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"We mostly chat on here " Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha " It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? " Haha well that’s the first interest I’ve had on this site mate and as flattering as it is I’m straight and into females pal but thanks mate lol | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? " I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha " The French are sex mad maniacs. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? " You are such a bad man lol very funny though lol | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha The French are sex mad maniacs." Not just the French  | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha The French are sex mad maniacs. Not just the French "Oh, hello.  | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha " I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x" Maybe consider the wrong way with a European chap. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha " A fabman who do not ask several times a day is not a real fabman. May I fuck yours too luv? | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha The French are sex mad maniacs. Not just the French "I agree us brits are too x | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x" I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x" I think she was talking to F&B. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why." I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please | |||
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"OP, there are numerous threads that give advice to newbies. Read and learn. Particularly the bits that give profile advice.." Thank you for your advice x | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please " Me too,I'm intrigued. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued." User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off." Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off." I was just trying to be honest when saying all that and I am not desperate in any way I just want to let anyone who is interested what I’m looking for that’s all I think honesty is the best way don’t you think ? | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it." Would my profile name put you off at all ? | |||
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"Change your profile name and stick with it as for meets and convo with ladies,make sure you vary your messages and don’t send cock pics as puts lots of ladies of and maybe tinker with your profile and add a couple of more pics.But it’s only advice it’s up to you." Where did u get our superman top from the ones I got are pants could never find a decent one  | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. I was just trying to be honest when saying all that and I am not desperate in any way I just want to let anyone who is interested what I’m looking for that’s all I think honesty is the best way don’t you think ? " Yeh I think most men on here are just after pussy but it's a crude name. If you decide to go to socials and someone asks you your user name how do you think that sounds? If that name reflects you keep it, however most ladies on here are more than a warm hole. | |||
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"Change your profile name and stick with it as for meets and convo with ladies,make sure you vary your messages and don’t send cock pics as puts lots of ladies of and maybe tinker with your profile and add a couple of more pics.But it’s only advice it’s up to you." I appreciate the advice mate and will change my user name as soon as I can top up my phone and become a site supporter I appreciate any help and advice given , thanks again mate | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it. Would my profile name put you off at all ? " As I hate the word pussy yes it would. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. I was just trying to be honest when saying all that and I am not desperate in any way I just want to let anyone who is interested what I’m looking for that’s all I think honesty is the best way don’t you think ? Yeh I think most men on here are just after pussy but it's a crude name. If you decide to go to socials and someone asks you your user name how do you think that sounds? If that name reflects you keep it, however most ladies on here are more than a warm hole." Point taken I’m going to change it as soon as I can I don’t want to put ladies off by using that name and it’s not a reflection of me I’m just a laid back lad lol | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ?" I don’t know, you’d have to ask those people who you pm. "Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? " People like chatting, it’s just some don’t like chatting to you, or other people,(as per your first quote proves) you’ll talk to loads of people through life so don’t beat yourself up when a couple don’t answer you back. | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it. Would my profile name put you off at all ? As I hate the word pussy yes it would." I’m sorry if my username has offended you in any way and as soon as I’ve topped my phone up and become a site supporter il change it straight away I really do appreciate the help and advice from you all and I’m starting to understand the site more now | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it. Would my profile name put you off at all ? As I hate the word pussy yes it would. I’m sorry if my username has offended you in any way and as soon as I’ve topped my phone up and become a site supporter il change it straight away I really do appreciate the help and advice from you all and I’m starting to understand the site more now " I doubt your username ‘offends’ anyone, and that word is really thrown about here. It’s just a bit cringy | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please Me too,I'm intrigued. User name and profile text smacks of any holes a goal. Instant turn off. Oh right,it's funny how a profile name can put you off isn't it. Would my profile name put you off at all ? As I hate the word pussy yes it would. I’m sorry if my username has offended you in any way and as soon as I’ve topped my phone up and become a site supporter il change it straight away I really do appreciate the help and advice from you all and I’m starting to understand the site more now " It's not offended me,if you like it you should keep it. | |||
