FabSwingers.com forum: Safe word

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you engage in BDSM what is your safe word used or maybe you don’t have one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's simply "stop now"

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"If you engage in BDSM what is your safe word used or maybe you don’t have one..."

Amber and red.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

what the f*** always works as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not giving you the password to my safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you engage in BDSM what is your safe word used or maybe you don’t have one...

Amber and red.

Amber being keep going but calm down

Red fully stop?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Mine is harder

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"
so is that a yes

U could be killed by half way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"

Llanfair PG for short I suppose

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There is a requirement for two because once it's stopped it's very hard to get back .

Frist is a warning that is being to hurt or not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to pick something that wouldn't normally be said, so went for pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis.

Unfortunately, I can never get passed the 4th syllable...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops... STOP

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogochso is that a yes

U could be killed by half way"

Dark....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Indeed"
we job searching now

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Hard to do with a gag on imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Always just used the traffic lights

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Arrrrrgggghhhhh!’

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Always just used the traffic lights"

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

My safe word is pineapple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"

That's easy for you to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always just used the traffic lights"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to do with a gag on imo"

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

" what the f*** always works as well"

I bloody wish. That generally results in harder or the cane for swearing!

In theory traffic lights but I often lose the ability to speak, thankfully those that I play with know me well enough and often just my hand clenching and unclenching (like flashing or 'stars' little ones do) or tapping their leg works for them to check I'm on and how to continue/stop.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Hard to do with a gag on imo"
just simply use a signaling code not really that hard to do imo

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Cabbage!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Hard to do with a gag on imo

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged"

While gagged & trussed/ tied up and in yer gimp mask too? -a nod's as good as a wink to a blind bat ya know

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Hard to do with a gag on imojust simply use a signaling code not really that hard to do imo"

Ditto above -is frantic squirming now a signalling code?

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Hard to do with a gag on imo"

You can always act it out using expressive dance...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Hard to do with a gag on imo

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged

While gagged & trussed/ tied up and in yer gimp mask too? -a nod's as good as a wink to a blind bat ya know"
no its not. If you have got to the point of having someone in that position surely your in a position to recognise every move sign and breath the person makes makes otherwise it just shows lack of experience and you shouldnt have that person in that position How you going to know if something is going wrong if you cant recognise signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best safe words are ‘Your mum’s here’

Trust me EVERYTHING stops...

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Hard to do with a gag on imo

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged

While gagged & trussed/ tied up and in yer gimp mask too? -a nod's as good as a wink to a blind bat ya knowno its not. If you have got to the point of having someone in that position surely your in a position to recognise every move sign and breath the person makes makes otherwise it just shows lack of experience and you shouldnt have that person in that position How you going to know if something is going wrong if you cant recognise signs"

Somebody has to start somewhere -we can't all start out experienced -some cocky fuckers may also put out that they be more experienced than they are (honest guv, I did all my reading up online)

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Armageddon!!!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

mine is "dont even suggest BDSM" lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Hard to do with a gag on imo

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged

Somebody has to start somewhere -we can't all start out experienced -some cocky fuckers may also put out that they be more experienced than they are (honest guv, I did all my reading up online)"
well of cause everyone has got to start somewhere i just assume if youve got to the point of gagging and trussing someone youve got to the point of reading them. And no i cant read anyond that well but im not gagging trussing and wearing a gimp mask

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"well of cause everyone has got to start somewhere i just assume if youve got to the point of gagging and trussing someone youve got to the point of reading them. And no i cant read anyond that well but im not gagging trussing and wearing a gimp mask"

Not always. I often play with people in bdsm clubs that I've only met that night. Even with years of practice and a long term relationship you can't always rely on "knowing someone" well enough to read signs. We all differ depending on a myriad of factors.

The easiest sign with someone know them or not, is to make sure they can hold and release something (like a ball or a metal bar) something you can see as well as hear when it hits the ground.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Pardon

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over a year ago

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've been using "Donald Trump " for a while.

Guaranteed to stop all action dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ouch! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my word would be... When!

Foo Fighters - Everlong

The only thing I'll ever ask of you.

You got to promise not to stop when I say when!

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By *ebt collectorMan
over a year ago

North East

You was only meant to blow my bloody doors off

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By *heycallmehanWoman
over a year ago

nr wakefield

"My safe word is pineapple"

Mine too!!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Hard to do with a gag on imo

True so have a safety signal set up while gagged

Somebody has to start somewhere -we can't all start out experienced -some cocky fuckers may also put out that they be more experienced than they are (honest guv, I did all my reading up online)well of cause everyone has got to start somewhere i just assume if youve got to the point of gagging and trussing someone youve got to the point of reading them. And no i cant read anyond that well but im not gagging trussing and wearing a gimp mask"

Alcohol can do wonders to common sense -especially when said someone has got a little over excited of late watching porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been using "Donald Trump " for a while.

Guaranteed to stop all action dead."

Haha.

Like hitting a wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""ouch! ""
that's code for carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have one, but a friend chose “red hot aubergine” once. Still cracks me up lol

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"You can drop me off in Oban and I'll swim the rest of the way"

Works every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm..... "NOT THERE!!" Might be suitable

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Hmm..... "NOT THERE!!" Might be suitable "

Not without lube anyway eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm..... "NOT THERE!!" Might be suitable

Not without lube anyway eh?

Bit of spit make it fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm..... "NOT THERE!!" Might be suitable

Not without lube anyway eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My safe word is pineapple"

Mines pineapples

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Harder"

That's a cheeky one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something easy to remember that isn't associated with sex in any way, also s safe sign might be an idea, its hard to talk if you are gagged or your choking on a mouth full of cock

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By *ix-foot-two-stuMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Weinstein should be adopted as the world's default stop word.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Something easy to remember that isn't associated with sex in any way, also s safe sign might be an idea, its hard to talk if you are gagged or your choking on a mouth full of cock

Like "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious"

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