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10 Things Fab Has Taught Me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!

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1. Don't judge a book by it's cover

2. Don't trust a book with no cover!

3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance

4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!

5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.

6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit

7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!

8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?

9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance

10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!

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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt .

What has Fab taught you over your time on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

You have learnt a lot in 3 weeks

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

People talk a load of shit on the Forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Golden piece of advice: None of the rules apply if you have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x"

I hear you girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People make too many lists

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

You learn quick in a few weeks bet you were brainy at school

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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That some guys will say absolutely anything to get their dicks wet!! I should have really known this before joining fab though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That some guys will say absolutely anything to get their dicks wet!! I should have really known this before joining fab though."

Let me bum you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x"

So true! Though a few special exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x

I hear you girl "

Every time x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"You have learnt a lot in 3 weeks "

That's what we were thinking and his profile appears to back him up. Surprised he's minus the green tick to be honest.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Everyone (not really everyone ) thinks their way is the right way and the only way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness "

It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point 10 is incorrect OP. Sorry.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x"

I suppose I should include this as well though that's currently due to where i'm stranded!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"That some guys will say absolutely anything to get their dicks wet!! I should have really known this before joining fab though."

Not true fabwatrocadoleybocious

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Just because you join a sex website does not mean you're going to get sex.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness

It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough "

Perhaps, but jealousy and fab are incompatible.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I'm sure with enough effort I could come up with a 10 things list but i'll keep it to the most important for me. Fab has taught me to be rid of feelings of jealousy or possessiveness

It’s natural to feel jealous if you like someone enough "

Really? I beg to differ as I'm sure most couples would too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me that the 1st 10 profiles i look at are probably fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv learnt no matter how u think of urself and they way u look there will always be someone that thinks ur hot ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt that no matter how polite, respectful and mannerly I am I never get a response. I’m not a bad looking chap either. Not sure where I’m going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10! Blimey ok.

1. Never google anything you don’t understand

on fab.

2. I’m more easily shocked than I thought I was

3. It’s soooo difficult to find what you’re looking for on here

4. As well as there being some vile human beings here there are also some genuine amazing people who I’m proud to call my friends.

5. I’m a fussy cow

6. There is a lot of jealousy and downright nastiness here.

7. Keep my opinions to myself.

8. Be very careful who i tell things to.

9. It’s quite addictive

10.Not all men prefer slim women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok

1 im a catch

2 im really good at sex

3 some really funny women on here

4 forum folks are ace

5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on

Il finnish latèr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok

1 im a catch

2 im really good at sex

3 some really funny women on here

4 forum folks are ace

5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on

Il finnish latèr"

You have learnt nothing, noting.... nada!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.

1. Trust no one

2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches

3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.

4. People actually tell great big fat lies

5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)

#Justsaying

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Never believe lists of anything. They're just marketing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not ever believe ppl who drive a Kia because they will never show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.

1. Trust no one

2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches

3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.

4. People actually tell great big fat lies

5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)

#Justsaying"

Why not display verifications from forumanites?

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By *anacekMan
over a year ago

nantwich


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x

I hear you girl

Every time x"

Really ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.

1. Trust no one

2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches

3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.

4. People actually tell great big fat lies

5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)

#Justsaying"

Agree with 1 to 4 but after throwing my toys out of my pram today I’ve decided I don’t give a f##k what people think or say anymore. Block the haters and the jealous bitches

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It’s taunt me to spell and talk durty to the lurvely ladies and lassies so it is has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me that 'Keep in touch and we'll deffo meet soon' translates to 'you can message me, but I'll delete it without reading it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taught me nothing.

Only confirmed to me to trust no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Be careful who you entrust with your story

2. You don’t have to try harder to be successful on here

3. There are a huge amount of men who want to suck your cock.

4. Keep who you meet between yourselves.

5. I am much more capable of extreme pleasure than I thought.

6. Deliberately not meeting for 5 years taught me a lot.

7. There are some awesome people on here

8. I have a swinging mentality

9. I can tell people that matter that I’m bisexual and very kinky without the world caving in

10. The forum is too addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has taught me nothing.

Only confirmed to me to trust no one."

Sadly I have to agree with this comment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It confirmed the sneaking suspicion I've always had that I'm bloody awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met some fantastic people on here and I've had some great sex. But all good things come to an end eventually.

1. Trust no one

2. Some women are two faced jealous bitches

3. Don't display verifications from Forumites you have fucked.

4. People actually tell great big fat lies

5. I am sexy/beautiful/amazing, until I've been fucked, then I'm a notch (more often then not)

#Justsaying"

Couldn’t have put it better myself x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It has taught me nothing.

Only confirmed to me to trust no one.

Sadly I have to agree with this comment... "

And add us to the list who 100% agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this post has made me smile and restored my faith in a younger man! Thanks

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!

-------------------------------------------------------

1. Don't judge a book by it's cover

2. Don't trust a book with no cover!

3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance

4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!

