FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

They do indeed - there is no magic formula to getting meets though, so all you can do is set your expectations correctly, adopt the right approach and attitude, couple that with a decent profile and pics and be patient and it may happen.

Having only been here a week you should know though that there are no guarantees and it usually takes time to find what works for you and to get any interest, especially as a single guy profile, which outnumbers single women and couple's by between 10 and 15 to one.

Welcome though and good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet single men. It is actually incredibly easy to spot the nice ones, that doesn't mean we find them attractive or they us and it doesn't mean that all the other respective criteria are matched for them or us.

Being nice is a good thing but it isn't enough to guarantee a meet

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes, at least I hope they were single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the responses.

I understand that nice doesn’t win you anything and that there has to be reciprocal attraction also.

Hopefully one day I’ll float someone’s boat

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Thanks for all the responses.

I understand that nice doesn’t win you anything and that there has to be reciprocal attraction also.

Hopefully one day I’ll float someone’s boat

Your probably the 10th nice person that sent someone a message today and she has all of last week's nice men's profiles to read again and reply to yet (or delete and start afresh). It's not always the " not nice ones" that make it difficult .Women have other lives and can't be meeting new people as often as we might like. You can't rely on Fab alone to establish yourself in the swing world.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Thanks for all the responses.

I understand that nice doesn’t win you anything and that there has to be reciprocal attraction also.

Hopefully one day I’ll float someone’s boat

You might stand more chance with a range of good pics, that gives a guy a head start on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, but I've had a spate of talkers recently, who couldn't walk the walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

Yes if they are the following.

1. Really single

2. Gorgeous

3. Funny

4. Not too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

Who says your nice, we have to determine that!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

Yes if they are the following.

1. Really single

2. Gorgeous

3. Funny

4. Not too far away. X "
3/4 ain't bad.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Don't throw the towel in just yet OP.

You can accommodate, you're tall, have a decent wrote up, nice eyes, if you were closer I'd be interested!!

Perhaps some more pics might help

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We meet single guys actually all our meets on here so far have been with single guys

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

First off, welcome to the madness.

Secondly, you need to manage your expectations. If you thought, sign up, say hi, meet up, dick wet by Molly King lookalike, rinse, repeat, then you'll be very disappointed.

You're up against thousands of fit as fuck men with stand out profiles and panty moistening pics.

Send messages to those whose criteria YOU meet and forget your sent messages.

This is fun, it's not a job application, there are no UN conventions, protected criteria law's etc that deems people have to give you a go etc. Once you realise you're not entitled (not saying you do) you'll have fun.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

Yes if they are the following.

1. Really single

2. Gorgeous

3. Funny

4. Not too far away. "

Sorry, but number 1 just made me chuckle and not for the obvious reason either - I read it first with the emphasis on "really" like there's some level of single beyond just plain single

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't throw the towel in just yet OP.

You can accommodate, you're tall, have a decent wrote up, nice eyes, if you were closer I'd be interested!!

Perhaps some more pics might help

I’m in the same county?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all....rest assured I don’t think I’m entitled to a meet. Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't look at only the forum as a place to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. I do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks all....rest assured I don’t think I’m entitled to a meet. Not at all"

No it doesn't come across that you are, I think the person who mentioned it said she didn't mean it applied to you

The thing is men often come into the forum claiming that the nice ones don't get a look in because all the horrible men have spoiled it for them. This is clearly not the case, women aren't stupid they don't pick up the mouldy peach in the supermarket when there are fresh juicy ones to be had.

Good luck on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

It's even harder for the not nice ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do, but I've had a spate of talkers recently, who couldn't walk the walk."

You and me both!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

It's even harder for the not nice ones! "

I can only imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Don't throw the towel in just yet OP.

You can accommodate, you're tall, have a decent wrote up, nice eyes, if you were closer I'd be interested!!

Perhaps some more pics might help

I’m in the same county?!"

It's a big county. 1hr 20 mins according to Google maps ~ too far for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk? "

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

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ist so easy its untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do handjobs from women who can speak sign language count as blowjobs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't throw the towel in just yet OP.

You can accommodate, you're tall, have a decent wrote up, nice eyes, if you were closer I'd be interested!!

Perhaps some more pics might help

I’m in the same county?!

It's a big county. 1hr 20 mins according to Google maps ~ too far for me

I’m googling the degrees of possible error in google maps

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes. Occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do handjobs from women who can speak sign language count as blowjobs? "

i just shit s granny up laughing at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single males, that's all we've ever met up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And I don’t need persuading that someone is nice, I’ll be able to tell, they don’t need to let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, does anyone actually meet single males?!

It seems incredibly difficult for us nice guys to persuade other nice people that we are not the not nice ones

Some women do indeed, but given the ratio of men to women, it would be a full time job for them to meet a fraction of the guys on here, nice or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

Oh god dark chocolate definitely.

I mean you don't want to attract the scruffs.

Release the hounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

Oh God!

And it was all going so well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly. I refused to let the cashier handle my biscuits the other day as she had just swiped through some poor persons milk chocolate hob nobs. I insisted I’d swipe them through and dropped money into her hand from a height.

I immediately returned home and wept for those people buying milk chocolate.

Then I giggled as I unwrapped my cylindrical packet of dark, chocolate wheaty goodness and sighed as I realised they were all broken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Then I realised I was going a bit mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males are my preferred choice

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Exactly. I refused to let the cashier handle my biscuits the other day as she had just swiped through some poor persons milk chocolate hob nobs. I insisted I’d swipe them through and dropped money into her hand from a height.

I immediately returned home and wept for those people buying milk chocolate.

Then I giggled as I unwrapped my cylindrical packet of dark, chocolate wheaty goodness and sighed as I realised they were all broken"

I hope you realise that chocolate hobnobs are so 2018, salted caramel match makers are where the action is at this year.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Organising a meet for Wednesday with a couple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Organising a meet for Wednesday with a couple...

I thought the op was talking about single males?!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

Oh God!

And it was all going so well!

Hmmmmm, that's what I thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

Oh God!

And it was all going so well!

Hmmmmm, that's what I thought

I’ve made a belated resolution to be less bothered about the covering of my hob nobs.

I’ve decided that dipping it into something hot and wet is more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes mate have faith.

Always helpful to do a 'Check out my profile' post on the forums.

I got some great tips from that.

Also if you like biscuits it would help greatly.

Maybe post some pictures of chocolate Hob Nobs being dipped into tea.

Well that's got me going.. Anyone fancy a dunk?

Milk or dark chocolate though?! Is milk a bit common? Will I look up my own arse if I post dark chocolate? Maybe it’ll make me look suave and sophisticated?! Or maybe I’m over thinking it

Oh God!

And it was all going so well!

Hmmmmm, that's what I thought

Well we do have similar tastes, as I recall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Organising a meet for Wednesday with a couple...

I thought the op was talking about single males?!

He was as was I....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep "
wwooo

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

You’ve been here before OP, did you meet then?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Moi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They do indeed - there is no magic formula to getting meets though, so all you can do is set your expectations correctly, adopt the right approach and attitude, couple that with a decent profile and pics and be patient and it may happen.

Welcome though and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys.

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