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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

That they think they are the social standard that everybody else should copy. Just means they are opinionated and probably not at all normal in other people's eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring ...

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By *parkyWheelzWoman
over a year ago

Sebring

My response usually is "Normal is boring"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal doesn't exist. It is merely a setting on the washing machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could mean not kinky

Just standard sex in bed

I'm. Not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

If you took 100 people from tesco, and 100 people from Fab you would find the percentage of total fucking loons much higher on Fab, take normal as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Normal doesn't exist. It is merely a setting on the washing machine"

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlikely to boil a pet rabbit

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

It sounds like they were using normal to suggest that you're ordinary as opposed to exceptional in their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal doesn't exist. It is merely a setting on the washing machine"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

Boring?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul. "

Define average though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people use it to describe you as being their wavelength and would get on well with. Something which may be to another person totally psycotic.

Take it as a compliment even if it feels like the usual "you are nice" or "you are cute"

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul. "

Same with us. I'd rather be classed as normal/boring than some of the drama fuelled souls on here.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul.

Define average though?"

No extremes of anything. Just middle of the road.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Most of us are pretty normal. There are very few genuine individuals in this world, standing apart from the crowd marks you out, makes you different and human beings don't like that. Watch the forums for 48 hours, see how many genuine individuals there are, look around you next time you go shopping how many people are dressed in any way that really stands out?

Normal is safe and what nearly all of us are.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul.

Same with us. I'd rather be classed as normal/boring than some of the drama fuelled souls on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person. "

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?"

Some work very hard at being oddball and wacko, others just are and to them that's normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal wouldn't like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compared to what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal to me is average or run of the mill.

That’s not why I’m here or what I’m looking for

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not a freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not normally normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?"

That's my point. They probably think they are normal. One person's normal is probably another whacko

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I think when someone says they’re normal, means they don’t have any unusual tastes or act from what society regards as general acceptable or historical behaviour.

I crossdress so as this is not regarded as behaviour that the majority of men partake in now or in the past means I’m not normal. However if in the future, fashions become very gender neutral, crossdressing could be seen as normal. Hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think when someone says they’re normal, means they don’t have any unusual tastes or act from what society regards as general acceptable or historical behaviour.

I crossdress so as this is not regarded as behaviour that the majority of men partake in now or in the past means I’m not normal. However if in the future, fashions become very gender neutral, crossdressing could be seen as normal. Hope that makes sense "

Yah it kinda does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I'm normal if i remember to take my medication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t mean anything other than they’re not an oddball. It doesn’t mean they’re boring in my opinion.

And before anyone asks, yes I would describe myself as ‘normal’. Not odd, not weird, just an average sort of soul. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

If you took 100 people from tesco, and 100 people from Fab you would find the percentage of total fucking loons much higher on Fab, take normal as a compliment "

That’s fucking brilliant

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

If you took 100 people from tesco, and 100 people from Fab you would find the percentage of total fucking loons much higher on Fab, take normal as a compliment

That’s fucking brilliant "

But are people who shop at Tesco normal people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?"

I think if they need to say it, it's not true. Whatever the label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?

I think if they need to say it, it's not true. Whatever the label."

Sorry Babs, didn't mean you're not normal! x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Normal to me is average or run of the mill.

That’s not why I’m here or what I’m looking for "

So you are looking for a whacko type of person then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a bit vanilla x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

Compared to all the crazy, weird people they have met, your NORMAL.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m NORMAL and care not for labels such as ‘he/she is normal and so is boring’.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who tells you they are normal could be a killer in waiting.

Avoid at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?"

Haha. Probably not. So I’m unsure how much weight it holds when I say I’m normal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who tells you they are normal could be a killer in waiting.

Avoid at all costs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal. Somebody that’s fits in the crowd very well without being noticed.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Depends on the context. On here I'd take it as more vanilla/no kink and/or not likely to boil your bunny or take a sledgehammer to your legs because they're your biggest fan

V x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Boring ... "

Or average.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I call myself normal, when I read some of the drama filled threads on here I think fuck that, thank God that’s not how I deal with situations or people, just level headed and drama free, no boiled bunnies or stalkerish behaviours shown, I like normal, normal is good in my book

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I call myself normal, when I read some of the drama filled threads on here I think fuck that, thank God that’s not how I deal with situations or people, just level headed and drama free, no boiled bunnies or stalkerish behaviours shown, I like normal, normal is good in my book "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

No such thing as normal

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Depends on the context. On here I'd take it as more vanilla/no kink and/or not likely to boil your bunny or take a sledgehammer to your legs because they're your biggest fan

V x"

Yeh slightly scary. Really can't relax around people like that. Give me normal anyday. Life too short for drama and angst.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

No such thing as normal "

I'm beginning to think so

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"

Over weight cheating on a partner and questionable personal hygiene. (Thats assuming its said on here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone says they're normal I'd run for the hills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

Over weight cheating on a partner and questionable personal hygiene. (Thats assuming its said on here) "

To be fair that's only the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

Over weight cheating on a partner and questionable personal hygiene. (Thats assuming its said on here) "

Cute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?

Over weight cheating on a partner and questionable personal hygiene. (Thats assuming its said on here)

Cute. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I think babs got it right (and others). Not an ‘oddball’ or a ‘wacko’ type of person.

But do oddballs and wackos think they are oddballs or wackos?

I think if they need to say it, it's not true. Whatever the label.

Sorry Babs, didn't mean you're not normal! x"

Oi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people rarely see what others see.

And the way you describe yourself is rarely how others would describe you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think that people rarely see what others see.

And the way you describe yourself is rarely how others would describe you.

"

You know this probably true. I've heard my kids describe me and I'm like that's so not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the context of the conversation also what is normal for one person might not be for the other.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"When someone says I'm normal what do you think they mean?"
if someone tells me I'm normal I think they are demented

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really depends on the context of the conversation also what is normal for one person might not be for the other. "

Ya totally agree.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

He’s a trainspotter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably mean that they are the opposite of not normal.

But most criminals always claim that they are innocents so I wouldn't believe them if I were you, they just want to fuck your ass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They probably mean that they are the opposite of not normal.

But most criminals always claim that they are innocents so I wouldn't believe them if I were you, they just want to fuck your ass."

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