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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

There is some disgusting people in the world we live in, I was out last night and ended up nearly fighting, was sat in a take away after a night out and sone young lad said something really disgusting to me. I am not even going to repeat on here what he said, but worthy of sticking up for myself. I am not a fighter but will defend myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear that.

Hope you are ok.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

There are some odious specimens. The local area is rife. I’m sorry you experienced that OP. You can only hope that standing up for yourself in a non-aggressive way will make them think twice next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had he been drinking ?

I'll never take a piss head on

Some would argue with a wall with a couple of drinks inside them

Words are words

If it spiralled to assault however, they'd be having a bit back

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Small intellect, small cock no doubt - try not to let it get you down.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Sorry to hear that.

Hope you are ok."

I am fine thank you. That is the thing that puts me off going out.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

hes a low life

ignore him

he will get his reward

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Had he been drinking ?

I'll never take a piss head on

Some would argue with a wall with a couple of drinks inside them

Words are words

If it spiralled to assault however, they'd be having a bit back "

I don't think he really looked that d*unk. I think most people would of reacted, I am not an aggressive person. But sometimes you need to stand up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is late at night he probably had been drinking and maybe taking chemical substances and not in control of himself, perhaps actually looking for a fight and will never remember in the morning... I wouldn't take it as personal. You could have either got seriously injured or arrested for assault and would he have been worth that? Seriously never a good idea to lower yourself to another's quite questionable standards at anytime.

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

I would just remember the good things that happened on your night out and forget the little piece of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing to do is walk away! If they persist in following you turn around and hold your hands up as if you're backing off. Just for show for the cameras. Then you can kick the shit out of him and use self defence. A copper told me that!

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"I would just remember the good things that happened on your night out and forget the little piece of shit "

Good way to think about it. It was a really good night up to that point. I think the guy needs to look at himself in the mirror. I was on my own and he had 3 or 4 mates arround him.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

That's a crap situation OP, especially when you're minding your own business and someone starts on you. The bigger man does walk away but sometimes getting involved physically is necessary. A word of advice though, always make sure your take away order's ready to go before you knock them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kk

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"The best thing to do is walk away! If they persist in following you turn around and hold your hands up as if you're backing off. Just for show for the cameras. Then you can kick the shit out of him and use self defence. A copper told me that! "

Sounds like a good piece of advice!

But seriously, Saturday nights out are notoriously marred by people getting off their heads. We often hear about the impact of this culture on our NHS but less so about it's impact on the police. The cost of policing this sort of behaviour week in week out takes valuable resource away from where it is needed most. Too many people are left on the breadline and needing food banks for the sake of allowing people the freedom to bring harm to others through their own personal drinking habits. They should start billing the pissheads for police time if they hanger garner their attention...by the minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is late at night he probably had been drinking and maybe taking chemical substances and not in control of himself, perhaps actually looking for a fight and will never remember in the morning... I wouldn't take it as personal. You could have either got seriously injured or arrested for assault and would he have been worth that? Seriously never a good idea to lower yourself to another's quite questionable standards at anytime. "

Depending on what they say I'd pretty much never say anything back. Can't be arsed with the hassle.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Not a policeman anywhere to be seen.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Not a policeman anywhere to be seen. "

Or police woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would just remember the good things that happened on your night out and forget the little piece of shit

Good way to think about it. It was a really good night up to that point. I think the guy needs to look at himself in the mirror. I was on my own and he had 3 or 4 mates arround him. "

Sounds like they were just out for trouble. Glad you're ok OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple!

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

I am good miss carrot. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! "
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There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows. "

Legalise exposing your cock in public????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows. "

Whilst a Saturday night would be less violent unfortunately the mental health service in this country isn't up to the other side of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

Whilst a Saturday night would be less violent unfortunately the mental health service in this country isn't up to the other side of that "

It makes them paranoid and can't get an erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

Legalise exposing your cock in public????"

I knew there'd be one person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was a bambi thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

Whilst a Saturday night would be less violent unfortunately the mental health service in this country isn't up to the other side of that

It makes them paranoid and can't get an erection"

Didn't effect me when I used too. Actually made me harder and hornier! Yes there's a mental health issue. If it's legalized you can get different strains to enhance your mood etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time. A group of lads who can't handle their booze and showing off in front of their mates. Probably wouldn't say boo to a goose if he was on his own. Coward!

You did well not to rise to it mate. Imagine smacking him one and ending up with an assault charge. Not worth the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

Whilst a Saturday night would be less violent unfortunately the mental health service in this country isn't up to the other side of that "

Have you seen what alcohol does to people's mental health long term?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make alcohol illegal and legalise ! Simple! .

There's a word been taken out! You need to work it out.... clue something that grows.

Whilst a Saturday night would be less violent unfortunately the mental health service in this country isn't up to the other side of that

Have you seen what alcohol does to people's mental health long term?"

Oh yes and that doesn't get treated either along with plain old addiction ... it all has it's downfalls. I don't think banning one thing and replacing it with another with a different set of problems is going to work!

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Happens all the time. A group of lads who can't handle their booze and showing off in front of their mates. Probably wouldn't say boo to a goose if he was on his own. Coward!

You did well not to rise to it mate. Imagine smacking him one and ending up with an assault charge. Not worth the hassle. "

Not worth the hassle. Temptation was to give him a smack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'd stand up for myself but other times I'd just let it lye. Its not worth the effort some times.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Happened to me outside Funny Girls in Blackpool, waiting for a friend to arrive, dressed. Next thing I know there’s a bunch of lads pointing and laughing at me. Eventually one builds up the courage to get up close. I quietly said to him, imagine how you’re going to look if I knock you out, you think anyone’s going to forget that ?