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"To both guys that asked for advice on this thread - suggest you read your profiles and ask yourselves do they make you stand out, are they any different from the thousands of other guys on here who are looking for the same thing as you? Do they tell a reader a little about you and what you're looking for and what you think you can offer? Do they have a decent set of pics that are alluring and entice someone looking at them to want to find out more? If the answer to any of those questions is no then you have the answer to the first step you need to take. Once you're happy with your profile then next things to do are make sure you only message people you are both genuinely interested in and who you think are a good match, making sure to send polite and respectful messages that invite the person to take a look at your profile and, if they like what they see, respond. Think about getting along to group socials or getting more involved in the forums which are both great ways to get to know people and them you. Oh and OP, yep change that username "Yep defiantly changing it as soon as I can and I will go through my profile text and see what I can do and change the context of it. Like I said I was just trying to be honest I’m what I was putting in it and didn’t think about how it came across to anyone reading it | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? " Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for." I will be in touch for some advice how to word my profile text when I get the chance to reply write it later if that’s ok ? Am I ok to pm you ? | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for." Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? " There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here. | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here." Exactly. It’s not as if someone is going to instruct OP how to conduct the perfect message (as it doesn’t exist), how to take the perfect photos, how to write the perfect profile etc. | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? " This is what I’m struggling with on another thread. | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here. Exactly. It’s not as if someone is going to instruct OP how to conduct the perfect message (as it doesn’t exist), how to take the perfect photos, how to write the perfect profile etc. " I’m only trying to gain a little guidance that’s all , I’m not asking the lady to write out my profile text I’m just asking for help how to lay it out in my own words so it’s more appealing and doesn’t state that I’m desperate or weird as I’m far from that I’m a laid back chilled horny guy looking for fun and want to be completely honest about what I’m looking for , you understand that don’t you ? X | |||
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"We mostly chat on here Ahh right I will just have to start using the forum more then mate , thanks for that pal. It’s harder than it sounds this app haha It's harder especially when I think of you naked if you see what I mean ? May I fuck your ass one day pal? I noticed you ask this a few times a day haha I know but I just want to make sure I’m doing things the right way and as I haven’t had any luck even with chatting I thought I was doing something wrong lol x I wouldn't even open a message from you. I am sure you can work out why. I haven’t a clue why , but could you let me know please " I don't think you will get a lot chat from cat owners  | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here." Apart from No we dont all need advice upon how to craft a profile And if a man thinks a cock on his profile is appropriate how idiotic is it to tell him otherwise, he will still have the mentality of Mr cock pic The fab profile should be a reflection of who you are and following any advice dilutes the real person behind it There are 100s of profile advice threads if the inept start a new one are they of the mindset that you really want to help mislead other ladies ? It would be my experience and expectation that most ladies are looking for men who have the wit to craft their own profile Seriously if a person is unable to form a profile they are congruent with themselves how on earth are they going to competently engage in conversation, social and complex sexual interactions Giving the inept even a helpful foot in the door is counterproductive, surely you ladies like the fact that when you receive 200 mails a day you can use inept profiles as a filter Imagine the pain if all profiles were alluring , you would need to reply and engage to sort the chaff from the good stuff | |||
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"I’m not asking for someone to write it all out for me at all I’m just asking for advice on how to lay it out what I have written. I’m only asking advice on how best to go about things on this site that will help me find what I’m looking for. What’s so bad in asking for help and advice ? " Because it means you dont have the mental skills to work out something very simple There is no best way , there is your way and if you need advice on your way then your not going to be very desirable however , contrived or manufactured your profile is ! | |||
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"I’m not asking for someone to write it all out for me at all I’m just asking for advice on how to lay it out what I have written. I’m only asking advice on how best to go about things on this site that will help me find what I’m looking for. What’s so bad in asking for help and advice ? Because it means you dont have the mental skills to work out something very simple There is no best way , there is your way and if you need advice on your way then your not going to be very desirable however , contrived or manufactured your profile is !" I do have the mentality to construct my profile but need a little guidance as I don’t want to come across as a weirdo or sleazy as I’ve never used this kind of site before. I’m not trying to get someone to write my bio out just to give a little advice on how to lay it out and how to stand out as there is thousands of single guys on this site so I need to have something special to be noticed don’t you think ? | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here. Apart from No we dont all need advice upon how to craft a profile And if a man thinks a cock on his profile is appropriate how idiotic is it to tell him otherwise, he will still have the mentality of Mr cock pic The fab profile should be a reflection of who you are and following any advice dilutes the real person