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"I have met several men doing this- telling me they are 45 when in reality they are at least 10 years older. Immediate turnoff for me nothing has progressed from there. I am 45 and have never felt the need to hide my age! " You might when you're 55. | |||
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"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women. I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct. Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. " Filter bypass would be the most common reason | |||
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"I am 37 and I am 37 " It’s easier to remember when you tell the truth isn’t it? | |||
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"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic " I'm actually 47 in human years | |||
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"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way. That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me. " Understandable. Question though, is your age within the ballpark of your real age? By that I mean not greatly exaggerated? No judgement, just that I'd not personally be bothered by an age lie if it is close to accurate. But 10 years or more and it would be something to make me think otherwise. | |||
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"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic " I noticed that | |||
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"I think some of the older ones lie about it get get within the age filters but honesty is the best policy " So do some of the younger ones! | |||
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"I think some of the older ones lie about it get get within the age filters but honesty is the best policy So do some of the younger ones!" Yes allsorts do all ages male & female straight fab straight bi gay etc | |||
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"My age is right ... If I was gonna lie I wouldn't put 50!! " You could be 57! | |||
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"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way. That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me. " But I’m sure it’s not years off what it should be. I’ve heard of people knocking 15,years off. | |||
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"I have to say he obvs didn’t look it so why does it matter if you found him attractive " He used old photos , in reality he looked very different to the photo he sent. | |||
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"My age is right ... If I was gonna lie I wouldn't put 50!! You could be 57! " I could be, but I ain't!! If I was gonna lie, I'd put 47 like most of the men on here | |||
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"I don't think men get older than 47 on here, its some sort of fab magic " I'm 69yo I have always used my correct age and as you can see it hasn't held me back. | |||
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"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women. I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct. Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. " I met a guy who’s profile says 28 but he’s actually 22. I was not impressed. He was very inexperienced and wanted to meet an older women who could teach him. I’m sure some women love that. Not me. | |||
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"57 pushing 58 told i look much younger. I have been accused about lying about my age on numerous occassions, once from a lady on Fabs i.e no way are you 57 why would i lie ?" Think I need to raise my age limit there are some really sexy 50 odd yr olds xx | |||
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"57 pushing 58 told i look much younger. I have been accused about lying about my age on numerous occassions, once from a lady on Fabs i.e no way are you 57 why would i lie ?" People expect us oldies to be leather-skinned and wrinkly. | |||
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"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women. I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct. Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. " They're just age fluid. | |||
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"As I'm not in the habit of giving away personal information to complete strangers my age isn't my actual age. My pictures are real and recent(ish) so my actual age is irrelevant. People don't like that or don't trust me because of that? That's up to them. I'm not here to meet a significant other so it really is none of their business. I don't tell people my real name or where I live either. I like my anonymity on here and I'd like to keep it that way. That's why I lie about my age. Certainly not to trick people into meeting me. Understandable. Question though, is your age within the ballpark of your real age? By that I mean not greatly exaggerated? No judgement, just that I'd not personally be bothered by an age lie if it is close to accurate. But 10 years or more and it would be something to make me think otherwise. " Put it this way. Over the 6 years I've been meeting I've not once had anyone question it when I've sent face pics and when we've met. The less random strangers know about me the better as far as I'm concerned. Hope that answers those that question "why lie?" ... and I never actually said whether I've added or taken off years | |||
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"I haven’t had a meet for a while. When I did though, I met a guy who had 47 on his profile but was actually 10 years older. Unusually, I also met someone who was younger than stated, as he liked older women. I’m soon to enter the 50 club, my age is correct. Why do so many knock years off? Even using old photos. " The answer is to "get laid". | |||
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"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world! People lie about age on here for numerous reasons! Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older! I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! " You look amazing if you don't mind me saying so | |||
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"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world! People lie about age on here for numerous reasons! Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older! I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! You look amazing if you don't mind me saying so " Thanks - most kind! | |||
