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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And not that bothered - or actually quite happy about it.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just an antisocial hermit?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes I agree to go out, then all the hassle of shaving and washing my hair and doing make up makes me wish I'd bought doritos and dips and stayed in instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And not that bothered - or actually quite happy about it.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just an antisocial hermit?"

I'm the same really. Its far too peopley out there.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes can be too much effort.

I've always found trying to pre arrange a night out takes the joy out of it.

The best nights out are always spontaneous as everyone is up for the evening out ... rather the thinking of rather be sat at home with a bottle of merlot a tub of Ben and jerrys and Netflix ... and popcorn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me tonight #waves

Some days you just want to be alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I agree to go out, then all the hassle of shaving and washing my hair and doing make up makes me wish I'd bought doritos and dips and stayed in instead

Haha I did exactly this tonight!

I arranged to meet someone - had a bastard of a day, cancelled and bought nachos with all the stuff and wine

I just can't be arsed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And not that bothered - or actually quite happy about it.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just an antisocial hermit?"

I'm the same. I don't have anyone to go out with, and I can't see the point in going out alone except to the cinema.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm the same really. Its far too peopley out there. "

It's really peoply!

I just don't want to have to deal with it or wear any other clothes than pyjamas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sat on my sofa in my knickers and slippers cos it’s too hot, have Pringles, cheese and pickled onions and crackers, cocktail sausages, apple and raspberry j20 and I’m watching uncle buck.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"And not that bothered - or actually quite happy about it.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just an antisocial hermit?"

I'm a bit of a misanthrope myself

I don't mind staying once, and while.

People generally suck especially these days.

But don't make a thing off it, its not healthy locking your self away, just to avoid the outside world.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I’m sat on my sofa in my knickers and slippers cos it’s too hot, have Pringles, cheese and pickled onions and crackers, cocktail sausages, apple and raspberry j20 and I’m watching uncle buck. "

That made me horny

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not going out and not bothered. I spend too much money and feel shit the following morning. I'm already in my pjs curled up on the sofa

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Uncle buck, classic John Candy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I agree to go out, then all the hassle of shaving and washing my hair and doing make up makes me wish I'd bought doritos and dips and stayed in instead

Haha I did exactly this tonight!

I arranged to meet someone - had a bastard of a day, cancelled and bought nachos with all the stuff and wine

I just can't be arsed!"
i get like that its this time of year cold wet and cant be arsed weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in bed already...had 2 no shows today so in bed, eating my weight in chocolate and sulking, wishing every pox in them I can come up with...not feeling people’s at all now

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Day drinking and dancing at home is the perfect balance I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out, but just at a relative's drinking JD.

Getting a cab home after the flim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not goinyout because I’m in drinking cocktails and watching the Voice on live pause, each time another cocktail needs to be made - ‘hic’

So far I’ve had an ‘Excellent’ and just starting a ‘Tennessee Iced Tea’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cold outside! I'm hibernating til spring.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m watching Solo : A Star Wars Story and making my way through a large bottle of Lambrini.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And not that bothered - or actually quite happy about it.

Does anyone else feel like this or am I just an antisocial hermit?"

Yeh, thought it was just me, i can't be arsed going out in this weather, jammies on get in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only go out if there’s a special occasion these days, prefer to stay home on the couch most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decorated my living room and bought an amazing huge sofa in December so that I could hibernate in comfort... no plan to move anywhere until it warms up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been out in a while actually. could do with letting my hair down maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a misanthrope myself

I don't mind staying once, and while.

People generally suck especially these days.

But don't make a thing off it, its not healthy locking your self away, just to avoid the outside world."

I do worry that I isolate outside of work.

But I just feel so much better when I'm not out lol

I find other people draining and usually can't wait to get home.

There are few people I want to spend time with.

Even though it does make me sad on occasion that I'm home alone again.

