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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s your next move to pull in fab?

To explain, if you were looking for someone for a sexy adventure, you don’t have a target but open to attract someone that fits your bill, how would you go about it? It’s a lot different to being in a pub in Town isn’t it?

Do you hit the forums hoping to strike up a conversation?

Flash your best bits on a new photo hoping it gets to page 1 etc.

Send out a mail shot in your area?

What do you do, and what has worked in the past for you ?

Feel free to use this thread or pull your next victim etc....

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Go to a club.... much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mirror, signal then turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a thread called ‘Horny and bored come drain my Balls!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly right handed unless I fancy a threesome..

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say the words "come n get me"

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

I would never get on page 1 anyway! But for me clubs are so much easier than fab, you know what you are getting, whereas here there's a lot of people that want to meet up and then go into radio silence the closer the meet gets, although I have met a few good ones, so i guess its not all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a couples profile with random pics stolen off the net of a gorgeous female, then when everyone mails you.

Just say "shes at her mums,not well,on holiday or tied up with work, and can you meet the female or couple alone"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I look at who's near occasionally to select my next victim and send a message inviting them to look at my profile. The ball is in their court then.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I find not warming up or stretching out after is a good way of pulling something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just sporney

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I start being nice...

That tends to confuse them then next thing you know we’ve arranged a meet and we go on to have hot nasty sex.

Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to look on the forums for my next victim...

I look and see who has fabbed my pics and then whether they fit what im looking for and then (hold the front page!!) I message THEM....that usually works

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

My technique is akin to the pitcher flower -revolt them at first but then their curiosity gets the better of them & whammo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start a couples profile with random pics stolen off the net of a gorgeous female, then when everyone mails you.

Just say "shes at her mums,not well,on holiday or tied up with work, and can you meet the female or couple alone" "

Is that how it started for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to look on the forums for my next victim...

I look and see who has fabbed my pics and then whether they fit what im looking for and then (hold the front page!!) I message THEM....that usually works "

Way too radical

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I look through the people that fab my pics and return to fab new ones posted I find they're usually the people that have a pretty genuine attraction to you

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I tend to stand at bus stops and fix my seams while whistling old man river. It’s never worked but I’m willing to keep trying as I’m a sucker for punishment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont as I mostly just use fab for the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start a couples profile with random pics stolen off the net of a gorgeous female, then when everyone mails you.

Just say "shes at her mums,not well,on holiday or tied up with work, and can you meet the female or couple alone"

Is that how it started for you? "

Yep then we took a carboard full size cutout of me along to meets so they could all see im just a figment of our own imageination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my tits out.

I'm thinking of a different tactic this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wit and charm isn't getting me very far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would follow you round the forum a bit flash a few around then hit you with a message when I found something suitable to comment on.

I do a bit better being found by people nowadays though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play the very long game.

I hope someone notices me in the forum. I post shite 97% of the time then ocasionally up my gamewith either a very witty, insightful or meaningful post. Then I see if anyone responds.

Then I play hard to get by being completely the wrong country.

At no point do I suggest meeting, sex, or anything to do with cake .

It isn't the most successful of tactics but my friends list alludes to the exceptional quality of ladies that find me a curiosity if nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get my tits out.

I'm thinking of a different tactic this year."

Beaver for the win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get my tits out.

I'm thinking of a different tactic this year."

If looking for ideas....Try taking your socks off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I start being nice...

That tends to confuse them then next thing you know we’ve arranged a meet and we go on to have hot nasty sex.

Job done."

Read like a recipe fro Gordon Ramsey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mostly right handed unless I fancy a threesome.."

Then both hands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps if your fit six pack well endowed and good loking...

Me..nothing of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply copy and paste either a "fancy a fuck" or "how ya doin, babe" message attach a pick of my cock, obviously take in the toilet. And send it to the 500 nearest women guarentee block by at least 600 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trip over and fall in cock first its a comical but productive habbit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It helps if your fit six pack well endowed and good loking...

"

...and don’t put a photo up to back those facts up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if your fit six pack well endowed and good loking...

Me..nothing of the above"
im none of the above im a furry gruff straight shooting tubby yorkshire man i do ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It helps if your fit six pack well endowed and good loking...

Me..nothing of the aboveim none of the above im a furry gruff straight shooting tubby yorkshire man i do ok"

You do okay, so How do people pull your finger?

*should be the thread title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just send them a pic of my boobs and say FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It helps if your fit six pack well endowed and good loking...

Me..nothing of the aboveim none of the above im a furry gruff straight shooting tubby yorkshire man i do ok

You do okay, so How do people pull your finger?

*should be the thread title. "
its a secret only lady parts can tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy...drop stealth, perve at many profiles then just sit back and wait....oh, hang on, you're a guy, it won't work You need seduction and hours of groundwork first

Peach x

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