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"I’m 54 and not that long until I’m 55. My age doesn’t bother me one bit. I look better than I did 20 years ago anyway" Thats exactly the same as us! Debs | |||
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"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world! People lie about age on here for numerous reasons! Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older! I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! " People are still having sex, wow, what a time to be alive! | |||
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"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about " Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me. | |||
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"Honestly I’ve noticed men online lie more about their Hieght and cock size..... Women are notorious for lying about their age.... They get away with it more because guys never call them out on it..... I’ve webcamed with a 45 year old potential meet.... what I say on FaceTime was my nan in a sexy nightie...." Your nan would fucking get it. | |||
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"I'm happy being 52" That should say 53! It was a typo, I wasn't lying about my age, honestly! | |||
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"We put our correct ages up, can't really see the point in fibbing. If we are going to meet someone we will always want a face pic first, if we find them attractive then age doesn't come into it. " Exactly this | |||
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"Forty is the old age of youth Fifty is the youth of old age. 69 is grown up! " 69 is a matter of taste | |||
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"I find myself excluded from all sorts of meetings... Including purely social evenings because I am 62...the upper age limits for a lot of things is 60 ...what difference does a couple of years make ... I can understand if someone doesn't want to meet anyone over 50 ..but there's not much difference between 55 plus and 60 plus..." | |||
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"I’m changing my age in 6 days time... " Sadly I change mine in 5!! | |||
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"Mine is real. Don't see the point of taking 10 years off and having people ask if I've had a very hard life lol" Can’t understand why a genuine caring person would even consider thinking such a question | |||
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"Lots lie about there age, it’s common on fab and rather pointless, people really are kidding themselves when they take the “you look 10 years younger” seriously, it’s just a chat up line. How we’ve giggled at face pics of people who claim to be 10 years off younger than us only to discover they are most certainly not. Hubby hits the big 50 in a few weeks which will probably mean we go off a fair few people radar, oh well..... " With age comes wisdom and experience | |||
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"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me. " Although I don't actually lie about my age - it's correct to within a few weeks - everything else I reveal about myself may or may not be a fib. Very few fab friends know my name, even less where I live | |||
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"What's the point in lying it is what it is and there's nothing you can do about your age but what else could these people be lying about Oh I'm lying about all sorts of shit. There are weirdos out there and they're getting no personal info from me. Although I don't actually lie about my age - it's correct to within a few weeks - everything else I reveal about myself may or may not be a fib. Very few fab friends know my name, even less where I live " All mine isn’t true. Location, DOB, name. Age is though, just out by a couple weeks. | |||
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"Can’t understand why you would lie about your age, it’s just another thing to cause someone to lose their trust in you and if they can’t trust you why would they want to do anything else I look younger than I am, even being id’d by one meet once which was awkward to say the least" Exactly my thoughts | |||
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"I'm only 35 but I used the default date of birth as 1/1/83 instead of my actual month and date " Think i did similar | |||
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"I'm only 35 but I used the default date of birth as 1/1/83 instead of my actual month and date " .oooohh you won't go to heaven | |||
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"I’m actually 35 but when I rejoined I didn’t want to have my exact age on my profile. " Frankly I'm shocked at your heinous deception.. | |||
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"Well there you go op. No one lies apparently... except me. Gotta love the forum. I've never encountered a bunch of more honest people " Mines deliberately wrong. I've never denied that. Never been questioned to my real age either on here, on a meet or in a club. Nor have I ever asked anyone else. Likewise I don't ask if the names people give are genuine or not, if they live where their profile claims or what their inside leg measurement is. If someone tells me they're 35 then they could realistically be anything from 30-40. Can anyone actually claim to be able to accurately state the age of a stranger via a photo or even upon meeting face to face? If someone fudges it by a year or two, so long as they look like their photos if/when you meet who gives a shit? Sure, it's pointless knocking a decade off. But as Scarlett said - it's amazing how nobody else apparently on here seems to ever be cautious enough with personal info to consider taking a year off their age. Methinks there may be a few fibs being told.... A | |||
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"I have the same DOB on here as I do in the real world! People lie about age on here for numerous reasons! Vanity, avoiding being ‘swinger spotted’ by fake profiles who are looking out for people that they know, or to bypass filters - both younger or older! I know I’m out of a lot of people’s age range now - particularly couples - but happily I still manage to get the occasional fuck! People are still having sex, wow, what a time to be alive! " Isn’t it just? | |||
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