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Letting a friend fuck ur wife or gf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi after some advice we want my Male mate to join me and my gf in bed is this a good or bad idea will things be akwould after he would of seen her naked touched her boobs fucked her etc ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive thought the same thing in the past. Wanted to do it but been apprehensive about it. From what ive picked up on when asking people before is that it can cause big trust issues.

If you both are very okay with trust ect then just let it happen. Could be very fun and hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't want to involve a mate of either of us. I think it would get awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say bad idea , keep your friends separate from your sex life

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Don't shit on your own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By *3xyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

swingers town

Your worst enemy is your best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a friend or a partner but I don't think I have it in ne sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you're questioning if it'll be awkward means you probably know it will.

Fucking strangers allows that level of detachment where you can walk away.

Fucking a friend means bringing 2 sides of your life together and facing the consequences if it goes wrong.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As much as you’d like the joining, keep it separate.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

What if your mates better with his knob and she goes off with him just a thought op on a serious note I’d find it awkward if it was a mate but no harm in giving it a bash let us know the outcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Mates are mates, not for dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very bad idea.....

To swingers sex with a couple is just sex....

With vanilla people sex with a couple is a affair....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It can work out fine, lots of people have threesomes with a mate.

The way you've described it suggests that you might not have thought it through. It isn't so much the physical that can cause problems more the emotional aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this male friend a good friend or just an acquaintance???

Personally it's a line you probably shouldn't cross it could ruin a relationship or a good friendship xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No chance!

Swingers who we don't know provide anonymity, we don't shit on our doorstep, no drama, no strife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been the single female friend and joined in with the couple. One became basically a poly relationship when i ended it we stayed friends.

others just a one off again remained friends no awkwardness at all.

all of those situations just sort of happened there was no conversation prior and these were/are very long term friendships 10+years so i knew them very well and two of the couples are now married so clearly didnt have a negative impact on their relationships.

Id totaly join them now im a couple too if they wanted . Likewise if they were single id happily let them join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 3sum with my friend and her boyfriend and my friend and her husband. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do u still see them

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"I had 3sum with my friend and her boyfriend and my friend and her husband. No big deal."
I bet the fella had a big smile on his face lucky bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that you're questioning if it'll be awkward means you probably know it will.

Fucking strangers allows that level of detachment where you can walk away.

Fucking a friend means bringing 2 sides of your life together and facing the consequences if it goes wrong. "
and if he tells other friends that you both had fun , could be a lot of nudge nudge wink wink local wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi after some advice we want my Male mate to join me and my gf in bed is this a good or bad idea will things be akwould after he would of seen her naked touched her boobs fucked her etc ..."

It all depends on how differently you would view her being fucked by a City or United supporter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True most have seen her topless tbh so I'm not worried about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think letting a friend be intimate could (and gas in my experience) lead to a division in the friendship.

Think about what you value more and prepare for the worst.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Worst case scenario, he tells all your friends, they all run a train on her and then she leaves you for your friend.

Best case scenario, awkward aftermath.

I don't see why of all the millions of men out there, you would pick your own friend

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By *ilf85Couple
over a year ago

Northants


"Don't shit on your own doorstep"
well said

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