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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What turns you on more, cumming or making your partner cum?

I for one get more pleasure giving pleasure than from the act of cumming itself, yes I do like to cum, however to make another person cum is so errotic and rewarding.

What's your point of _iew?

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Definately making who I'm playing with cum first, several times hopefully, I find it such a turn on.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

me, then a cuppie..

that's why god gave fingers to finish yourself off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the Beatles had it..."Cum Together"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always making the other party cum

I have a problem where I find it really difficult to cum myself so rarely even think about me cumin xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the Beatles had it..."Cum Together""

Can be fun, although I love to give, for a partner to cum many times ad collapse in an exhausted heap with thier bodies entwined in mine totally spent orgasmically, Mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft!

It's all about me, men cum easily regardless!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pfft!

It's all about me, men cum easily regardless!"

lol its called tantric!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pfft!

It's all about me, men cum easily regardless!"

Lol I wish I could cum easily xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the feeling of cumming when with another person, i find it very hard to cum when being played with by someone else, i can do it myself very easy but its not offen i cum by a play mate so when i do find someone who can do it for me its fabulous to share the experience with somebody else

Of course i also love to see my play mate cum but for me i think its 50/50 because to me thats when sex is all about, both getting the same out of it equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pfft!

It's all about me, men cum easily regardless!"

No they dont!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like making the man cum best as i can make myself cum anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pfft!

It's all about me, men cum easily regardless!

Lol I wish I could cum easily xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like making the man cum best as i can make myself cum anytime."

i thought the whole point of being with someone else sexually is so you dont have to do it yourself

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love it when 'I want other's to come first' is mentioned.

what a selfless world this is, gives me a warm glow x

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I've got so many silver medals i cum 2nd so often

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I like making the man cum best as i can make myself cum anytime.

i thought the whole point of being with someone else sexually is so you dont have to do it yourself "

You beat me to it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very turned on by the sound, body movements and facial expressions that a gent makes when he climax and explodes!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I feel that its my duty to ensure my partner orgasms before actual penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when 'I want other's to come first' is mentioned.

what a selfless world this is, gives me a warm glow x"

i dont want others to cum first, i always get the ones who cant cum again and soon as they cum they bugger off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont always need the fuck (although nice), love making others cum, cum and cum.

So errotic to have your partner satisfied sexually, orgasm are a wonderful gift.

I have hd several ladies that I have simply satisfied orally on our meets with penatration never being part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman always comes second.

The lady should always come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"A gentleman always comes second.

The lady should always come first

"

+1 From both our points of _iew

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

I think its just you!

Making my partner cum is more important to me, I adore to give oral and I do mean adore! Maybe its a fetish, but thats how I am wired.

To make others cum, Mmmm wonderful1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

harsh but from my experience very true

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

I think it may well be...

My partner coming is as important to me as myself. That's why we do sex - it's a pleasure to share. That's not a thing in search of so-called 'real world cynicism' - that's how it is here.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as

long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

There are quite a few more gentlemen around than you post implies

Not every male should be generalized as they are by many on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

So therefore any single male who says "I enjoy making my partner cum first" is therefore lying in order just to get their leg over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think its just you!

Making my partner cum is more important to me, I adore to give oral and I do mean adore! Maybe its a fetish, but thats how I am wired.

To make others cum, Mmmm wonderful1! "

Clearly its not Don't get me wrong. I'm not disagreeing with you at all. I'm just saying when I read these threads it smacks of "look at me" when a single male says it. Of course there are genuine guys out there who actually mean it. But speaking from experiance when I was part of a couple the reality is far from what get's said in threads like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Altho i have met some wonderful sxual partners thro swinging who have been very selfless lovers id say more guys on here are just out to get theirs, so tho not all guys are selfish lovers on here id say more are then arnt

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"A gentleman always comes second.

The lady should always come first

+1 From both our points of _iew "

Thats good - see my post above ^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I think its just you!

Making my partner cum is more important to me, I adore to give oral and I do mean adore! Maybe its a fetish, but thats how I am wired.

To make others cum, Mmmm wonderful1!

