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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just want to get their cock in a box

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Pride lol.,they want everyone to love their pecker as much as they do .

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Got to admit it can be good visual simulation.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Same reason people post on the forums with unanswerable questions...we like to seek attention I guess.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I think that there’s an element of the two little brains thinking for the big brain going on too.

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Because each to their own and there are those, male and female, who want to see what's on offer.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

It's their only selling point. They have nothing else to offer and think that a picture (or several pictures) sent with a short bland message is the way forward.

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By *oinus1961Couple
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get a thrill out of it.

Some women might like it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?"

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

Do you feel your missing out and need a few cocks in your box

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Lol nope not at all

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it"."

This made me giggle x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes "

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will always want to see the package before playing.

We have met some very body fit men in the past but there is usually a reason they do not have a cock pic.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it".

This made me giggle x"

Lol x

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones "

It’s disrespectful

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

They are proud of it and its more attractive than their face so that send a cock and balls picture. Then smugly stand back and congratulate themselves however weeks why they put up a thread asking why nobody responds!

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones

It’s disrespectful "

That's why they get blocked andcdome ladies actually like cock pics not everyone is the same on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We simply block men unless we need one.

We prefer to see a cock picture as like a thick cock .

We go for the following.

Body type.

Cock size

Looks.

After all if we are looking for a guy we as not wanting a relationship just a good session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

Because a lot of women want to see it. Its a selling point for many men.

I always have a public cock pic because i would find it super awkward if i was chatting to a woman and she asked to see it and thats when the "message deleted" or blocked kicked in lol

It like my face and body is there clear for all to see so they can make the physical judgements before we talk were we can both make pur personality judgments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me

Because a lot of women want to see it. Its a selling point for many men.

I always have a public cock pic because i would find it super awkward if i was chatting to a woman and she asked to see it and thats when the "message deleted" or blocked kicked in lol

It like my face and body is there clear for all to see so they can make the physical judgements before we talk were we can both make pur personality judgments"

Exactly...now this guys profile has all the elements we need to see.

Hot body..good cock..etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes "

How does it fuck it up for you?

Surely it makes you look better if thats how you think women think?

Im under no illusion that if a couple wants me as a third im basicaly an animated sex toy, im not going to be replacing thier boyfriend or husband. So "size" is likley to be a factor.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones

It’s disrespectful

That's why they get blocked andcdome ladies actually like cock pics not everyone is the same on here x "

I’m not being arsy in anyway with this post I just don’t get why they do it that’s all x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones

It’s disrespectful

That's why they get blocked andcdome ladies actually like cock pics not everyone is the same on here x

I’m not being arsy in anyway with this post I just don’t get why they do it that’s all x"

Never going to be able to stop it I just ignore and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

How does it fuck it up for you?

Surely it makes you look better if thats how you think women think?

Im under no illusion that if a couple wants me as a third im basicaly an animated sex toy, im not going to be replacing thier boyfriend or husband. So "size" is likley to be a factor."

Agree..

Also look at many couples that have only the woman on pics...same thing.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones

It’s disrespectful

That's why they get blocked andcdome ladies actually like cock pics not everyone is the same on here x

I’m not being arsy in anyway with this post I just don’t get why they do it that’s all x"

There are a couple of threads about this nearly every week. Different people have different reasons for doing what they do. There is no one single answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They just want to get their cock in a box"

That's funny .

well they must think we have never seen one before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We simply block men unless we need one.

We prefer to see a cock picture as like a thick cock .

We go for the following.

Body type.

Cock size

Looks.

After all if we are looking for a guy we as not wanting a relationship just a good session."

same I like a decent chat a phone call I can see a body pic and cock pic if I bother looking but for me I like a face photo I really can't shag someone without knowing what they look like first and yeah call me shallow but if I don't fancy them I'm not going to do it just because they have a giant penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We simply block men unless we need one.

We prefer to see a cock picture as like a thick cock .

We go for the following.

Body type.

Cock size

Looks.

After all if we are looking for a guy we as not wanting a relationship just a good session.

same I like a decent chat a phone call I can see a body pic and cock pic if I bother looking but for me I like a face photo I really can't shag someone without knowing what they look like first and yeah call me shallow but if I don't fancy them I'm not going to do it just because they have a giant penis "

100%.

But we also need to see the package before too.

We have met super fit guys and been let down when they expose the play area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since being in the lifestyle we have been surprised at the average size of cocks out there .

Most guys in here that say they are average are actually small.

Bit like body size.

Medically average or uk average.

Medically is ok.

UK is fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since being in the lifestyle we have been surprised at the average size of cocks out there .

Most guys in here that say they are average are actually small.

Bit like body size.

Medically average or uk average.

Medically is ok.

UK is fat.

"

I think average is 5 inches or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes

Why does it fk it up for genuine??? I just block the idiots and move on to find you genuine ones "

Saved me wasting pixels on a reply

Big yeay for the "genuine blokes"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's because a lot of guys see this as a sex site so assume women want to see their cocks before anything else!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since being in the lifestyle we have been surprised at the average size of cocks out there .

Most guys in here that say they are average are actually small.

Bit like body size.

Medically average or uk average.

Medically is ok.

UK is fat.

I think average is 5 inches or something "

Yes but there is 5" and thick which we like or 5" and hotdog thin.

It's easy to spot a little Willy they don't have a cock pic.

Its easy to see a fat guy in a couple profile..they only have the woman pics on the profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because a lot of guys see this as a sex site so assume women want to see their cocks before anything else!! "

Oh shit...We have been using it to find sex too.

