FabSwingers.com forum: So is it time for yet another goodbye

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.

I've had fun but the repeated posts just don't do it for me, no longer interested and whilst I could open the floodgates and get tons of messages I'm also tired of couples and singles guys asking for yet another meet. Want to see my face yet again.

I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.

It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.

Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?

I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.

Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye trimeski, come back soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bye trimeski, come back soon

Thank you and perhaps I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye, have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy your sabbatical. A break is good for the soul.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Take care and all the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Bye bye enjoy yourself whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye, see you around Easter time

best wishes on the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bye trimeski, come back soon

Thank you and perhaps I will.

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Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you find what you’re looking for, if not come back xx I find life a bit stale but not sure how to find something better, be happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.

I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.

It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.

Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?

I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.

Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.

Good luck OP, apparently you'll be back (so people say) and if you do .. good on you girl

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

This really is like shooting ducks in a barrel -anyone else care to leave and leave a long winded post about it for me to shred?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Don’t feed the Trolls. Starve them of attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op,

no idea who you are but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun where ever you go OP, but be cautious when hanging your boots up, if you forget to take your feet out first it can be hard to escape

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Ner Ner Ner Ner way hey hey goodbye lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said ‘tries to be respectful ‘ above.

I try my best

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......

I ask myself the same question -but still no answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......

I ask myself the same question -but still no answer."

Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dude. Don’t go hiding behind the excuse of localised slang. Feck or fuck off. Stand by convictions you said. Now don’t turn into a coward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......

I ask myself the same question -but still no answer.

Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer?"

so much for - end of.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......

I ask myself the same question -but still no answer.

Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer?

so much for - end of."

No -the forum comments amuse me -it's my main source of entertainment these days -feck celebrity love island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me"

Or a plea for attention?

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me"
Careful, you'll be accused of having a small cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's my violin gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's my violin gone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me

Or a plea for attention?"

Maybe it is? Maybe tgeyre frustrated?Maybe they felt flat? Maybe there's a simple case of everything feeling a bit too much with no real avenues of offloading so they wrote that?

Never understood the mocking of such posts, maybe just don't comment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me

Or a plea for attention?"

Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.

Not a plea for any attention, if I wanted that I would have just put up some pictures and opened up my profile to single guys. I actually wrote what I felt and still feel. I asked myself the question but as I wrote it I answered my own question whilst writing.

I've come back to this thread out of curiosity (bf wanted to log on to see what events where on this weekend as we intend to go out) and since there where unanswered questions and I have a natural instructive nature to always answer unanswered questions I have responded.

Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.

I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.

I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.

Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.

Eski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me"

It certainly isn’t! The OP can use her account as she sees fit and delete when she wants. If you’ve made lots of friends on here over the years, then you want to exchange emails etc. The lovely OP been here years so lots of goodbyes.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me

Or a plea for attention?

Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.

Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.

I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.

I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.

Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.

Eski"

Enjoy your time off, see you around the club seen possibly.

ttfn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.

I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.

It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.

Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?

I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.

Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.

Aww..

Not had the chance to get to know you yet. I hope it brings you what you want. If not, come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a break OP - if not then I hope you have a nice life

I'm not sure who you are or if we've interacted on the forums - but everything gets repetitive after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some people come on these threads just to make such twatty comments?

Good luck in your endeavours OP

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me

Or a plea for attention?

Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.

Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.

I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.

I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.

Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.

Eski"

Well, you have helped me with advice and knowledge via PM so I thank you for that, and I wish you all the best for whatever you decide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see you’ve made your mind up op.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people come on these threads just to make such twatty comments?

Good luck in your endeavours OP

Who are these ‘some people’? Sound like a testy comment to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Au revoir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people come on these threads just to make such twatty comments?

Good luck in your endeavours OP

I think the answer is in your question sweetie

Good luck OP

I know what you mean

At times I feel a similar way but feelings are fickle they pass and I am still for now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?

Bit of a kop out if you ask me"

Can you at least try to be pleasant for once, try it see how you go ?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

People are often told “don’t go just hide your profile for a while”, if the OP has done that then what is the big deal

if she stays or goes that is her business.

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