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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. Looking for some advice really. My husband wants me to humiliate him when it comes to sex. I try my best to do this for him. But he wants me to be brutal. I'm not nasty at all so just want some advice off someone who either does this or receives this.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. That’s the only advice I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Hi all. Looking for some advice really. My husband wants me to humiliate him when it comes to sex. I try my best to do this for him. But he wants me to be brutal. I'm not nasty at all so just want some advice off someone who either does this or receives this. "

Would pm you but the filters wont allow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've messaged you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not something that your comfortable with don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you discuss and reach some kind of compromise? I'm sure there are videos of women talking like this to camera (I swear I've not looked!!).

Could you watch that together?

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By *ingcom76Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

What is SPH?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"What is SPH? "

Small penis humiliation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've looked at some but I speak more then them lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Looking for some advice really. My husband wants me to humiliate him when it comes to sex. I try my best to do this for him. But he wants me to be brutal. I'm not nasty at all so just want some advice off someone who either does this or receives this. "

Tried to send a pm but my sex is blocked.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes snap same issue, can I ask a few things

1) how small is he, perhaps he is perceiving he’s small when he’s normal or aversge, we are not all blessed with 8” cocks

2) are you happy with his size

3) have you been with other guys ( as your on here I’m assuming yes)

4) do you want bigger cocks than he can give?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation"

I feel like I’d be good at this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation

I feel like I’d be good at this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you."

This

Good to see that people still say thank you these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Looking for some advice really. My husband wants me to humiliate him when it comes to sex. I try my best to do this for him. But he wants me to be brutal. I'm not nasty at all so just want some advice off someone who either does this or receives this. "

I think with anything like this you need to explore the boundaries of what acceptable to you both.

I.e is it in the bedroom only or does he want it between you anytime so you can make comments anytime you are together

Does he want public or online humiliation etc.

Where's you are both happy with that come up with some nick names to call him

Wee willy winkle etc XX

Get a dildo the biggest that iOS pleasurable to you and use that to compare and mock

You also can go Into the realm of cuckold and also cock cages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met mr f I wasn't a Domme and I'm also not a mean or nasty person but is giving the person who you love pleasure and enjoyment even in an unconventional way really mean and nasty or actually a nice and caring? Lol

I found saying really nasty things hard at first but over time it's become natural

Few hints I found helped me st first but not needed anymore

disassociation= do not use ur own names when playing in this way think of something to call one another eg...miss and maggot dick and also not being able to see one another face full can also help such a a mask or hood of some kind

Whisper the insults into his ear instead of saying it out loud feel a little less evil for some reason lol

If you have a room other than the bedroom u can use to play in again in a way it's disassociation

Have a imaginary man in ur life that has the biggest cock u have ever had that shag u better than anyone else ever that you tell him all about and what he does to u...my imaginary friend is actually not so imaginary...as it's actually mr f I'm telling him about as if im talking to someone about him (that's where the disassociation really helps) as long as ur hubby is a great shag should work lol

And just remember no matter what you say he knows u don't really mean it and u love him and after u will have a kiss and cuddle and be nice again till next time

Obviously this is just what worked for me maybe it won't for everyone but hope it helps a bit...if u want anymore advice drop me a message will be happy to help if I can x

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Only other advice to the great adivce others has given, is don't need to rush into it. He may want full on, but let yourself go forward if you want to try it at baby steps.

A friend i explored it with said, she found it intimidating to do... until we'd done some other play.. spanking and pegging... that gave her the confidence to enjoy the humiliation play, like sph, much more.

So, you may find the sph play comes easier with other types of play. Good luck, and it can be great fun for both.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation

I feel like I’d be good at this.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you hun. Yeah I think this will help. I'll give it a go. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your advise hun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doesn't hurt being polite. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so I tried it out. It worked a treat. I humiliated him telling him I can get bigger and better else where. I'll explore further next time. It was a bit hard telling him things like that but once I started to talk it just seemed easy. Thank you everyone for your words of wisdom lol. Onwards and upwards now.

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By *ingcom76Man
over a year ago

cheltenham


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation"

Oh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" once I started to talk it just seemed easy "

Yeah just seems to start rolling off ur tongue don't it...even shock myself with what comes out of my mouth at times now lol...hope my advice helped and as I said just drop me a message if you think I can help with anything x

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By *punky89Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Can anyone do this to me? :,) I’m like less than 2 inches and love watching humiliation videos

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By *punky89Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Can anyone do this to me? :,) I’m like less than 2 inches and love watching humiliation videos

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone do this to me? :,) I’m like less than 2 inches and love watching humiliation videos "

Aww it’s like a belly button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is SPH?

Small penis humiliation

I feel like I’d be good at this.

"

What makes you think that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. Looking for some advice really. My husband wants me to humiliate him when it comes to sex. I try my best to do this for him. But he wants me to be brutal. I'm not nasty at all so just want some advice off someone who either does this or receives this. "

If he’s anythin like me just give him 20 minutes and he’ll humiliate himself?!...

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By *punky89Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Is it too big? lmao :’)

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