FabSwingers.com forum: Condoms hurt me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe they hurt him when someone wearing one has anal sex with him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are allergic to latex. He should try a latex free type??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be allergic to them or hes not using enough lube??? Or maybe its just his excuse to go bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he’s already got galloping clap?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've heard a lot about people not liking them - uncomfortable, allergic etc. But to actually feel the pain when using them?

I learn a new thing on fab every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re not pleasant and ruin sex.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

i am trying very hard not to prejudge this

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The wrong size can hurt.

If you're well endowed some can feel tight to the extent that it's painful, cause loss of an erection and are more likely to split.

The old 'but you can stretch them over your head' argument forgets there's no bone in your knob, unlike the skull.

But as it's easy to buy larger condoms the excuse that they 'hurt' is not one that's valid as a reason to not use them.

I'd be surprised if anyone fell for it.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I honestly can't see how it would hurt under normal circumstances. It might be a bit tight or uncomfortable if the man is girthy and uses normal sized condoms. Happens to me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sounds odd to me...If they're too small get larger ones, but not too large as they can slip off.

If someone has a latex allergy there a latex free condoms available .

Loads of different makes now so trial and error til find ones you like.

Or pretend they hurt you and risk something much more painful instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well he seems to be enjoying this site as verified by 20 meets with men. Would be interesting to see if they believe his reasons for not using condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The penis inside did it. Perhaps

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North West Devon...

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."

Perhaps it pinged him in the eye when he took it off

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Could be a latex allergy

Latex on my skin makes it feel like it's burning.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Well he seems to be enjoying this site as verified by 20 meets with men. Would be interesting to see if they believe his reasons for not using condoms."

Maybe they just gave him a rubber glove tug.

That would be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he should try using them on his penis and not over his head (joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all different. They've never hurt me.

Yes latex allergies are common. All he has to do is buy Skyn brand in boots, right next to the Durex ones.

It's not a size thing. Any larger gentleman will admit you can get most condoms on relatively easily.. whatever the size.

Fab really isn't the best place for someone who won't wear a condom, whatever the reason.

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By *jtravellerWoman
over a year ago

surrey

I took part in a condo research study. Usually the problem is wrong size . Checkout Lucky Block .com , tons of selection you don’t see in local stores. They advise putting a couple of drops of lube in the condom , before putting it on . Guys say makes a tremendous difference. Might be a latex allergy, or if not circumcised, they had condoms cut for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think it’s just his excuse, I used to find that normal off the shelf durex hurt me a little as they were to tight but after trying several different brands and sizes I have found a few that I’m happy with , don’t get me wrong we all prefer bare back but would I help as like risk my health,

It’s just a load of excuses in my opinion.

Geoff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.

Perhaps it pinged him in the eye when he took it off "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he should try using them on his penis and not over his head (joke) "

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

If someone’s whipping you with one, it stings a bit.

They’re not very nice on toast either....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.

Not to use them as cher noble fall out.

Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him he's supposed to put the rubber bit on his cock. Not the foil bit. No wonder it hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong size then possibly

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By *ebt collectorMan
over a year ago

North East

"Tell him he's supposed to put the rubber bit on his cock. Not the foil bit. No wonder it hurts. "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will hurt less than the cocktail brolly down the pee hole im betting

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By *ebt collectorMan
over a year ago

North East

"I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.

Not to use them as cher noble fall out.

Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar

Ha ha ha good humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as syphilis will hurt

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

This just dump excuse to get bareback sex

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By *ebt collectorMan
over a year ago

North East

"This just dump excuse to get bareback sex

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers"

always give it to the lady to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers

always give it to the lady to deal with

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her hands are slimy too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm surprised he is so active on this site as his profile is very negative (don't do this, don't contact me if, I only do this, don't message me if you don't attach cock picture, etc). So if all the guys he meets are happy with his bareback option then I worry about this planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fabguys you can put bareback as a preference, and I’ve actually had some pretty vile messages after I’ve pointed out safe only.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

if hes 26 and and hasnt tried different condoms to find one that suits him it shows lack of maturity and inexperience. Hes a 26 year old man not a teenage boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a bunch of 50-60 somethings who do gay gang bangs in a shed on an allotment up this way, so there’s no acccoiuntimg for taste really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He displays veris from men aged 22-54 and only half of them ticked safe sex option in their profile.