Clearly its not Don't get me wrong. I'm not disagreeing with you at all. I'm just saying when I read these threads it smacks of "look at me" when a single male says it. Of course there are genuine guys out there who actually mean it. But speaking from experiance when I was part of a couple the reality is far from what get's said in threads like this "

Well I must be very odd then!

The thread was not a look at me, it was a real question, as I am this way, interesting to know if others are also.

I guess not many men really do like making others cum and thats why I get comments from women about the oral that I give.

If a man lies, then he will be caught out first encounter, so whats the point in the bulshit apart from a cheap quick thrill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?"

No i think you are right, some men make me cum if they are gentle, but others get too rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?

So therefore any single male who says "I enjoy making my partner cum first" is therefore lying in order just to get their leg over?

"

No not ANY single male. Just a lot. Like I said already who in their right mind is going to post "I don't give a fuck if a women enjoys themself. As long as I empty my sack I don't give a f***"? Not many.

Just my opinion and like i've said, i'll actually correct myself as well, because It's not just from experience of being on here as a couple. It's from speaking to other female members that the truth is there's a lot of blokes out there who will talk the talk but when it comes down to it they're happy to be a panda. Turn up, eat shoots and leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MAKING yourpartner cum ! no better sound than hearing the lady cum .mmm FRANKIE X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?

No i think you are right, some men make me cum if they are gentle, but others get too rough."

That cos most guys think all women work in the same way... but hey, I just want a leg over...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!"

ditto ... or at least make them fake it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!"

Ooh I love a challenge xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The correct answer for any respectable single male on a swinging site is clearly going to be to make your partner cum first!

Yaaaaaaaawn how predictable. Single males posting "I get enjoyment from making my partner cum first" in the hope that women are that naive to think "ooo he puts women first, I just have to meet him!". When the reality of it is that half the single blokes who say it aren't really bothered as long as they get there end away.

Which bloke in there right mind is going to post they don't care if the woman doesn't cum first? (and actuall mean it cause I've already read the reply about the fingers )

Sorry but when I read these threads that's the first thing that comes into my head Is it just me?

So therefore any single male who says "I enjoy making my partner cum first" is therefore lying in order just to get their leg over?

No not ANY single male. Just a lot. Like I said already who in their right mind is going to post "I don't give a fuck if a women enjoys themself. As long as I empty my sack I don't give a f***"? Not many.

Just my opinion and like i've said, i'll actually correct myself as well, because It's not just from experience of being on here as a couple. It's from speaking to other female members that the truth is there's a lot of blokes out there who will talk the talk but when it comes down to it they're happy to be a panda. Turn up, eat shoots and leaves "

Sad fact of life I guess!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx"

can I stand next to you in the queue Soapy?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx"

I know but I haven't got that long!!!

You said before that you cum rarely...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I have difficulty cumming at all making my partner cum is more likely to excite me.. I love to hear a man moan when being touched .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx

can I stand next to you in the queue Soapy?

Wolf

"

No but you can stand behind me anytime mate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx

I know but I haven't got that long!!!

You said before that you cum rarely..."

Lol I was on about the challenge of making you cum xx

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx

can I stand next to you in the queue Soapy?

Wolf

No but you can stand behind me anytime mate xx"

Deal...

That's one heck of a gauntlet you laid down there testa - I'm a long haul flyer too...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Deal...

Wolf

"

Soapy smiles broadly and slowly bends over xx

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"

Soapy smiles broadly and slowly bends over xx"

Leapfrog it is then!

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I can make myself cum really easily but most men can't, it Is refreshing when they do.

I like to make them cum at some point during an encounter, its like a confirmation that I am doing it right!

Ooh I love a challenge xx

can I stand next to you in the queue Soapy?

Wolf

No but you can stand behind me anytime mate xx

Deal...

That's one heck of a gauntlet you laid down there testa - I'm a long haul flyer too...

Wolf

"

Ah but squirting and cumming are not necessarily the same thing- they are not mutually inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no better feeling or vision than making a woman come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to make a girl cum, and love it when a girl does same for me in return

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i always prefer it,if the female cums first.

preferably prior to my arrival.

then we can concentrate on me me me.

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