FabSwingers.com forum: First thing(s) you look out for...

By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy men

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Status update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

photo's

i look for what isn't there as opposed to what is

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Status update."

Why a status update. What you hoping for?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Status update.

Why a status update. What you hoping for?"

I avoid the people who use their status to shame people, make misogynistic or homophobic comments or just moan about their lack of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

I like to see if her husband looks like he can handle himself first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how clean it is.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Length of time and verifications - if they're unverified after a year I'm wondering why. Distance away. Age. Height. Whether or not they have tattoos.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Pics, veris, age and height. Then I'll read the profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Interests. If they're not the same as ours there's no point. Then we look at pictures, then text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age what they are interested in and read verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Length of time and verifications - if they're unverified after a year I'm wondering why. Distance away. Age. Height. Whether or not they have tattoos. "

Verifications? Hmm... I've none so I must be a contender to avoid like the plague

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By *ettyboob72Woman
over a year ago

Manningtree

public pics and bio, if no bio I've no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where they are based first....second photos, if its a couple I'm always suspicious if there aren't any photos of the guy!... Then the profile speil and veris! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where they are based first....second photos, if its a couple I'm always suspicious if there aren't any photos of the guy!... Then the profile speil and veris! X"

We have pictures of male but they aren’t public that’s all

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Length of time and verifications - if they're unverified after a year I'm wondering why. Distance away. Age. Height. Whether or not they have tattoos.

Verifications? Hmm... I've none so I must be a contender to avoid like the plague

I guess you didn't read the rest of my sentence then - you've only been on a week, not over a year...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"public pics and bio, if no bio I've no interest"

I'm still trying to understand why you messaged me ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where they are based first....second photos, if its a couple I'm always suspicious if there aren't any photos of the guy!... Then the profile speil and veris! X

We have pictures of male but they aren’t public that’s all

Out of interest why is that?...surely other couples or singletons will want to see both of you to know whether there is any attraction to the both of you?....or maybe that's must me!

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

Height and smoker status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where they are based first....second photos, if its a couple I'm always suspicious if there aren't any photos of the guy!... Then the profile speil and veris! X

We have pictures of male but they aren’t public that’s all

Out of interest why is that?...surely other couples or singletons will want to see both of you to know whether there is any attraction to the both of you?....or maybe that's must me!

T x"

Me just wasn’t comfortable having public pics

We don’t look for couples anyway just bi males our profile works for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where they are based first....second photos, if its a couple I'm always suspicious if there aren't any photos of the guy!... Then the profile speil and veris! X

We have pictures of male but they aren’t public that’s all

Out of interest why is that?...surely other couples or singletons will want to see both of you to know whether there is any attraction to the both of you?....or maybe that's must me!

T x

Me just wasn’t comfortable having public pics

We don’t look for couples anyway just bi males our profile works for us x"

Sorry meant mr not me

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Pubic hair, height and if they have toilet pics, that there’s no brown floaters in the pan

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pubic hair, height and if they have toilet pics, that there’s no brown floaters in the pan

Mrs"

I've seen a single female who is a rough bitch going by her bathroom pics... The tiles at least need mould removed, filthy cunt

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Photos and then veri’s- mostly because I’m self conscious of my size so like to see if they’ve met anyone similar build to me previously.

Then interests/bio...

Sassy

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Oh and I also look at the background of pics to see how clean their house is

A couple winked us a while back and they had the grimiest bathroom ever. It was gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, height, photos... In that order.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

"Pubic hair, height and if they have toilet pics, that there’s no brown floaters in the pan

Mrs

I've seen a single female who is a rough bitch going by her bathroom pics... The tiles at least need mould removed, filthy cunt "

This is where a scratch and sniff option should be introduced.

Personally it’s the up close balloon knot pics clearly showing piles that I find most offputting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Distance

Height

If they can accommodate

Pics

Profile content

Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

A great ass

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Like Eddie Hitler said from Bottom

" A wazzo pair of jugs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pubic hair, height and if they have toilet pics, that there’s no brown floaters in the pan

Mrs

I've seen a single female who is a rough bitch going by her bathroom pics... The tiles at least need mould removed, filthy cunt

This is where a scratch and sniff option should be introduced.

Personally it’s the up close balloon knot pics clearly showing piles that I find most offputting

I nicknamed a lass called Becky Scratch N' Sniff...