behind it There are 100s of profile advice threads if the inept start a new one are they of the mindset that you really want to help mislead other ladies ? It would be my experience and expectation that most ladies are looking for men who have the wit to craft their own profile Seriously if a person is unable to form a profile they are congruent with themselves how on earth are they going to competently engage in conversation, social and complex sexual interactions Giving the inept even a helpful foot in the door is counterproductive, surely you ladies like the fact that when you receive 200 mails a day you can use inept profiles as a filter Imagine the pain if all profiles were alluring , you would need to reply and engage to sort the chaff from the good stuff " You could apply that to anything in life though couldn't you? Are you telling me never once in your life have you had to ask advice how to solve a problem? This is no different - it's not helping people to mislead others, it's not writing it for them at all, it's offering advice plain and simple. Some people aren't good at writing about themselves - I'm sure there are things you're not good at that you need advice how to do - would you expect people to take the same stance with you as you have done here? All people are doing by offering generic advice is leading the horse to the water, it's not showing them how to drink, that they can figure out for themselves. | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Am happy to offer honest profile advice for you, if it's asked for. Why do you feel the need to give the inept, profile advice ? What an awful dis service you give to the poor unsuspecting lady who maybe conned by a misleading contrived glossy profile ? I'm not sure which is worse those, limp and inept men who cannot fathom for themselves how to attract the specific type of woman they desire or Those who arrogantly think they know how to write a manipulative false and shiny profile in order that the inept can con an lovely lady into wasting her precious time replying to a man who does not have the gumption to write about themselves ? There's a huge difference between offering generic advice and helping others by doing so, and actually writing the thing for people though - people still have to use their own words and act on the advice given for themselves - nothing manipulative or false about that. We all need advice from time to time, it's how we learn and have done since we were first capable of understanding, even you - offering advice here is no different from offering advice in the work place or anywhere else in our day to day lives so I have no issue at all with giving it to help others when it's generic tips and hints. As others have said though actually writing it for someone is another matter completely and wouldn't reflect the true person behind the profile at all - but as I said that's a world away from offering general advice which is all that has been offered here. Apart from No we dont all need advice upon how to craft a profile And if a man thinks a cock on his profile is appropriate how idiotic is it to tell him otherwise, he will still have the mentality of Mr cock pic The fab profile should be a reflection of who you are and following any advice dilutes the real person behind it There are 100s of profile advice threads if the inept start a new one are they of the mindset that you really want to help mislead other ladies ? It would be my experience and expectation that most ladies are looking for men who have the wit to craft their own profile Seriously if a person is unable to form a profile they are congruent with themselves how on earth are they going to competently engage in conversation, social and complex sexual interactions Giving the inept even a helpful foot in the door is counterproductive, surely you ladies like the fact that when you receive 200 mails a day you can use inept profiles as a filter Imagine the pain if all profiles were alluring , you would need to reply and engage to sort the chaff from the good stuff You could apply that to anything in life though couldn't you? Are you telling me never once in your life have you had to ask advice how to solve a problem? This is no different - it's not helping people to mislead others, it's not writing it for them at all, it's offering advice plain and simple. Some people aren't good at writing about themselves - I'm sure there are things you're not good at that you need advice how to do - would you expect people to take the same stance with you as you have done here? All people are doing by offering generic advice is leading the horse to the water, it's not showing them how to drink, that they can figure out for themselves." | |||
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"I’m not asking for someone to write it all out for me at all I’m just asking for advice on how to lay it out what I have written. I’m only asking advice on how best to go about things on this site that will help me find what I’m looking for. What’s so bad in asking for help and advice ? Because it means you dont have the mental skills to work out something very simple There is no best way , there is your way and if you need advice on your way then your not going to be very desirable however , contrived or manufactured your profile is ! I do have the mentality to construct my profile but need a little guidance as I don’t want to come across as a weirdo or sleazy as I’ve never used this kind of site before. I’m not trying to get someone to write my bio out just to give a little advice on how to lay it out and how to stand out as there is thousands of single guys on this site so I need to have something special to be noticed don’t you think ? " Indeed you need something special and if need to ask you haven't got it Also if you do not have the wit , self awareness or perception to know if your creepy, a weirdo, or sleazy again you're not that kind of special that a deceiving woman may want to interact with For the record , sleazy and weird are subjective NOT absolute thus some women will like what another calls sleazy, you ask advice from people who will not be meeting you who dont know you Its fucking scary if you dont know if you're sleazy? Weird is good I like being weird As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? " Maybe they just don't like you ?  | |||
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"How come no one likes to chat when I pm them ? Is it me or do people just not like chatting ? Maybe they just don't like you ? ".
