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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood but even I laugh at myself when I hear the things that can come out my mouth when I am horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, I'm frigging hopeless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a real heat of the moment thing for me.

If not I end up saying it in my head and talking myself out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remember saying to guy, you are so manly Grrrrrrr

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By *ust fun9TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

We should never do things that we don't like or find not arousing.

For me it can be really hot with the right couple/lady.

It's how you say things and it should be very respectful if you all enjoy.

Do you like it. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only a real heat of the moment thing for me.

If not I end up saying it in my head and talking myself out of it "

Same here, I can type it but not say it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember saying to guy, you are so manly Grrrrrrr "

Ooh you rebel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember saying to guy, you are so manly Grrrrrrr

Ooh you rebel"

I know, I think it was because he had a hairy chest.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m rather good at talking naughty but in a respectful way and with perfect Queen’s English. Tally ho!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow much more than call a woman a slut ...

Would you not like to here how arrtive you are and who much he look forward to the moment of have you the anticipation of be inside you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

Not in messages or phone, it’s rubbish, actions speak louder than words. If someone wants to get off through that medium, it’s not my cup of tea. In terms of saying to when on a meet, I’d probably crack up in hysterics also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even with someone i know well..

I find the whole situation ridiculously contrived

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I remember saying to guy, you are so manly Grrrrrrr "

Would love this...

Sex is funny that sounds like great fun..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow much more than call a woman a slut ...

Would you not like to here how arrtive you are and who much he look forward to the moment of have you the anticipation of be inside you.. "

I remember once being called a dirty slut.

Told him to get off, got changed and left. Thing is we’d had several lovely meets so I was bewildered why he said that

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Wow much more than call a woman a slut ...

Would you not like to here how arrtive you are and who much he look forward to the moment of have you the anticipation of be inside you..

I remember once being called a dirty slut.

Told him to get off, got changed and left. Thing is we’d had several lovely meets so I was bewildered why he said that "

Too much porn

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

After a solid rimming everything that comes out of said mouth is pure filth

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Can't talk dirty at all, feel a bit silly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a solid rimming everything that comes out of said mouth is pure filth"

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sue never swears normally so when we have sex she talks dirty to make me spurt ....every time ....

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Do you want to comfortable with it or are you happy as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

It makes me cringe to hear it or do it, just creeps me out

Great ass by the way OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope can't do it and feel like an idiot when I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so bad really. Depends in what context.

A bit of imagination and good word usage, it's not all that far from flirting.

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m crap it, it sounds amazing in my imagination but the words come out fucked up lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Nooooo. I just can’t do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr likes it but I feel a bit of a fanny saying it sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t do it with anyone random, but someone I have a connection with then yes I enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it incredibly boring, ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

Is that the best you’ve got, your right. Your rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it incredibly boring, ridiculous."

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it.

Is that the best you’ve got, your right. Your rubbish. "

I know I am

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Nope, just can't do it.

Many years ago a friend was working on a sex chatline convinced me to give it a try.

We had basic scripts we had as guides, then embellish on as the situation suited.

I got sacked for laughing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, just can't do it.

Many years ago a friend was working on a sex chatline convinced me to give it a try.

We had basic scripts we had as guides, then embellish on as the situation suited.

I got sacked for laughing! "

I have a friend who does it too! She said the bollocks we come out with is unbelievable, but most only want to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

I'm exactly the same. It's cringe!

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think it just depends on the people really. Don’t take it too seriously, leave the fits and giggles at the door and it can be a lot of fun.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I can type it, and depending on the play situation I can whisper it

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "
with 99% of people I can't do it .. makes me laugh or feel stupid. Yet have one or two people i can do it with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard enough to string ordinary sentences together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't and for the reason I find it rather contrived. There's often a chasm between talking it and doing too. I prefer to just do it and surprise her stage to stage.

I get why some feel the need to be told as it's role play with master/sub boundaries but each to their own.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Have be known to with the right person or persons, in the right situations obviously J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i cant do it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I'm the same, I'm frigging hopeless! "

Just depends on who, what, when.

