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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arranged a meet, well in advance, for tonight with 2 people. Wife been for her waxing, hair done etc. - then last minute "can't make it" from both.

This is about the 4th time this has happened now over the last 6 months.

We met on the site 5 years ago and, thereafter for a couple of years, never experienced this problem and met lots of lovely people.

We note the ones we met previously have drifted away from Fab - something's certainly happened to the site over the last few years - not a patch on what it was from a "meeting" perspective.

We have to ask ourselves now, is the time and trouble to a) arrange a meet and b) then go to a lot of trouble getting ready.. really worth it anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe go to a swingers club instead.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Sadly only you can answer that OP. I will say though that it does happen to everyone from time to time. I had a period a few years ago where out of ten meets, nine were cancelled for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s frustrating to say the least. Hang in there and you will appreciate genuine people more when you find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same before Christmas, several short notice cancellations, constantly getting messed about.

No idea why, I’d done nothing different and it hadn’t happened to me before. I didn’t bother with meets for a couple of weeks, and now everything’s back to normal. I’ve met some great people with no problems

It’s just one of those things you can’t explain Really annoying though, I know how you’re feeling x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Wife Spoke to a guy, made a new aqaintance by text. A few days later met for a coffee , and within a week we’ve all made friends after meeting up.

The site isn’t all bad, just be careful and out the none genuine people.

Life is what you make it, and the same could be said about FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Weed out the none genuine

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm sorry you were let down Op and can only imagine the disappointment the both of you must be feeling

It's a tough one to be honest and there isn't a right answer I suppose. When meets are highly anticipated and do happen it's a fabulous experience. Complete opposite when it doesn't...

I've gone with my gut feeling after some time of intense back and forth to gauge wether things could work out well. Happy to say it's not failed me yet.

Chin up and move on. I would agree that as a couple, clubs are probably a better option anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe go to a swingers club instead."

Unfortunately, we don't like Swingers' Clubs - too much of a cattle market mentality for us. Much prefer small, intimate gatherings at ours or elsewhere - we're going to give it a good few months break from here now - good luck all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe go to a swingers club instead.

Unfortunately, we don't like Swingers' Clubs - too much of a cattle market mentality for us. Much prefer small, intimate gatherings at ours or elsewhere - we're going to give it a good few months break from here now - good luck all."

What's "cattle market mentality" ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

make the most of it and go out for a nice meal or something

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m sorry that has happened to you, but rest assured it’s not always, there are some good ones out there, I’ve not really had any last minute cancellations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe go to a swingers club instead.

Unfortunately, we don't like Swingers' Clubs - too much of a cattle market mentality for us. Much prefer small, intimate gatherings at ours or elsewhere - we're going to give it a good few months break from here now - good luck all.

What's "cattle market mentality" ?"

where herds of men follow you and your missus around everywhere hoping for a shag - usually what happens at Swingers' Clubs - unless you go on a couples only night.

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