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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi so not having much luck on here can anyone suggest another site that they use which is easy to use and free like here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

This is the best site

It’s not about luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentioning competitor sites is frowned upon OP.

It's all about effort for blokes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perchance could I suggest a brothel.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Perchance could I suggest a brothel. "

But he'd have to pay for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perchance could I suggest a brothel.

But he'd have to pay for that "

True yes

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Wefuckanyguydotcom is good for what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Sorry but you need to put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wefuckanyguydotcom is good for what you want "

Ha ha . Ide like to open that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi so not having much luck on here can anyone suggest another site that they use which is easy to use and free like here??"

FREE sites!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think like that. Stuck to it, upped my game and approach.

Enjoying it now.

You need to put effort in, some maybe more than others but it definitely gets better once you figure out how you are going wrong.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

There really isn't a better site I'm afraid,maybe see what you can do to change your luck on here.

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By *a KatWoman
over a year ago

Northwest


"Hi so not having much luck on here can anyone suggest another site that they use which is easy to use and free like here??"
I noticed that Swinging clubs, is absent from your list of interests. Swinging, is a good way to introduce yourself perhaps even become fab friends. If you are polite, chat, laugh, and go with the flow, and as always respectful then, there is a fair chance of being accepted as a good egg.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not read the replies but -

Fab is a business and using their site and costs to promote competitors isn't appropriate. It's also the very best site that caters to this market - I add that with 100% certainty.

If you do the same things, on a site that has more of the same type of people as FAb, you'll likely get similar results. This will be influenced by you as well as others - interests, availability etc but also how you're communicating with others. You have limited ability to radically change yourself, in ways that are apparent, except at surface level: facial expression, appearance/clothes, photo results etc. But you have much greater ability to alter how the you that is communicated is perceived by others. If your assumption is that there are sufficient people out there that would like to know someone like you and it's correct - then rather than just changing where you're trying to find these people, consider more of the how.

You could consider swinging clubs and fab socials, to increase peoples' awareness of you that's better than just a profile page. And you could adjust how you're communicating about yourself.

Those are my immediate thoughts.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Hi so not having much luck on here can anyone suggest another site that they use which is easy to use and free like here??"

The yellow pages site is free and easy to use

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Effort in = results out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments on this

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Amazon do a good line in blow up dolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try making a few of your pics public...unless they are cock pics, then keep them hidden

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not about luck OP - other than what you make for yourself - set your expectations, approach and attitude right, couple it with a decent profile and pictures and there *could* be no need for another site like this for you.

Get it wrong however....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience theres no such thing asluck

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

If you’re after a quick ride and you fancy getting hot and steamy with an older model then you’re not too far away from the keighley & worth valley railway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re after a quick ride and you fancy getting hot and steamy with an older model then you’re not too far away from the keighley & worth valley railway. "

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Try the NHS website -you can get appointments at any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi so not having much luck on here can anyone suggest another site that they use which is easy to use and free like here??

The yellow pages site is free and easy to use "

Blue balls, Yellow Pages.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I've said it before but if you're a middle aged average bloke with no public pics and no verifications no one is going to reply to you.

I'd suggest going along to a social to get verified and putting up some tasteful pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club, but go in purely to have a fun social evening and talk to people in the same way you would if you went into a pub for the first time.

If anything happens, then that's a bonus. Just don't pester or follow couples and ladies around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest ones are where you pay people to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thousands of men are on here looking for a quick fuck. You would have to be someone special for me to respond to a booty call.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Don’t just rely on living life through a screen. You’re in the northwest which is chock full of lifestyle clubs. Get out there. Talk to people. Network. Make real life, tangible connections.

It’s not about luck and even if it was, to be lucky enough to win the lottery, you do have to actually purchase a ticket!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

44 years old with the word boy in username....such an repellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thousands of men are on here looking for a quick fuck. You would have to be someone special for me to respond to a booty call. "

My psychiatrist says I'm special. .

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