It would be nice to find someone to be home with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to the avengers thing in London with the boy. Now sat in a hotel room fabbing. Sometimes you’re in the wrong place on the wrong days eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a social misfit. I'm not capable of interaction away from the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a misanthrope myself

I don't mind staying once, and while.

People generally suck especially these days.

But don't make a thing off it, its not healthy locking your self away, just to avoid the outside world.

I do worry that I isolate outside of work.

But I just feel so much better when I'm not out lol

I find other people draining and usually can't wait to get home.

There are few people I want to spend time with.

Even though it does make me sad on occasion that I'm home alone again.

It would be nice to find someone to be home with

On my way

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Dressing gown here watching the voice

Nice and warm

Constant coffee

Good company

What more does one need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I decorated my living room and bought an amazing huge sofa in December so that I could hibernate in comfort... no plan to move anywhere until it warms up! "

Awesome

I used to go to India every winter from October ish to end of April.

I've spent very few winters in England over the last 15 years.

Maybe that's what's wrong with me

I might invest in a sofa too

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm a bit of a misanthrope myself

I don't mind staying once, and while.

People generally suck especially these days.

But don't make a thing off it, its not healthy locking your self away, just to avoid the outside world.

I do worry that I isolate outside of work.

But I just feel so much better when I'm not out lol

I find other people draining and usually can't wait to get home.

There are few people I want to spend time with.

Even though it does make me sad on occasion that I'm home alone again.

It would be nice to find someone to be home with

I'm sure there a good man or woman or couple or friends out there for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bad weather doesn't help

going to a meet at a house or a club always involves driving, its just so dark and raining all the time at the moment

we still make an effort, but summer is the best time for swinging

and than we fook like rabbits

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Nono don’t bother going out much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to...I have servants to go out to meets for me....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm quite happy with my own company sometimes, in fact, I'm home alone tonight with a glass of baileys and trial and retribution on the telly while I'm cosy in bed with my TJ lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bad weather doesn't help

going to a meet at a house or a club always involves driving, its just so dark and raining all the time at the moment

we still make an effort, but summer is the best time for swinging

and than we fook like rabbits

Hah!

I am just chilling on my sofa tonight. Staying indoors all wrapped up warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have homemade damson gin, peking sensations & mini Hagen daz with Hells Kitchen on the TV then on to YOU.

I’d prefer someone here to help me eat the crap but I can’t be arsed to shower & shave to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not goinyout because I’m in drinking cocktails and watching the Voice on live pause, each time another cocktail needs to be made - ‘hic’

So far I’ve had an ‘Excellent’ and just starting a ‘Tennessee Iced Tea’

A home alone cocktail party

Sounds Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go out more in the week than weekends, just the occasional evening. I don't like the frenzy of weekend evenings anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not goinyout because I’m in drinking cocktails and watching the Voice on live pause, each time another cocktail needs to be made - ‘hic’

So far I’ve had an ‘Excellent’ and just starting a ‘Tennessee Iced Tea’

A home alone cocktail party

Sounds Fab

The only thing missing is the tail on my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that sounds like a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive gotten so used to it I might faint from shock if I had to go out

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

I thought staying in was the new thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lets just all have a jammies night and snuggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive gotten so used to it I might faint from shock if I had to go out

Haha me too!

I don't want to go out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The highlight of my Saturday night has been cleaning my fridge!

Now happily tucked up in bed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet today, then met a friend for coffee, did shopping then came home and vegged, now in bed satisfied that I had a good Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same was gonna go out tonight dint really see the point ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive gotten so used to it I might faint from shock if I had to go out

Haha me too!

I don't want to go out there

All those youngsters in tiny skirts and high heels and giggling . Eek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cave is a peaceful place to be...

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

"Ive gotten so used to it I might faint from shock if I had to go out

Haha me too!

I don't want to go out there

Why would you if you have a bowl full of nachos lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The cave is a peaceful place to be..."

I would like a cave please, but it needs to have a view.

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