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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Rarely .. if I take the time to say something out loud. I normally mean it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out "
foot in mouth disease! I get that at times

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Putting my mouth in gear before my brain has got me into all sorts of problems in the past and although I try and be more careful these days there are still occasions when the words tumble out and I think afterwards "why the f*** did I say that?!"

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Rarely, my uncle used to say to me "engage brain before putting mouth in gear." I try to do that, although sometimes the handbrake slips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more guilty of saying the right thing but in the wrong way so it makes no sense or is misinterpreted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak to much of the truth when people wish to hear the same reassuring lie

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm more guilty of saying the right thing but in the wrong way so it makes no sense or is misinterpreted."

"I'm saying all of the right words, just not necessarily in the right order!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And if my mouth doesn’t say it my facial expression certainly will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time its a curse

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

It's my default setting to speak my mind -I don't regret things tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out "
I'm brilliant at putting my foot in it.. and saying the wrong thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more often that I TYPE the wrong thing and it’s taken the wrong way.

Or people decide to interpret it totally the wrong way based on their own prejudices, and then take offence or view what was said a certain negative way when that wasn’t the intent at all!

And then blame you when it’s actually their interpretation which is suspect!

That’s the trouble with the written word, there’s no reading of time of voice or body language. And depending on what mood the reader is in at the point of reading things can be interpreted very differently!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Tis my superpower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t necessarily say the wrong thing it’s more I say it wrong, the wrong tone and it gets interpreted wrong

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I imagine I have on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I quite often have foot in mouth disease. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to, but fail miserably.

Especially if it's something personal rather than work...

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By *layfulGentMan
over a year ago

Doncaster South Yorkshire

@op it’s because we are from South Yorkshire my dear , we people from this region do struggle at engaging the brain before speaking

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think many a person would find it handy to have a brain / mouth filter installed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I have no filter so I don’t regret saying the wrong thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@op it’s because we are from South Yorkshire my dear , we people from this region do struggle at engaging the brain before speaking "

I say what I like and I like what I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out "
always that's why I'm single haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often attempt to say the right thing, say the wrong thing, try to explain what I mean, then make it worse. at that point I regret it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the first reaction is the correct one.

We all go to far sometimes don't dwell on it

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out "
I often say the right thing and regret that too. Sometimes honesty isn't the right policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s more often that I TYPE the wrong thing and it’s taken the wrong way.

Or people decide to interpret it totally the wrong way based on their own prejudices, and then take offence or view what was said a certain negative way when that wasn’t the intent at all!

And then blame you when it’s actually their interpretation which is suspect!

That’s the trouble with the written word, there’s no reading of time of voice or body language. And depending on what mood the reader is in at the point of reading things can be interpreted very differently! "

Very true and quite common....

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"And if my mouth doesn’t say it my facial expression certainly will! "

Now that I am guilty of! How I feel is usually written all over my face, I’m an open book in that respect.

I do tend to think quite carefully before saying things, but if I feel something needs to be said, I don’t shy away from it these days

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By *amlee7986Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I sometimes blurt out things without thinking, but even if I don't, my thoughts are plastered all over my face anyway! I literally have no control

M on the other hand could make a career in poker if he knew how to play lol

T

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Say it? Yep.

Sometimes type it too.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time!!

Sounds perfectly fine in my head until I say it out loud by which point it's too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally have a mind full of things I wish I did say, after saying something stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever say the wrong thing then regret it?

My problem is that I often open my mouth first and the words flow out "

Its a Northern trait, I wouldn't worry about it OP I do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s more often that I TYPE the wrong thing and it’s taken the wrong way.

Or people decide to interpret it totally the wrong way based on their own prejudices, and then take offence or view what was said a certain negative way when that wasn’t the intent at all!

And then blame you when it’s actually their interpretation which is suspect!

That’s the trouble with the written word, there’s no reading of time of voice or body language. And depending on what mood the reader is in at the point of reading things can be interpreted very differently!

Very true and quite common.... "

I agree with that. Some people on occasions do decide to interpret things the wrong way and make it personal for their own reasons. It's all good, but things go from calm to ballistic. Especially in threads

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It’s more often that I TYPE the wrong thing and it’s taken the wrong way.

Or people decide to interpret it totally the wrong way based on their own prejudices, and then take offence or view what was said a certain negative way when that wasn’t the intent at all!

And then blame you when it’s actually their interpretation which is suspect!

That’s the trouble with the written word, there’s no reading of time of voice or body language. And depending on what mood the reader is in at the point of reading things can be interpreted very differently!

Very true and quite common....

I agree with that. Some people on occasions do decide to interpret things the wrong way and make it personal for their own reasons. It's all good, but things go from calm to ballistic. Especially in threads "

Another reason for me to avoid charged or loaded threads. Too many people lack the capacity to engage the brain before replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tendency to be my normal sarcastic self to people that I've only just met and then I'll think about what I've said later and worry if they took it as sarcasm or just think I'm a dickhead

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think many a person would find it handy to have a brain / mouth filter installed "

Or the ability to go back in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I never think before I speak

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"And if my mouth doesn’t say it my facial expression certainly will! "

you’re an honest soul, better in the long run, than telling a lie to prevent transient hurt feelings x

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yeh quite a lot tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes I do but not very often. I find that some people are very conscious of saying the wrong thing and go to great lengths to explain what they've said thereby digging themselves a hole they can never climb out of.

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