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" As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead !" Actually it's the perfect idiom (not analogy) for this instance and I stand by it completely, as I stand by giving people generic advice to help them come to grips with the site. As I said earlier, and you appear to have conveniently ignored, I am sure there are things you don't know everything about and seek advice for in life - I fail to see how this is any different? I'd also question which is more potentially deceptive - asking for advice about your profile and taking it on board or showing an almost two and a half year old pic to entice people that (for all we know) may not be an accurate current representation of yourself? You're of course entitled to your opinions, but you also need to accept others may differ. Nice to know you're so welcoming of people new to the lifestyle though | |||
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"I’m not asking for someone to write it all out for me at all I’m just asking for advice on how to lay it out what I have written. I’m only asking advice on how best to go about things on this site that will help me find what I’m looking for. What’s so bad in asking for help and advice ? Because it means you dont have the mental skills to work out something very simple There is no best way , there is your way and if you need advice on your way then your not going to be very desirable however , contrived or manufactured your profile is ! I do have the mentality to construct my profile but need a little guidance as I don’t want to come across as a weirdo or sleazy as I’ve never used this kind of site before. I’m not trying to get someone to write my bio out just to give a little advice on how to lay it out and how to stand out as there is thousands of single guys on this site so I need to have something special to be noticed don’t you think ? Indeed you need something special and if need to ask you haven't got it Also if you do not have the wit , self awareness or perception to know if your creepy, a weirdo, or sleazy again you're not that kind of special that a deceiving woman may want to interact with For the record , sleazy and weird are subjective NOT absolute thus some women will like what another calls sleazy, you ask advice from people who will not be meeting you who dont know you Its fucking scary if you dont know if you're sleazy? Weird is good I like being weird As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead !" How do you know what I have and haven’t got just because I’ve asked for help and advice ? I’ve asked for advise as I am a decent person with a top personality and don’t want my text to state me as someone different other than the person I am | |||
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"I’m not asking for someone to write it all out for me at all I’m just asking for advice on how to lay it out what I have written. I’m only asking advice on how best to go about things on this site that will help me find what I’m looking for. What’s so bad in asking for help and advice ? Because it means you dont have the mental skills to work out something very simple There is no best way , there is your way and if you need advice on your way then your not going to be very desirable however , contrived or manufactured your profile is ! I do have the mentality to construct my profile but need a little guidance as I don’t want to come across as a weirdo or sleazy as I’ve never used this kind of site before. I’m not trying to get someone to write my bio out just to give a little advice on how to lay it out and how to stand out as there is thousands of single guys on this site so I need to have something special to be noticed don’t you think ? Indeed you need something special and if need to ask you haven't got it Also if you do not have the wit , self awareness or perception to know if your creepy, a weirdo, or sleazy again you're not that kind of special that a deceiving woman may want to interact with For the record , sleazy and weird are subjective NOT absolute thus some women will like what another calls sleazy, you ask advice from people who will not be meeting you who dont know you Its fucking scary if you dont know if you're sleazy? Weird is good I like being weird As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! How do you know what I have and haven’t got just because I’ve asked for help and advice ? I’ve asked for advise as I am a decent person with a top personality and don’t want my text to state me as someone different other than the person I am " Zzzzzz.... ?? | |||
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" As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! Actually it's the perfect idiom (not analogy) for this instance and I stand by it completely, as I stand by giving people generic advice to help them come to grips with the site. As I said earlier, and you appear to have conveniently ignored, I am sure there are things you don't know everything about and seek advice for in life - I fail to see how this is any different? I'd also question which is more potentially deceptive - asking for advice about your profile and taking it on board or showing an almost two and a half year old pic to entice people that (for all we know) may not be an accurate current representation of yourself? You're of course entitled to your opinions, but you also need to accept others may differ. Nice to know you're so welcoming of people new to the lifestyle though "?? well said mate | |||