It ok having a laugh during it or saying something silly.

My advice, don't take it seriously, and just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't and for the reason I find it rather contrived. There's often a chasm between talking it and doing too. I prefer to just do it and surprise her stage to stage.

I get why some feel the need to be told as it's role play with master/sub boundaries but each to their own. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought about it until meeting a woman who was into it.

With the right person who enjoys it as well it can make it great

But with someone who isn't into it and just trying it's off putting. My better half has tried although she isn't into it at all so i end up laughing which is not the desired effect lol

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

No I cant talk dirty either it just feels silly to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it with someone I know well. One of my regular partners growls filth into my ear and he can make me cum instantly that way. Plus we do saucy role play too and it's so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m rubbish at it. I just get all shy and flustered

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Would a vicar call their partner a filthy heathen as dirty talk I wonder?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t do phone sex but if i’m with a sex partner that i’m relaxed with then i can get a bit full on filthy. A bit too much i think as i uttered some filth on my last sex outing and he looked at me like he wanted to laugh.

Just a few “that’s it, fuck me big boy, stick your pork sword in my beef curtains” and they cum faster than Usain Bolt doing the 100 metres.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm like Simon from The Inbetweeners

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

God I love it !

but not that cheesy stuff like being called a slut or anything that lacks imagination . .

Just the genuine filthy kinda stuff you’re really into .

An intelligent person being creative and exploring in that way is really hot !

Pushing the boundaries and role playing

I love being filthy

Whilst we’re fucking I love being told about the filthy stuff C has been up to or wants to do with me or with others and vice versa . Makes me hot and he cums harder too .

Often that leads us to really live it out in ‘ real life ‘

I love words generally so I would be bored if we never played that way but it has to be right , not like the forced stuff or someone e that can’t shut up , and timing is everything x

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"I just can’t do it! I end up falling about laughing if I try and get dirty on the phone and I hate being called a dirty slut during sex and men explaining to me what they are going to do, just get on with it.

Do you like it. "

I'm the same. It just winds up devolving into puns and innuendos lol.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I'm like Simon from The Inbetweeners "

Or Paul Rudd in the film, Wanderlust?

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By *exoParaTodosMan
over a year ago

Alicante province


"I love it with someone I know well. One of my regular partners growls filth into my ear and he can make me cum instantly that way. Plus we do saucy role play too and it's so much fun "

While fucking... a few filthy words here and there.... really does add to the experience.... it certainly turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit of filth is good but too much n id laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking dirty can take good sex to great sex if done right and it feels natural but I hate being called a slut. I love when people are vocal during sex, gets me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it but I'm totally naff at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking dirty can take good sex to great sex if done right and it feels natural but I hate being called a slut. I love when people are vocal during sex, gets me going "

what like chearing you on,,,like "WELL DONE YOU,,,,WOOOO WOOO,,GO FOR IT!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking dirty can take good sex to great sex if done right and it feels natural but I hate being called a slut. I love when people are vocal during sex, gets me going

what like chearing you on,,,like "WELL DONE YOU,,,,WOOOO WOOO,,GO FOR IT!" "

Girl... I wouldnt hate it tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find whispering it in her ear is best, unless the lights are off, in which case I say it quietly. Not sure why.

Plus you only call her a dirty slut or whatever at the end when she wants to be one. First I start with basics like 'do you like that' etc.., normal stuff and take it up from there, always getting answers and pushing her forward to find her deepest fantasies. Then you tell her she is slut/bad girl/whore/dirty bitch etc... If you are lucky she will ask you if she is one of those first, same answer always 'Yes you are a very dirty bitch' etc.. It helps if you know their words for rude bits in advance - nothing worse than using the wrong one that they think are hilarious. Some women think 'pussy' is funny!

We're all different, that's just me.

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By *layourcardsrightCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We love it too

Nothing like a naughty chat whilst playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One fab friend of mine is a total dirty text talker. Not just with me, she is like it with others too and I have to say very good at it. But with others it is just not comfortable and feels cringy and I would feel a pratt doing it.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Harlot! Assume the position; I wish to fook thee!’

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