She worked in a bakery, when you would talk to her all of a sudden she'd start raking or scratch her fanny whilst talking... She must have crabs? Well it's a habit now.... It handles food...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Location.

Age.

Their profile blurb.

Their verifications.

Their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Status update.

Why a status update. What you hoping for?

I avoid the people who use their status to shame people, make misogynistic or homophobic comments or just moan about their lack of meets."

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Like Eddie Hitler said from Bottom

" A wazzo pair of jugs " "

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

Usually i noticed someone first by the public pics then i look at the section saying they are into men or not if yes then

Then i read taking into account important info which i could use in a message.

3of4 stages 3 stages are in my control before i message the 4th is in her or them to decide if I an what they require.

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I also keep my eyes peeled for words to the effect of "Looking for bbc".

The odds are slightly better then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two pin plug sockets

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Height, location, if there's public pics.. anything written and their veris

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By *hannel4Couple
over a year ago

North east

"Oh and I also look at the background of pics to see how clean their house is

A couple winked us a while back and they had the grimiest bathroom ever. It was gross

We are the same!

If the background is filthy it doesn’t give me much hope that the person/people in the picture are clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me is honesty and caracter..and be naughty

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boobs.

Actually, I'm joking.

There's much morevto it than that.

Kinda hard to really pit my finger on it exactly as it all depends on the induvidual themselves, but I will usually know when I spot it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"photo's

i look for what isn't there as opposed to what is "

I look for what is there!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Height!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures then profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, bum

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Face, bum"

If they have a Geoffrey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I opened I profile. I’d read the text first to see how they project their personality. That’s literally the first thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, height and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check the verifications, if the person has been on the site a long time and has zero that makes me wonder, equally if thousands probably an off put too. The profile text is important too, how are they coming across, what are their desires and I hate to say it, but do they seem like they are going to intellectually captivate me (I love that mental connection when fucking).

I check location obviously too.

I am put off if it’s just cock pics or close ups golf who ha’s, and love the more tasteful photos.

Lastly I avoid the whiners who in statuses berate other users or complain about lack of meets.

Lorri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face, bum

If they have a Geoffrey "

This is indeed an important feature.

He did me proud this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the pics put my willy in the zone

I dont choose my victims by there profile

I wait for them to message me first or are they funny on the forum

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I look at public photos, ages and the profile write up.

If their status or profile is moans I avoid. I also look at their veris, if 100s of individual meets then no. I then look at the women in their veris, if they’re stick thin super model type then no, my mummy tummy doesn’t compare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check the pics and veris match up with what’s said in bio: the mismatched often tell a story.

Also check the pics are consistent - there seems to be an awful lot of fakes profiles using stolen pics at the moment

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

So many different answers

I'm glad I asked, I thought it might just be me who looked out for the same specific things in profiles but seems like we all have our own ways of whittling it down.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

Wow a guy that reads the profile, you are certainly a rarity

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

1st. location.

2nd. Verifications.

3rd. Pics.

4th. Profile text.

5th. Interests.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Evidence of mental instability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Profile pic and verification tick before I click.

2. If they're looking to meet men

3. Sexuality of male if a couple

4. How long they've been on the site.

5. Profile write-up if it's short. If it's long then..

6. Photos

7. Profile write-up

8. Read verifications

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

Someone who will read five paragraphs

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Age, smoking status - often ends it right there

profile bio and interests then pictures. If I'm still interested then veris

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics (there has to be an attraction)

Profile blurb (must be literate)

If cheating its a straight no(honesty)

Veri's (see how other meets went)

Age (not below 31 not above 55

Distance ( we play away from where we live)

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By *J Statham OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?

Someone who will read five paragraphs

Tuché

I read all of yours and it was an interesting read.

Like a well written biography

Will I do that for every person with an essay? Maybe not but never-the-less, yours was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always height I look at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?"

Their height...

If under 6ft i stop reading

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"When on someone's profile.

When i go on a woman's or MFs profile I check out their age, interests, public pics then read the bio (if it isn't more than 4 paragraphs)

How about you? What's the first thing(s) you keep your eyes peeled for?

Someone who will read five paragraphs

Tuché

I read all of yours and it was an interesting read.

Like a well written biography

Will I do that for every person with an essay? Maybe not but never-the-less, yours was good

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Always height I look at first "

Nah -all people on fab are only a couple of inches high -going by the size of their photos anyway (I've measured with my thumb on screen) -ever noticed that?

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