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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

So went out with a few work friends to grab a bite to eat. A few of us waiting in reception for the others to come down before head off together.

One girl has the hiccups, tries everything to get rid of them, says she's stepping out to get fresh air.

Last few come down to reception and we're all waiting for her to come back, I message her, no reply and I look outside she's not there, maybe she went back up for something, so I call. She doesn't answer but replies:

Sorry no, I’ve gone home! Didn’t fancy it in the end, have a good night though! X

Personally, if I didn't feel it I'd let the others know first before I left to go home...

Not sure if that's just me but I felt like that was really inconsiderate

It got me thinking about manners and social etiquette and how people think inwardly without consideration for others around them.

Not to ramble on but it just annoyed me.

Would you do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irish Goodbye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners and being polite are very big things to me, regardless of you you are. Friend or stranger.

I try to be polite to everyone unless I am give good reason not to be, even then I'm no a huge fan of it haha just the way I have been brought up.

I've learned that these traits are getting much more rare, this applies to friends just as much as strangers too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Show should have let someone know.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

That’s not the done thing! And manners cost nothing but convey a lot about you as a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have friends that do that kind of thing.

It’s know as a ‘Houdini’ ... very rude

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"We have friends that do that kind of thing.

It’s know as a ‘Houdini’ ... very rude"

Made me think a little differently of her to be honest. Also taught me a lesson with how to approach her going forward.

Maybe next time we'll just leave without her when she goes to the loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no im not rude generally.

but i remember you when i was on the site a few years ago and you were bloody rude in the chatroom.

so i find it surprising you have the nerve to complain about anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the type of person to arrange a night out with work on a Friday, look forward to it all week but when Friday comes I can’t think of any thing worse.

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"no im not rude generally.

but i remember you when i was on the site a few years ago and you were bloody rude in the chatroom.

so i find it surprising you have the nerve to complain about anyone else.

"

I'm sorry but I have no clue who you are or what you are on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So went out with a few work friends to grab a bite to eat. A few of us waiting in reception for the others to come down before head off together.

One girl has the hiccups, tries everything to get rid of them, says she's stepping out to get fresh air.

Last few come down to reception and we're all waiting for her to come back, I message her, no reply and I look outside she's not there, maybe she went back up for something, so I call. She doesn't answer but replies:

Sorry no, I’ve gone home! Didn’t fancy it in the end, have a good night though! X

Personally, if I didn't feel it I'd let the others know first before I left to go home...

Not sure if that's just me but I felt like that was really inconsiderate

It got me thinking about manners and social etiquette and how people think inwardly without consideration for others around them.

Not to ramble on but it just annoyed me.

Would you do that?"

I'd be pretty pissed off about that and treat her in the same way from that point on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really rude to just leave like that without saying anything. Unless she was feeling crappy and when the fresh air hit her she just wanted to go home.

She could still have texted to let you know not to wait though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She maybe thought you'd try convince her to stay so decided just to go.

Not texting to say is rude though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows what they really think of you.

If they were empathetic, I they would let you know.

This shows exactly their feelings... You can do with ditching people like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was probably on, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's pretty out of order.

She must have known you were all waiting for her surely.

Ignorant.

P

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"So went out with a few work friends to grab a bite to eat. A few of us waiting in reception for the others to come down before head off together.

One girl has the hiccups, tries everything to get rid of them, says she's stepping out to get fresh air.

Last few come down to reception and we're all waiting for her to come back, I message her, no reply and I look outside she's not there, maybe she went back up for something, so I call. She doesn't answer but replies:

Sorry no, I’ve gone home! Didn’t fancy it in the end, have a good night though! X

Personally, if I didn't feel it I'd let the others know first before I left to go home...

Not sure if that's just me but I felt like that was really inconsiderate

It got me thinking about manners and social etiquette and how people think inwardly without consideration for others around them.

Not to ramble on but it just annoyed me.

Would you do that?"
. If someone has made the effort to organise a nite out and you have met at the bar then for whatever reason you are not feeling it let them know face to face that you no longer fancy it or maybe tag along for the first part of the evening.It costs nonething to speak to someone for a few minutes to tell them how you feel.It’s called good manners and respect.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Have you spoken to her since OP? Did she give an explanation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners should be second nature, but some people fail to grasp the importance of them, those people I care less about and don't want them in my life.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners should be second nature, but some people fail to grasp the importance of them, those people I care less about and don't want them in my life.

Jo.Xx"

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