FabSwingers.com forum: Fab fatigue

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you do when it hits?

Just don't log in or persevere and hope something exciting will pop up and reignite that flame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sabatical. I haven't been on all week. I've come on again today but sure in a few days I'll be ready to leave again. It doesn't hold the appeal for me it used to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a break, hide my profile, occasionally peruse the forums and generally concentrate on other things in life.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Usually hide my profile for a wee while and come back refreshed and raring to go again.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"What do you do when it hits?

Just don't log in or persevere and hope something exciting will pop up and reignite that flame? "

I really don't know it my true answer, as I have been waiting for nearly 2 years now

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I don't hang around here for to long. I pop in, I pop out.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Take a break, hide my profile, occasionally peruse the forums and generally concentrate on other things in life. "

That’s what I would do when I fancy a break to do other things or just some time away. It works for me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Log off - if I'm not particularly enjoying something I don't carry on doing it. If it's really meh, hide my profile and leave it for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a box or two of Jaffacakes, and ponder the ways and means....while trying to break the record for how many can be stored in the mouth without chomping down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t delete - just hide your profile and switch off for a week. I do this occasionally- but I deleted last time. Big mistake. You need to start again with Veris and contacts. And for some reason you can’t get always get your old name back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should come to mine and have a nice relaxing full body massage followed by some intense orgasms.

Then we can order pizza and watch something good on netflix

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I log on and get irritated by the fact nothing interests me lol!

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I’m known to hide my profile & go AWOL for months or even almost a year at a time.

Try other sites. Then when they start to suck or you get that fatigue then wander back with fresh enthusiasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a break from social media and Log into nature, there’s no WiFi there but you won’t find a better connection.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have a break from social media and Log into nature, there’s no WiFi there but you won’t find a better connection. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option b but slow things down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a break from social media and Log into nature, there’s no WiFi there but you won’t find a better connection. "

Very true. Nothing beats a night in the middle of nowhere by a camp fire gazing up at the stars! We were planning on going camping up the highlands this weekend but there was a song needing recorded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a break from social media and Log into nature, there’s no WiFi there but you won’t find a better connection.

Very true. Nothing beats a night in the middle of nowhere by a camp fire gazing up at the stars! We were planning on going camping up the highlands this weekend but there was a song needing recorded

I hate it when I have to record a song and I want to go camping,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird. "

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case. "

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case. "

Is the fridge a Smeg one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture"

I log on to see yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case. "

Exactly

It's always the same old shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete my account and come back when I feel like it.

I'm on my 6th account?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When I get tired of Fab tend not to log in quite as much maybe once a day for five or ten minutes just to clear out emails and the like. The longest break was about 2 months early last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete my account and come back when I feel like it.

I'm on my 6th account?"

Welcome back.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm on and off all the time these days, real life can be a mood killer sometimes and the libido takes a knock so I just disappear for a bit. Then when we're looking for a meet or something I'll be back on 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture

I log on to see yours."

Wow, you know that was a joke right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete my account and come back when I feel like it.

I'm on my 6th account?"

That said at least say goodbye before you leave, I need to make sure my perv bank balance isn't disturbed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rarely here with two eyes for long

I flit between Fab and various other diversions

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case. "

Exactly lol, I live in hope!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case. "

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking? "

Uuuggghhh the effort though! Getting dressed....leaving the house.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do when it hits?

Just don't log in or persevere and hope something exciting will pop up and reignite that flame? "

Don't worry, I'm here now

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We often feel that way, and haven’t met anyone in awhile that ticks every box. But today we met a guy that ticked every box . So it’s worth checking every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my profile and go offline.. more and more these days.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Take a break, hide my profile, occasionally peruse the forums and generally concentrate on other things in life. "

This ^

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton

Been here about 10 years. It’s harder to find genuine people nowadays. More fakes. more timewasters. More guys all talk. Find it disheartening and take breaks. Hide my profile. Do something else. Then when you’re in the mood to try again and see what’s out there. On you log. It’s still going to be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I’m gripped as having some good joy but I know that can change quickly on fab and become very boring and when it does will step away from it for a while.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I just dont log in which is becoming a more regular accuracy these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking? "

Exactly. Seems like wasted energy to me. Fab isn't all there is y'know?!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't log in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either leave my brain at the door and carry on mooching about the forum or just dissapear for a bit.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide in the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Read books, watch films, anything else really. Did it for several weeks last year and the year before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide in the forums x"

What a woman.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do when it hits?