Seems like "spread the love" is the theme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if hes 26 and and hasnt tried different condoms to find one that suits him it shows lack of maturity and inexperience. Hes a 26 year old man not a teenage boy"

26yr old aren't men

Still boys

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks. "

So what do you do, soldier on or just not use them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He displays veris from men aged 22-54 and only half of them ticked safe sex option in their profile.

Seems like "spread the love" is the theme!

I dont know about "spread the love", spread something else more likely

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By *jtravellerWoman
over a year ago

surrey

"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks. "

Have you tried the Skyn brand poly isoprene ones ? I can’t use Durex non latex , as they still contain some latex properties & I’ll react

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers

always give it to the lady to deal with

her hands are slimy too

Whatever are you both getting up to

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Must be the week for it - there was someone the other day claimed he couldn't use them because he was circumcised!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers

always give it to the lady to deal with

her hands are slimy too

Whatever are you both getting up to

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cant tell u only can show

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."

Not possible.

Got to be BS unless it's a latex thing. Then he just needs latex free condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't supposed to go over your balls aswell....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He displays veris from men aged 22-54 and only half of them ticked safe sex option in their profile.

Seems like "spread the love" is the theme!

I dont know about "spread the love", spread something else more likely

That was me being sarcastic..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They aren't supposed to go over your balls aswell.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.

Not to use them as cher noble fall out.

Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar

Ha ha ha good humour "

H&S its e everyone responsibility

Definitely wear a hard hat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."

Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.

He might need some lube inside etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.

Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.

He might need some lube inside etc"

With being on fab for a few years and meetings so many guys one would have thought he'd sorted the problem out by now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.

Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.

He might need some lube inside etc"

But he's not the one wearing it, hes taking it from behind and the other guys condom hurts him, im guessing the guy has a monsters cock and hes blaming the condom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must be the week for it - there was someone the other day claimed he couldn't use them because he was circumcised!!

Perhaps I'll get them both to meet and discuss their experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be the week for it - there was someone the other day claimed he couldn't use them because he was circumcised!!

Perhaps I'll get them both to meet and discuss their experiences

Get the ones with no tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just lying so he he's bareback fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.

Is that possible?

They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.

Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.

He might need some lube inside etc

But he's not the one wearing it, hes taking it from behind and the other guys condom hurts him, im guessing the guy has a monsters cock and hes blaming the condom

What makes you think hes not the one wearing them?

The op doesnt say if hes talking about it hurting his ass or his cock ir if hes top or bottom?

If hes bottom maybe somone used ribbed and dotted ones that i can imagine would be unpleasent in the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a size issue ... just needs to get the right ones. Might just be me but having a condom rolled onto my cock by my partner feels very sexy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks.

So what do you do, soldier on or just not use them? "

I’ll give you 3 guesses to the answer and the first 2 don’t count....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullshit. It's attention seeking rubbish!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe he bought ones with spikes on and puts them on inside out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wrong size can hurt.

If you're well endowed some can feel tight to the extent that it's painful, cause loss of an erection and are more likely to split.

The old 'but you can stretch them over your head' argument forgets there's no bone in your knob, unlike the skull.

But as it's easy to buy larger condoms the excuse that they 'hurt' is not one that's valid as a reason to not use them.

I'd be surprised if anyone fell for it.

I think you will find there is a bone in your knob otherwise why else would you get a “boner”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very first time I used a condom I tore my banjo string when I got ‘vigorous’. Probably didn’t put it on right. It made me phobic of them. Took a lot of practice to overcome the fear. They still can have a psychological effect on me when I’m very nervous/over excited.

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