5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.

6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit

7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!

8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?

9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance

10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!

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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt .

What has Fab taught you over your time on here?"

You seem to have sussed it out pretty quickly OP. Hope you have loads of fun

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Today it's taught me that a plethora of sexy women have a thing for dad bods ...best news I've had all day.

I'm expecting my inbox to go crazy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That no one on here fancy me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not ever believe ppl who drive a Kia because they will never show up "

I drive a kia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m the sexiest women on this site. I get told it every week so it MUST be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I've only been around on here for a couple weeks and am still very much finding my feet around here! But I feel I've learnt a lot in three weeks and thought I'd share it to see what Fab has taught everyone else!

-------------------------------------------------------

1. Don't judge a book by it's cover

2. Don't trust a book with no cover!

3. Patience. Perserverence. Self-assurance

4. Interesting, intelligent people enjoy amazing and kink sex as much as the next person!

5. Communication skills are both widely underused and horrifically undervalued.

6. Reliability is key. Second chances are rare. Third chances are like rocking horse shit

7. Variety is abundant. Everyone is different in their own uniquely amazing way. That's kind of the point!

8. The chase can be hard - But if the chase was easy would it feel worthwhile?

9. Beauty starts within - Self confidence is so much more attractive then physical appearance

10. Shower selfies don't work - Too much steam!

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So that's my musings. My lessons learnt .

What has Fab taught you over your time on here?"

Some will be thinking this must be too good to be true... but this one is a quick learner and has the profile to back it up. Only time will tell now.

One of the best opening posts I have read in a long time. He has also learnt not to come back into his own thread. How cheeky is that

Enjoy OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x"

Same here

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Fab had taught me that on this thread the OP is very cute

Mrs

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

This is my rules for fab and any other site .

1. Don't be thirsty

2. Don't send dick picks

3. Don't think with ya dick

4. Show respect

5. Don't be rude

6. Don't hassle people

7. No still means no

8. Listen too advice about ya profile and how you can get a veri .

9 . Be honset lies get you no where and you will always get found out

10 . There is soooooo many hot lady's out there .

Weather we ever come in contact I would like too wish you all a amazing 2019. Stay stong, positive and never give up. Life's isn't easy but we are stronger than we think . We are never given anything we can't deal with . Take care everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing really.

The only really differnt thing about fab than anywhere else on the internet is that there is a potential personal gain or loss from what a person posts or how they presents themselves.

So there's some interesting differences in how women and couples post and men.

Women and couples tend to be much blunter as they aren't always aware they need to present positively to get sex/meets.

But there is certainly some cases of one upmanship on particular topics and underlying bitterness in others.

It's certainly different but its not new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok

1 im a catch

2 im really good at sex

3 some really funny women on here

4 forum folks are ace

5 you can be friends with opposite sex without wanting to climb on

Il finnish latèr"

6 gangbangs can start by accident as some guys have no self control

7 its helped my confidence

8 some people are broken beyond repair

9 mff is a myth

10 i cant leave no matter how hard i try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 not to trust so easily

2 people lie

3 to not be so open about myself

4 you can have real true friendships

5 that I have more confidence than I realised

6 that socials are great fun

7 some people are worth traveling for

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By *edoCoolMan
over a year ago

london

Great list OP, been coming to those same conclusions myself over last couple of months. Lots of good additions from other posters too, but sooo many posts bemoaning lies and lack of trust on Fabs - sad but true I guess. 

The site can be a good way to start the conversation, but socials are better for finding real people with shared interests - personal recommendations are better than veris!

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I don’t actually have a type!

Go figure!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t actually have a type!

Go figure!!! "

Me either funny is my type

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I have learnt exactly the same as I have in real life ...

Some people are arseholes because they just are

Most people aren't though

And I like bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it’s full of cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite this being a sexually focused site, the likelihood of coordinating someone else's mojo and yours, at a mutually convenient time, in a mutually convenient place, with a mutually attracted member takes a lot of hard work! It's easy to lose the desire

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

The amount of unbelievable bullshit on here.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"1 not to trust so easily

2 people lie

3 to not be so open about myself

4 you can have real true friendships

5 that I have more confidence than I realised

6 that socials are great fun

7 some people are worth traveling for

"

That would be my list too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you send a message, let it go like a balloon and don’t follow it, sometimes it will come back and sometimes it will get caught in a tree and pop, but if I can’t see it I’m not bothered. This is a terrible analogy but I can’t pull out now, I’ve typed too much, but I think you get my point. Taxi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The harder you try to get a meet, the harder it is to get one.

Conversely, the more time you spend just connecting with people with sex completely off the table, the more chance you have of finding friends who may be tempted to do more than share a gin with you.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Everyone I'm attracted to are miles away lol x"

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Tvs get a rough ride on this site we seem to be blocked by vertually everyone

Especially if your a tv who fancies women

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like this list. The biggest lesson I have learnt in the last few years is never judge a book by its cover.

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