Just don't log in or persevere and hope something exciting will pop up and reignite that flame? "

Hide... I’m thinking of getting shot but just saw someone post saying it’s a mistake if you return for verification purposes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

There’s a chat room, what do they do there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

There’s a chat room, what do they do there ? "

Talk I guess but not sure

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I just dont log in which is becoming a more regular accuracy these days."
occurrence see Ive lost it

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?"

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

There’s a chat room, what do they do there ?

Talk I guess but not sure "

What a bunch of losers.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

There’s a chat room, what do they do there ? "

Its like the forums but faster and with less tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I switch between the forum and chat room, keeps the fatigue at bay.

There’s a chat room, what do they do there ?

Its like the forums but faster and with less tea

Sounds shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts"

Can you pick me up some Pickled Onion Monster Munch and a butternut squash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts"

With custard please

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts"

Don't ya just hate it when someone picks up your deleted comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts

Don't ya just hate it when someone picks up your deleted comment?

Yeah, let’s run with it.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

I go to the shop and buy what I want then. Why keep checking?

You can't buy new forum threads at the shops though can you?

What does forum threads have to do with it?

Oh sorry, I thought we were using fridges as a simile. If we're actually talking about going to Asda then I guess I'll get some doughnuts

Don't ya just hate it when someone picks up your deleted comment?

Clearly the editors night off

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m finding over the last few weeks I log in have a quick look and log out.. it’s been dull to say the least

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture

I log on to see yours.

Wow, you know that was a joke right!

Where's my fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do when it hits?

Just don't log in or persevere and hope something exciting will pop up and reignite that flame? "

I’m feeling it right now. Hidden my profile, logging on a lot less at the moment, like now just a quick browse at the end of the day.. getting the most out of real life to be honest.

In a couple of weeks my enthusiasm will return I’m sure but when I’m at that ‘meh’ stage I try and (mostly!) leave it behind for a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually hide my profile for a wee while and come back refreshed and raring to go again. "

Exactly this. Stop. Forget about it for a while and come back when the urge hits me again.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually hide my profile for a wee while and come back refreshed and raring to go again.

Exactly this. Stop. Forget about it for a while and come back when the urge hits me again.....

The same here tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time it happened I deleted my profile after two years. I needed to believe that I had moved on to new horizons and was going to be a good boy.. Came back 6 months later. This time I'll just hide my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture

I log on to see yours.

Wow, you know that was a joke right!

Where's my fabs?"

I only fab beautiful women with a sense of humour.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Erm... log out? I really don't see the point of logging on if you're not feeling it. Weird.

To me it's like when you're hungry and you keep going to the fridge even though you know there's nothing in there you want, you keep checking just in case.

So true...also just in case dotty posts another sexy picture

I log on to see yours.

Wow, you know that was a joke right!

Where's my fabs?

I only fab beautiful women with a sense of humour."

So do I

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Been here about 10 years. It’s harder to find genuine people nowadays. More fakes. more timewasters. More guys all talk. Find it disheartening and take breaks. Hide my profile. Do something else. Then when you’re in the mood to try again and see what’s out there. On you log. It’s still going to be here

This.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Log out for a few months, deleted profile for a year. Just take a break, come back bright eyed and bushy tailed.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Take a break where possible..... there is little that ignites anything but I do enjoy some forum humour and support.

If fatigued take a break. Do something that makes you happy

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Just leave it for a whole and then dip in and out as the mood takes me.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I almost couldn’t be bothered to type this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I almost couldn’t be bothered to type this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to just go cold turkey and have a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A break may be best, there's so many time wasters now! It feels like since the year started there's just been an influx of them and it honestly feels like this place isn't worth the effort anymore after another person chats with you for so long only to ghost when it's meet time and block you on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dynamic has definitely changed on here over the last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dynamic has definitely changed on here over the last year

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Well I have been lifted a bit by knowing others feel the same and surprised so many ladies have the same feelings.

It's when the reality takes over from hope that I skip the site for a while.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't get it but happily change what I do here or how I do things. There's so much choice about what you explore at any one time.

But if I had fab fatigue I would take a break and pursue other stuff for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide profile for a while and concentrate on life off fab.

Then log back in when I feel like it.

Sometimes just need alittle time out from here.

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