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I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling 
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice | |||
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"I know what you mean, I'm sure we all have things we are pretty certain would never turn us on. I think the 'don't knock it...' response is a defensive one and it must be hard not to be defensive when people are calling your choices 'gross' or 'sick' or such like." It's not always the OP, sometimes it is someone who has left a comment, and that is often all they say  | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice "It's one of those verbal filler remarks isn't it? Just something people say because they have nothing else to say, but want to try and contribute to the conversation. A reasoned, sensible explanation like yours isn't, in my view. 'knocking it' - it's just explaining why something isn't for you. | |||
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"There are things I know I do not like without having to try them, and no amount of persuasion or bribe could change my mine. Once my mind is made up about something, it takes a lot of effort in order to change it. If someone is insistent in trying to change my mind about something, I would normally tell them where to go, as I treat it as being pushy. "Absolutely, hate pushy people, my hackles rise and I'm a stubborn old mule and will not try no matter what bribery is used    | |||
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"It's not always the OP, sometimes it is someone who has left a comment, and that is often all they say "The comment itself is very valid, to the point of being cliché... BUT... On its own, without elaboration of 'say' personal experience, it says very little... And... There are things I wouldnt do because I know it isnt for my tastes or desires... At which point the argument is moot... If I dont care to do something, it is my choice and I am not "knocking it"... And for as much as someone knows me... It could be that I have tried it...;-);-) | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice "You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. " I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? | |||
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"I know what you mean, I'm sure we all have things we are pretty certain would never turn us on. I think the 'don't knock it...' response is a defensive one and it must be hard not to be defensive when people are calling your choices 'gross' or 'sick' or such like."  | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice
You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip.
"I was using the needle bit as an example to explain more (though I really don't like needles). My thought more came from the post I was reading this morning on period play and that people sometimes comment with the "don't knock it until you have tried it" on those sort of posts but don't always say more, and that surely its about people's preference. And surely people can comment on any post they like whether they have an interest or not? Sometimes I read a post but decide not to comment as I've nothing to say or what I might think of has already been said | |||
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"I didn't want to comment on this thread, but some idiot said don't knock it until you have tried it.... " | |||
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" I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? " *groan* You Clot...  | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? " Think you must be on here all the time then as I have never seen anyone moan about that comment before. As to the needle bit, I was, as I have already said, using it as example to explain my point | |||
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"can't believe some people get turned on by needles
"i love them, oh and am also a training body piercer hehehe | |||
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"can't believe some people get turned on by needles
i love them, oh and am also a training body piercer hehehe"Funnily enough I have two tattoos and didn't actually mind having them done as I didn't see them as needles | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? Think you must be on here all the time then as I have never seen anyone moan about that comment before. As to the needle bit, I was, as I have already said, using it as example to explain my point" by "this type of thread", I mean people having a moan about something or other, when their argument is based on nothing more than someone elses preferences being different to their's. | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? Think you must be on here all the time then as I have never seen anyone moan about that comment before. As to the needle bit, I was, as I have already said, using it as example to explain my point by "this type of thread", I mean people having a moan about something or other, when their argument is based on nothing more than someone elses preferences being different to their's. " Ah gotcha there though I wasn't actually moaning as such, just perhaps annoyed that people forget everyone has a preference when they make that comment. Here though just for you is a real moan. I forgot to do up the buttons on my quilt cover when I put it in the washing machine and not only has it turned inside out but all the washing is now inside it along with one sock yet I put a pair in | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? Think you must be on here all the time then as I have never seen anyone moan about that comment before. As to the needle bit, I was, as I have already said, using it as example to explain my point by "this type of thread", I mean people having a moan about something or other, when their argument is based on nothing more than someone elses preferences being different to their's. Ah gotcha there though I wasn't actually moaning as such, just perhaps annoyed that people forget everyone has a preference when they make that comment. Here though just for you is a real moan. I forgot to do up the buttons on my quilt cover when I put it in the washing machine and not only has it turned inside out but all the washing is now inside it along with one sock yet I put a pair in "That's not a moan, that's a "sign" of the second coming. He's asking you to encompass the needy, to spread your arms and pull them in. The "needy" though, are the single guys who can't get laid. This is your calling, so find that other sock, and get on with it  | |||
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"You know that needle play is not for you, so you know you don't need to try it. Why, therefore, involve yourself in discussions about things you know you don't like, which will lead to the inevitable 'don't knock it' quip. I ask myself this everytime this type of thread is published. lol, I've started some in this vien though, and there's nothing like having a good moan is there? Think you must be on here all the time then as I have never seen anyone moan about that comment before. As to the needle bit, I was, as I have already said, using it as example to explain my point by "this type of thread", I mean people having a moan about something or other, when their argument is based on nothing more than someone elses preferences being different to their's. Ah gotcha there though I wasn't actually moaning as such, just perhaps annoyed that people forget everyone has a preference when they make that comment. Here though just for you is a real moan. I forgot to do up the buttons on my quilt cover when I put it in the washing machine and not only has it turned inside out but all the washing is now inside it along with one sock yet I put a pair in
That's not a moan, that's a "sign" of the second coming.
He's asking you to encompass the needy, to spread your arms and pull them in.
The "needy" though, are the single guys who can't get laid.
This is your calling, so find that other sock, and get on with it " | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice "A wise person speaks when there is something to say. An idiot speaks because they have to say something. | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice
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" He's asking you to encompass the needy, to spread your arms and pull them in. The "needy" though, are the single guys who can't get laid. This is your calling, so find that other sock, and get on with it "If Kytten opens wide her arms to embrace me... Verilly bretheren shall my socks disappear!! | |||
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"I have to say that this comment annoys the hell out of me. Every time a post appears i.e. pee, pooh and sex during a period etc, some idiot comes up with this comment. Surely we are entitled to a choice in what we want to do and don't want to do
I hate needles with a passion so why would I ever consider needle play? Surely as a Trypanophobic (needle phobia courtesy of Wikipedia) I am not going to consider needle play as something I would like to try, I can't even stand watching them on television and have to turn away, and I don't have them at the dentist for fillings either; the pain of a needle to me is worse than the pain of the filling
On the other hand, I am aware that trying something that one hasn't may turn out to be a thoroughly enjoyable experience but at the point of suggestion, one can make a decision as to whether it sounds an excellent idea or not, surely everyone has that right of choice "I prefer each to their own as a saying.. however, there are many things that 6 months ago, a year ago.. I would have been saying the same as you about things and getting my arse in the air over... yet because of the fact master and I like to explore things.. we are adding more and more things to our enjoyment.. Now I am personally terrified of needles.. ( and very glad my Master does not like this either) but should one day Master change his mind and decide to try it.. I would do so.. the only thing I wouldnt do is say I liked something if I didnt. cali x | |||
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