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The definition of a swinger/swinging

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Answers on a stamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A swinger is a person who practices swinging.

Swinging is what a swinger does when they're practicing.

I think that will fit on one of those really big stamps if you write very small

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I know what it is! I want other people's view on it.....that's why is says definition how would you define a swinger / swinging....it means different things to different people for me it means socialising with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one likes swing's. But not roundabout's

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Some one likes swing's. But not roundabout's"

If you cant say anything tangable just don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us swinging is just an extension of the ethical non monogamous lifestyle we have lived as a poly couple.

It involves us making meaningful friendships with people we also have fun with.

It's a package if you like that is not just about sex.

With this in mind you could define a swingers who likes to have friend they have regular sexual fun with as part of their friendship xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with any title or level it is a stick with which to beat others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people have such issues now days about wearing labels/titles

We are people that have many different labels in life and as long as those labels are not just being used to stereotype is what's wrong with them

We use labels/titles to identify like minded people for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have such issues now days about wearing labels/titles

We are people that have many different labels in life and as long as those labels are not just being used to stereotype is what's wrong with them

We use labels/titles to identify like minded people for one. "

Youre second and third paragraphs are directly contradictory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have such issues now days about wearing labels/titles

We are people that have many different labels in life and as long as those labels are not just being used to stereotype us what's wrong with them

We use labels/titles to identify like minded people for one.

Youre second and third paragraphs are directly contradictory."

Not at all. Stereotyping and identifying are totally different things

If I am looking for a bi male I will look for people who label themselves as bi.

That does not mean I have a stereotype in mind.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The original definition was coined in the 60s to define anyone that subscribed to free love rather than the traditional sex within marriage lifestyle - hence the term Swinging 60s.

Since then it has been borrowed by many to mean different things and therefore has lost any sense of a single definition, so I guess it's whatever you as an individual want it to mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"The original definition was coined in the 60s to define anyone that subscribed to free love rather than the traditional sex within marriage lifestyle - hence the term Swinging 60s.

Since then it has been borrowed by many to mean different things and therefore has lost any sense of a single definition, so I guess it's whatever you as an individual want it to mean."

Good answer....seems to.have lost its meaning with quite a lot ....

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis. "

Another stipid answer

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

For us it's meeting like minded people to socialise with and hopefully make friends with and if the added extra is sex then great. Swinging is not something you can really talk about with your friends or family about and meeting people in the same boat as you really helps as it's good to talk about it with someone other than your partner

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"For us it's meeting like minded people to socialise with and hopefully make friends with and if the added extra is sex then great. Swinging is not something you can really talk about with your friends or family about and meeting people in the same boat as you really helps as it's good to talk about it with someone other than your partner"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one likes swing's. But not roundabout's

If you cant say anything tangable just don't bother"
called having a sense if humour. Where is yours

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Some one likes swing's. But not roundabout's

If you cant say anything tangable just don't bother called having a sense if humour. Where is yours"

I don't have one! Especially on here!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

Another stipid answer"

Sence of humour was wasted there then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have such issues now days about wearing labels/titles

We are people that have many different labels in life and as long as those labels are not just being used to stereotype is what's wrong with them

We use labels/titles to identify like minded people for one. "

Couldn't have said it better. The hang ups about labels and who is allowed to be considered "proper swingers" have no place here other than to feed division prejudice and stoke up anger over labels that mean very little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have such issues now days about wearing labels/titles

We are people that have many different labels in life and as long as those labels are not just being used to stereotype is what's wrong with them

We use labels/titles to identify like minded people for one.

Couldn't have said it better. The hang ups about labels and who is allowed to be considered "proper swingers" have no place here other than to feed division prejudice and stoke up anger over labels that mean very little."

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

Another stupid answer

Sence of humour was wasted there then!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

Another stipid answer"

Ask a stupid question and you’ll get a stupid answer

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Well it's definitely not me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me im just a mother fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging - Sexual freedom!!! Supposed to be recognised as a religion!!!!!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It’s different things to different people

I personally just see it as liberating sexual exploration

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

Another stipid answer

Ask a stupid question and you’ll get a stupid answer "

IT WASNT A STUPID QUESTION!!!!! WE CAN ALL HAVE OUR SAY IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE QUESTION KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS TO YOURSELF

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By *ettyboop61 OP   Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"It’s different things to different people

I personally just see it as liberating sexual exploration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger. It's a 360 degree digger!

For The stamp I would Just say...Digger

Swinging. Moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

Another stipid answer

Ask a stupid question and you’ll get a stupid answer

IT WASNT A STUPID QUESTION!!!!! WE CAN ALL HAVE OUR SAY IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE QUESTION KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS TO YOURSELF"

You’re so easily triggered. It was just a joke sweetie. Not a dick. Don’t take it so hard

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