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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When playing with other ladies do you tend to adopt a "role"?.

Like bi/gay guys tend to identify as top or bottom and often straight couples are sub/Dom.

Is it the same role as you would adopt with guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I take on any role really.

Having said that I can be very submissive but I've only ever wanted to submit to a man I've never felt that desire with a woman.

When I'm with a man I like him to take control but when I'm with a woman I like it to be on an equal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not usually. I’m fairly submissive by nature but with woman I tend to be more sensual it’s more mutual pleasure it’s a totally different experience to being with a guy or even a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the other woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with women, but am not keen on them playing with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It purely depends on the woman. I never thought I could let a woman dominate me until it happened

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Good question Op!

I don't know if straight couples are often sub/Dom - I think maybe one takes the lead a bit more without venturing into BDSM?

That aside and actually answering your op, ermm no, not really. I'm different things with different people - gender doesn't really play in to it so much. There's not a preconcieved notion as to how I'll be sexually with a woman because I'm fairly flexible.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don’t really adopt roles in the bedroom. The difference though is that I’m really rather fussy when it comes to women. I tend to find that I’m much more passionate with a woman because of this, than I would be with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good question Op!

I don't know if straight couples are often sub/Dom - I think maybe one takes the lead a bit more without venturing into BDSM?

That aside and actually answering your op, ermm no, not really. I'm different things with different people - gender doesn't really play in to it so much. There's not a preconcieved notion as to how I'll be sexually with a woman because I'm fairly flexible."

Yeah I wasn't sure quite how to phrase it. I wouldn't identify myself as sub or Dom when with a man but I do tend to lean towards a more feminine role.

I just noticed I hadn't ever seen a profile where a woman specified a role when with another woman yet I've seen loads identifying a certain way when straight or if it's a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i dont think i do...I'm more submissive with guys I like a bit of rough.

But with women it's softer and more sensual and we tend to just enjoy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i dont think i do...I'm more submissive with guys I like a bit of rough.

But with women it's softer and more sensual and we tend to just enjoy each other. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only done that in a 3sum and no one had a role, although, the wife/gf made the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only done that in a 3sum and no one had a role, although, the wife/gf made the rules."

Oh if we ever have a threesome we let the lady make the rules so she's more comfy as there are two of us it can be daunting x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

The majority of women I've met have been quite inexperienced, so I guess I've taken the lead role.

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