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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere "  | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " Don’t take it personal. We are all different and entitled to be. | |||
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked. How do we decide who to talk to?" Exactly this. I could 20 plus messages in 5 mins. Simply couldn't answer them all. Even to say no as that leads to bit why not or you don't what your missing  | |||
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked. How do we decide who to talk to?" You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too! | |||
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked. How do we decide who to talk to? You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too!" And then they complain about one word answers. | |||
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked. How do we decide who to talk to? You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too! And then they complain about one word answers." “Intimate detail” you can’t get away from it. You’re on here so it’s obvious you’re not fussy and will welcome with open legs any man that has the spare time to send you a picture of his erect member  | |||
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"Taken from my profile: If somebody doesn't respond to a message I sent, I leave it at that and move on, it's no big thing I insist you do the same. We all want what we want." This. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " Would an inbox full of 'no thanks' make you feel any better than no responses? Honest question. A | |||
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"No one needs to reply. Why should they? " The OP didn’t reply to me 
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? " Spot on | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " There is a lot of ignorance. There's also a lot of love on here, people who take time out of their lives to help others with all sorts of problems. Most of which dealing with emotional stability, pain, trauma, heartbreak etc. To call everyone ignorant is unfair. Tonight alone I've received more kindness than I have in weeks from my real friends who know my real world problems. | |||
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"It's impossible to talk to everyone who messages. I would not get any work done, or dinner cooked. How do we decide who to talk to? You don't. You must converse in intimate detail with every Tom Dick and harry that bothers to spend 2 seconds sending “hi, fancy a fuck” to you and be damn well enjoy doing it too! And then they complain about one word answers. “Intimate detail” you can’t get away from it. You’re on here so it’s obvious you’re not fussy and will welcome with open legs any man that has the spare time to send you a picture of his erect member "You know me so well | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know | |||
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd." I know the difference between preference and being racist mate When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " Nor does whinging | |||
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"Neither does negativity, I find. Positivity is much more attractive. Happy Fabbing." Not negative at all | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere Nor does whinging" Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know "Brilliant! | |||
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd. I know the difference between preference and being racist mate When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian" Yup, that's definitely racist talk. Did you report them? | |||
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ? "No not at all Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another | |||
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"It's not racism it's preference mate. Gawd. I know the difference between preference and being racist mate When you get called a curry muncher or smelly indian thats racist even tho am not indian Yup, that's definitely racist talk. Did you report them?" Yeah reported and blocked them | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere | |||
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ?
No not at all
Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another "People jump to conclusions on here. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere Would an inbox full of 'no thanks' make you feel any better than no responses? Honest question. A" Yes it would lol least i get a response | |||
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"It's no more racist not being attracted to blacks or asians than it is homophobic for a straight man to not be attracted to other men - we can't choose who we fancy!" Hate that term, 'blacks or Asians' yuk! OP, you should contribute to the thread, 'big hanging ball's, just saying. | |||
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"Are you saying people are racist because their preference is not Asian ?
No not at all
Preference is one thing but literally being racist is another
People jump to conclusions on here."Yeah that is very true Everyone just makes there mind up without knowing the finer details | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know "Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now | |||
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"It's no more racist not being attracted to blacks or asians than it is homophobic for a straight man to not be attracted to other men - we can't choose who we fancy! Hate that term, 'blacks or Asians' yuk! Whats that about then lol OP, you should contribute to the thread, 'big hanging ball's, just saying." | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere Nor does whinging Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere " Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step... Just block and move on .. Its not atractive to the opposite sex | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now "They get the hump if you miss one. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere" Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere Nor does whinging Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step... Just block and move on .. Its not atractive to the opposite sex" It is if a woman is doing the airing. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one. "Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments " Just keep reporting them and blocking. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one.
Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway"I wouldn't sweat it. You said your piece and got it off your chest. | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere Nor does whinging Well you have to let frustrations out somewhere Airing you grievances on the forums can often get you a stint on the naughty step... Just block and move on .. Its not atractive to the opposite sex It is if a woman is doing the airing. " Thought it would also be a good way to have a bit of a convo with kind hearted people as welk as a bit of discussion to cure the boredom | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments " Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere OP why haven't you taken the time to reply to each person who has responded to your thread? Such ignorance - there's no harm in a polite response you know
Lmao like your sarcasm but as i was busy which is why all people are getting responses now
They get the hump if you miss one.
Yeah i missed a few because all ill be doing is repeating myself when its there to read anyway
I wouldn't sweat it. You said your piece and got it off your chest.
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
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"Perhaps change and consider your into message to people OP If it’s as curt as your opener here no wonder you don’t get replies! "Well thats just the way i am unfortunately | |||
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"Perhaps change and consider your into message to people OP If it’s as curt as your opener here no wonder you don’t get replies!
Well thats just the way i am unfortunately
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"Perhaps change and consider your into message to people OP If it’s as curt as your opener here no wonder you don’t get replies!
Well thats just the way i am unfortunately
I rest my case!"Ok lol | |||
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? " well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x"Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life. If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x"I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now If they want to message me there welcome to | |||
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook "I don't mind those messages. I prefer them to long ones telling me exactly what I wrote on my profile. If I like the look of them I'll reply. | |||
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"FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? well said plus lots of silly messages like how you doing! What you up to its not Facebook
I don't mind those messages. I prefer them to long ones telling me exactly what I wrote on my profile. If I like the look of them I'll reply."Struggling to keep up now | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere " Ignorance starts with the people who don't take time to read admins advice on people who don't reply. It does tell most of us who is a horse and who is a donkey and take action though.  | |||
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x
I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks
And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now
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"Where all are the nice people who dont mind a friendly chat or least have the decency to reply even if its no No harm in a polite response you know And as for the few racists i have come across its 2019 its a multicultural society Give respect to get respect Hate does not get you anywhere well some folk get zillions of messages,,so,,, but as far as racism goes yea thats terribletheres no place for it anywhere Thats what am gettinf at Saying no is okay every individual has preferences however no need for hate/racial comments Report their message. Admin are good at sorting stuff like that. Remember that if they are abusive they did you a favour- you won't be wasting any time chatting to them or meeting them.
I have done but yeah your right x
Join in on the forums. You seem pretty straight forward. That won't go down well with some people but that's life.
If I was a man I wouldn't bother mailing anyone on here. The lack of replies would just get me down. x
I would like to think am pretty straight forward and i do comment on forums from time to time depend on how fun it looks
And yeah i havent bothered to message anyone now
If they want to message me there welcome to
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