He backed off but I must admit I was pretty messed up for the rest of the night. At first I was angry and he was a typical weak looking chav type, but thinking about it, I was taking a massive risk.

Well done Op you did the right thing

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Funnily enough that's the area I was near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women should carry pepper sprey and allowed to use it as they please.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thing is in this day and age it takes 2 seconds to pull a knife. If i lived in a city id never go out the house

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"All women should carry pepper sprey and allowed to use it as they please. "
op isnt a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All women should carry pepper sprey and allowed to use it as they please. op isnt a woman"

Does every comment have to involve the op in threads? Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just need to be careful how far you go to defend yourself.

There’s really only a few out comes of fighting in the street.

The fight is won, some one ends up hurt, the other ends up arrested. Now, it’s eityer left there or it gets escalated into some one taking revenge. No one really wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to be careful how far you go to defend yourself.

There’s really only a few out comes of fighting in the street.

The fight is won, some one ends up hurt, the other ends up arrested. Now, it’s eityer left there or it gets escalated into some one taking revenge. No one really wins "

They can't do anything if it's self defence. As long as it clearly shows it on cctv. Never throw the first punch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t fight these days, don’t know who has a weapon, one punch could kill someone if they land on a curb and hit their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t fight these days, don’t know who has a weapon, one punch could kill someone if they land on a curb and hit their head. "

Totally agree. There was a really good documentary about this a few years back. I think it was called one punch kill or something. Families left devastated over a simple d*unken argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for not resorting to violence, OP - too many people think that it's a justifiable response to mere name-calling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth is fella id have left him doing snow angels in the pavement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t fight these days, don’t know who has a weapon, one punch could kill someone if they land on a curb and hit their head. "

If you have you have to fight you have to fight. If someone's throwing punches at you you can't just stand there. Always fight back! If they're fighting then they should expect a fight back. I bet it's people who picked on the weak kids in school and got away with it. What goes around comes around I'm afraid. Anyone who purposefully hurts someone should expect to get hurt back, basic math. Cause and effect, they're causing it and it's effecting you. Defend yourself at all costs! If someone's shouting at you... shout louder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me outside Funny Girls in Blackpool, waiting for a friend to arrive, dressed. Next thing I know there’s a bunch of lads pointing and laughing at me. Eventually one builds up the courage to get up close. I quietly said to him, imagine how you’re going to look if I knock you out, you think anyone’s going to forget that ?

He backed off but I must admit I was pretty messed up for the rest of the night. At first I was angry and he was a typical weak looking chav type, but thinking about it, I was taking a massive risk.

Well done Op you did the right thing "

That's awful.

Good thinking though, you will have made him think twice. x

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"You can’t fight these days, don’t know who has a weapon, one punch could kill someone if they land on a curb and hit their head.

Totally agree. There was a really good documentary about this a few years back. I think it was called one punch kill or something. Families left devastated over a simple d*unken argument."
I remember the documentary I think a bouncer got sent down a few years for killing a guy with one punch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t fight these days, don’t know who has a weapon, one punch could kill someone if they land on a curb and hit their head.

Totally agree. There was a really good documentary about this a few years back. I think it was called one punch kill or something. Families left devastated over a simple d*unken argument. I remember the documentary I think a bouncer got sent down a few years for killing a guy with one punch. "

It was a great documentary. Just shows what can happen if you go around smacking people.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

The other guy might have been high on drugs which can be just as bad as someone who is pissed out of their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me outside Funny Girls in Blackpool, waiting for a friend to arrive, dressed. Next thing I know there’s a bunch of lads pointing and laughing at me. Eventually one builds up the courage to get up close. I quietly said to him, imagine how you’re going to look if I knock you out, you think anyone’s going to forget that ?

He backed off but I must admit I was pretty messed up for the rest of the night. At first I was angry and he was a typical weak looking chav type, but thinking about it, I was taking a massive risk.

Well done Op you did the right thing "

This made me laugh, let's hope the little chav learnt a lesson.

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Thanks for all the kind messages.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Happened to me outside Funny Girls in Blackpool, waiting for a friend to arrive, dressed. Next thing I know there’s a bunch of lads pointing and laughing at me. Eventually one builds up the courage to get up close. I quietly said to him, imagine how you’re going to look if I knock you out, you think anyone’s going to forget that ?

He backed off but I must admit I was pretty messed up for the rest of the night. At first I was angry and he was a typical weak looking chav type, but thinking about it, I was taking a massive risk.

Well done Op you did the right thing

This made me laugh, let's hope the little chav learnt a lesson. "

For a second I thought he may actually go for me and I was prepared for it, but he just moved back and walked off laughing with his mates.

I hope it never happens again.

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"There is some disgusting people in the world we live in, I was out last night and ended up nearly fighting, was sat in a take away after a night out and sone young lad said something really disgusting to me. I am not even going to repeat on here what he said, but worthy of sticking up for myself. I am not a fighter but will defend myself. "

That's fine but a word of caution. Idiots like that can easily have knifes on their person and whatever it was he said to you it isn't worth the risk of you getting stabbed and losing your life. That little cretin might end up locked up for a long time but you'll be a long time dead. Walk away and ignore, that's my advice.

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