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" As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! Actually it's the perfect idiom (not analogy) for this instance and I stand by it completely, as I stand by giving people generic advice to help them come to grips with the site. As I said earlier, and you appear to have conveniently ignored, I am sure there are things you don't know everything about and seek advice for in life - I fail to see how this is any different? I'd also question which is more potentially deceptive - asking for advice about your profile and taking it on board or showing an almost two and a half year old pic to entice people that (for all we know) may not be an accurate current representation of yourself? You're of course entitled to your opinions, but you also need to accept others may differ. Nice to know you're so welcoming of people new to the lifestyle though "Perfectly aware the poor analogy is an idyium, sadly though the purpose of the idyium would be to illustrate the stubbornness of humans Secondly there is a world of difference between wanting to learn, for example I had professional tuition for kite surfing and a off piste guide for ski touring And Not knowing if the words you use and your very personality is sleazy is not really relative to horses or water , it more of a reflection of the very essence of the person , it would take a vast amount more to correct the confused state of mind than a couple of generic mainly inaccurate profile platitudes That's just temporarily papering over the rising damp I'm happy with my 2 year old pic and my profile, I did not ask for profile advice , I neither want or need it thank you x I have pics uploaded 10 days ago and I currently am in better shape than 2 years ago | |||
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" As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! Actually it's the perfect idiom (not analogy) for this instance and I stand by it completely, as I stand by giving people generic advice to help them come to grips with the site. As I said earlier, and you appear to have conveniently ignored, I am sure there are things you don't know everything about and seek advice for in life - I fail to see how this is any different? I'd also question which is more potentially deceptive - asking for advice about your profile and taking it on board or showing an almost two and a half year old pic to entice people that (for all we know) may not be an accurate current representation of yourself? You're of course entitled to your opinions, but you also need to accept others may differ. Nice to know you're so welcoming of people new to the lifestyle though
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" As for the We are only leading the horse to water Bad analogy really but ignoring that The water here is a human being with precious time, expectations desires and standards The very last thing they want is to read a seductive profile ,, reply with lip smacking anticipation only to be confronted with a horse that needs to be lead ! Actually it's the perfect idiom (not analogy) for this instance and I stand by it completely, as I stand by giving people generic advice to help them come to grips with the site. As I said earlier, and you appear to have conveniently ignored, I am sure there are things you don't know everything about and seek advice for in life - I fail to see how this is any different? I'd also question which is more potentially deceptive - asking for advice about your profile and taking it on board or showing an almost two and a half year old pic to entice people that (for all we know) may not be an accurate current representation of yourself? You're of course entitled to your opinions, but you also need to accept others may differ. Nice to know you're so welcoming of people new to the lifestyle though
Perfectly aware the poor analogy is an idyium, sadly though the purpose of the idyium would be to illustrate the stubbornness of humans
Secondly there is a world of difference between wanting to learn, for example I had professional tuition for kite surfing and a off piste guide for ski touring
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Not knowing if the words you use and your very personality is sleazy is not really relative to horses or water , it more of a reflection of the very essence of the person , it would take a vast amount more to correct the confused state of mind than a couple of generic mainly inaccurate profile platitudes
That's just temporarily papering over the rising damp
I'm happy with my 2 year old pic and my profile, I did not ask for profile advice , I neither want or need it thank you x I have pics uploaded 10 days ago and I currently am in better shape than 2 years ago
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Like I said, you're entitled to your opinion, just have to accept not everyone will think it right, otherwise they may mistake you for being opinionated.
Fear not, no profile advice was being sent your way, if you're happy with it then good for you - the point I was making still stands though.
Not going to comment further, as there really is no point, and I've offered my advice to the OP further up, so nothing further to add.
I'll close by saying again how nice it is that you are so welcoming of others new to all this though. | |||
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