FabSwingers.com forum: Oh dear

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So trim decided he doesn't want to be on fab anymore. Got tired of explaining that we only meet in clubs and that we play seperately.

So the profile has been changed to single female. Password changed and it's just me on here though I would normally got to clubs with him. Just not play in the same room as him.

This only happened today and as a direct result my fabbs, emails, winks, friend request have exploded.

Nothing has changed really other than he's removed himself off and I've had to change the profile text.

How do you single fems do it... I'm tired already after only a few hours.

I'm not even looking to meet anyone to that now. Hats off to you ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those offers for sex must get tiring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just women iv had to read 7 messages today my head hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not just women iv had to read 7 messages today my head hurts"

And I thought I had it bad .. you poor thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not just women iv had to read 7 messages today my head hurts"

You god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block single guys. "

Cock blocker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All those offers for sex must get tiring! "

Yes ... After a few hours of it .. I need a lay down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

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well you'll have come bother us face pic before fanny please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

That is pretty much my reply to every message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not just women iv had to read 7 messages today my head hurts

You god

I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Filters!!"

Yes !!!!

Going to remove single guys

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

They don't read your profile where it says not meeting ... only for forum and chat etc?

Who knew they wouldn't read??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All those offers for sex must get tiring!

Yes ... After a few hours of it .. I need a lay down."

Well the goal of these men is to get you to lie down. So, in the end, they win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel lucky if i get 2 messages

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters and ignoring 95% of my inbox works. I don't even bother reading messages unless they've an interesting avatar. I make the first move generally and ignore the rest.

It's a shame that Trim has decided it's not for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Filters and ignoring 95% of my inbox works. I don't even bother reading messages unless they've an interesting avatar. I make the first move generally and ignore the rest.

It's a shame that Trim has decided it's not for him. "

It's not the scene that's not for him. Just fab. We will still go to clubs and play as we have been doing this for years. We never play together and always in a private room and it got tiresome for him to have to explain why to the couples over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

They don't read your profile where it says not meeting ... only for forum and chat etc?

Who knew they wouldn't read??"

Well I thought I'd give the single guys the benefit to prove otherwise but it seems at least the ones that have messaged me asking for a private meet that they at least didn't read it.

Point proven and single guys are back on the blocked list.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I can only repeat filter up baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

They don't read your profile where it says not meeting ... only for forum and chat etc?

Who knew they wouldn't read??

Well I thought I'd give the single guys the benefit to prove otherwise but it seems at least the ones that have messaged me asking for a private meet that they at least didn't read it.

Point proven and single guys are back on the blocked list.

Easier to do advanced searches yourself.

All the best hun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I first joined fab I nearly deleted my account the very same day.

I was literally inundated I'm not exaggerating when I say I got well over 200 messages on that first day and countless Winks and friend requests.

it was actually very overwhelming and like I said it very nearly put me off.

I've now found filters and it's much more manageable. Plus I think I've now got almost the entire south Coast on my block list.

I feel your pain. I'm not new to this but still a bit like twf is going on.

I'll probably block single guys again which is a shame as I do like single guys but I don't like them all.

So far my responses have been.

You havent read my profile have you ???

They don't read your profile where it says not meeting ... only for forum and chat etc?

Who knew they wouldn't read??

Well I thought I'd give the single guys the benefit to prove otherwise but it seems at least the ones that have messaged me asking for a private meet that they at least didn't read it.

Point proven and single guys are back on the blocked list.

Easier to do advanced searches yourself.

All the best hun x"

I've blocked the lot. Will be easier for me that way .

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