have survived to reach 70 so I'm not going to hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

51 and still kicking 50's arse

And I used to like younger, but now I like to mix it up

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

There are a lot of women on fab who are 39 and have been 39 for a very long time

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I’ve never lied bout my age n never will it is what it is n I look younger than I am luckily

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By *rodigalMan
over a year ago

sunderland

Im 47 for 8 years then ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if people fib about their age as long as they look like their pictures.

My age isn't quite right, I'm not 42 for a few months yet.

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