Damn it...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I think it's because a lot of guys see this as a sex site so assume women want to see their cocks before anything else!!

Oh shit...We have been using it to find sex too.

Damn it... "

You know what I mean....come on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the Op is playing to the gallery with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

Because they can. No rules to you can’t include fruit and veg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you break the ice they want nothing else

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish


"They just want to get their cock in a box"

There is no other reason lol. We have a winner

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Because each to their own and there are those, male and female, who want to see what's on offer."

That's us. We ask to see face, body and cock pics with first message as we have plenty of us showing those features in our public pics so don't think it's too much to ask really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because cocks are where it's at!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"It’s disrespectful "

And how does that impact on your fab experience?

Others are being disrespectful. Suits me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because cocks are where it's at! "

They’re the latest must have fashion accessory, I never leave home without mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because cocks are where it's at!

They’re the latest must have fashion accessory, I never leave home without mine. "

I've never been cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because cocks are where it's at!

They’re the latest must have fashion accessory, I never leave home without mine.

I've never been cool "

You can borrow mine

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Worship the phallus! Praise be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worship the phallus! Praise be! "

Oh we do...yes we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I will only send face or body pics unless specifically asked for a cock pic

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP   Man
over a year ago

bedworth


"Pride lol.,they want everyone to love their pecker as much as they do ."

Very true lol ????

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men. "

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do "

.

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do .

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?"

What statistics?

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do .

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?

What statistics?"

Well the common reply to men who say on here that they are not getting replies or meets is 'single men outnumber single women 100:1'. So you don't think those stats have any relevance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do .

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?

What statistics?

Well the common reply to men who say on here that they are not getting replies or meets is 'single men outnumber single women 100:1'. So you don't think those stats have any relevance?"

Your reply wasn’t about how many men there is though, was it? You said the more men that send dick pics is better because it’ll make men who don’t, look better. And I disagreed.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do .

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?

What statistics?

Well the common reply to men who say on here that they are not getting replies or meets is 'single men outnumber single women 100:1'. So you don't think those stats have any relevance?

Your reply wasn’t about how many men there is though, was it? You said the more men that send dick pics is better because it’ll make men who don’t, look better. And I disagreed. "

That's not what i meant. If more men send dick pics and a large proportion of women and couples object to this and so block or ignore the sender, then statistically the odds for those men who don't would improve.

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By *eemcgeeMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Sending a cock picture is one thing

Being a total cock is another

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it"."

Lol that made me giggle

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

They probably think that their cock is better looking than their face.

Mr2

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

In a similar vain you could ask why so many women have pictures of their pussy on here. Well I'm going to assume it's all part of the advertisement package. After all not many people think this is a game of blind date. I think in some respects due to the nature of the site people are ironicly comfortable putting pictures of their more intimate parts than their face. Rather think it's a bit sad when a profiles sole picture is of a cock. Men are far more intresting that just a cock and to do so sort of indicates (probably incorrectly) your cock is the most intresting part you.

As to unsolicited opening cock shot messages I don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it"."

I've seen so many cock pics on here I never want to see another one again. Ever.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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They enjoy doing it. They don’t really care if anyone enjoys seeing it though we all choose our own way on here but I get no pleasure from seeing their pride and joy.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it".

I've seen so many cock pics on here I never want to see another one again. Ever. "

Think yourself lucky you're not a photo mod.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

alot say BBC or VWE too... maybe they are trying to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it".

I've seen so many cock pics on here I never want to see another one again. Ever.

Think yourself lucky you're not a photo mod. "

I'd have to do it with my eyes closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own and all that etc etc

Can someone please explain to me why blokes on here upload pictures of there meat and two veg and send females pictures of it to them what do they gain from doing it because the amount of lady’s on here that say no cock pics etc

Beyond me "

1) the forums and what is said on them as advice is not representative of the site as a whole. Fo not take what is said on here as gospel

2) the vast majority of first messages i receive from any gender/single/couple/group reference they are messaging because they like my cock.

3) it works, outside the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why concern yourself with what others do OP.

How does it ever have any relevance at all to what you do?

Because it’s sad and pathetic and fucks it up for genuine blokes "

How does it?

How does me having a picture of me naked on my profile fuck things up for you on your profile?

Also how does me having full body nudes make me not "genuine"?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Those pics provoke the same response to me as when the cat brings me a mouse, namely "I know you're awfully proud of it darling, but I'm not touching it".

I've seen so many cock pics on here I never want to see another one again. Ever.

Think yourself lucky you're not a photo mod.

I'd have to do it with my eyes closed. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I support all men sending pictures of their cocks to women; if they want to commit social suicide then that would increase the odds for the rest of us men.

No it doesn’t

What other men do doesn’t determine how one man will do .

So you don't think statistics has anything to do with it?

What statistics?

Well the common reply to men who say on here that they are not getting replies or meets is 'single men outnumber single women 100:1'. So you don't think those stats have any relevance?

Your reply wasn’t about how many men there is though, was it? You said the more men that send dick pics is better because it’ll make men who don’t, look better. And I disagreed.

That's not what i meant. If more men send dick pics and a large proportion of women and couples object to this and so block or ignore the sender, then statistically the odds for those men who don't would improve."

But it doesnt.

Because women arwnt picking who to fuck by a roll of a dice its who they find attractive physically and mentaly .

If they dont find you attractive having blocked 99% or 0% of the other males will not affect your chances

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