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"What is it with so many single guys on here? 100% straight plastered all over their profile and first message then as soon as you say 'thanks but we are not looking for straight guys' they say well I am straight but will fuck both of you! Newsflash if your offering to fuck another guy you ain't straight!" Desperado much?  . I don’t contact cpl profiles at all for the fact that I don’t even know if its the male or female | |||
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"change the bloody record ffs  "I only just put this record on so a bit early to change it | |||
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I only just put this record on so a bit early to change it"They are fab straight If you don't want men messaging you then use your filters to block them | |||
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I reply being polite and say not going to happen. For the record I have 100% on my profile, but it is true what they say... some men don't read profiles.
I have had to say no to many couples looking for a guy because they want a "slightly" bi guy or for teasing etc one example is a guy said I could have his wife if we had a proper three way with him focusing on me physically, touching etc not my thing. I interact with everyone socially, but only women sexually. It's just the way it is and not personal. | |||
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"Haha that is because they are fab straight. They may even have multiple profiles with one as straight the other as bi... found out recently from forums some people actually do that. I get many guys contacting me with straight on profiles, but wanting to do things
I reply being polite and say not going to happen. For the record I have 100% on my profile, but it is true what they say... some men don't read profiles.
I have had to say no to many couples looking for a guy because they want a "slightly" bi guy or for teasing etc one example is a guy said I could have his wife if we had a proper three way with him focusing on me physically, touching etc not my thing. I interact with everyone socially, but only women sexually. It's just the way it is and not personal."I'm sorry, but I don't believe a word of that... all because of 9ne line.. | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles "Was the communication clear prior to meeting though? Were his verifications from socials or actual play meets with guys? Even though it states you're both bi on your profile, should never assume... either of you could have avoided that time wasting situation by confirming before getting to meet stage. I interact with everyone at big social events. If I get on well with guys on a friend level they may verify me. Nothing to do with sexual. For the guys: It is not frowned upon to have verifications from other men at events. Unless your sole intention on here is only having sex and no other form of friendships. | |||
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" Sorry to those that are bored with the subject" Don't apologise, you are allowed to start a thread with any subject you like as long as it is within rules and this is. To the people who are bored with the subject, ignore the thread altogether | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles
Was the communication clear prior to meeting though? Were his verifications from socials or actual play meets with guys? Even though it states you're both bi on your profile, should never assume... either of you could have avoided that time wasting situation by confirming before getting to meet stage.
I interact with everyone at big social events. If I get on well with guys on a friend level they may verify me. Nothing to do with sexual.
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It is not frowned upon to have verifications from other men at events. Unless your sole intention on here is only having sex and no other form of friendships."i’ve got a few veris from socials | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles "Had you agreed before that was likely to happen ? | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles
Had you agreed before that was likely to happen ? "If only you had come in earlier with that one line. | |||
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"i’ve got a few veris from socials "It's just a few times I keep reading in various other threads if a guy had a verification from other men he must be bi etc People often don't even read the verification and assume the guys played with each other. Comments like that do put some guys off thinking oooh I better not display any male verifications because that may be frowned upon or taken the wrong way. Nooooooo... that's cool and nothing wrong with making friends. Anyway I will leave that topic on verifications there or continue another time if it pops up again. | |||
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" I have had to say no to many couples looking for a guy because they want a "slightly" bi guy or for teasing " I may be a Fab Sprog, but I'm a lifestyle veteran. I've had straight male and bi male accounts on other sites, some paid, some free. I've been doing this on and off for about 15yrs now. Not once have I ever been asked this by a couple. I've met no couples, straight couples, mixed sexuality couples, beginners and seasoned veterans. Unless I'm on a website like Fab that has a forum, or a way of getting my personality across on a regular basis. I'm the one that's usually does the chasing, when a female is involved. As they don't usually struggle getting the attention they want. So on that dodgy line alone.. I'm going to ignore all the... wisdom? You're dispensing. Which is a shame, as 'some' of what you say, is fair advice. A straight male having social verifications from other males he's befriended makes perfect sense to me, I too am very social and will leave friend veris occasionally. Either I'm very wrong in my assumptions about you, in which case I'm losing my superpower. Or you're just way more desirable to women than I ever could be. Which wouldn't bother me in the slightest. | |||
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"What is it with so many single guys on here? 100% straight plastered all over their profile and first message then as soon as you say 'thanks but we are not looking for straight guys' they say well I am straight but will fuck both of you! Newsflash if your offering to fuck another guy you ain't straight!" It's not just a bi guy thing. Some men will say anything to get a fuck. For example, their profile says they are dom & I say I'm not sub. So they say oh I'm sub you could dom me. 
I don't say on my profile what I'm looking for as they'll just say they are looking for that too.
If you want to check they really are bi, say the men will play together first while the woman watches. | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles
Had you agreed before that was likely to happen ?
If only you had come in earlier with that one line."Im always late | |||
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" I have had to say no to many couples looking for a guy because they want a "slightly" bi guy or for teasing I may be a Fab Sprog, but I'm a lifestyle veteran. I've had straight male and bi male accounts on other sites, some paid, some free. I've been doing this on and off for about 15yrs now. Not once have I ever been asked this by a couple. I've met no couples, straight couples, mixed sexuality couples, beginners and seasoned veterans. Unless I'm on a website like Fab that has a forum, or a way of getting my personality across on a regular basis. I'm the one that's usually does the chasing, when a female is involved. As they don't usually struggle getting the attention they want. So on that dodgy line alone.. I'm going to ignore all the... wisdom? You're dispensing. Which is a shame, as 'some' of what you say, is fair advice. A straight male having social verifications from other males he's befriended makes perfect sense to me, I too am very social and will leave friend veris occasionally. Either I'm very wrong in my assumptions about you, in which case I'm losing my superpower. Or you're just way more desirable to women than I ever could be. Which wouldn't bother me in the slightest." Oh wow 15yrs! You have a good level of experience all round as you have described. We have never had the pleasure of interacting in the forums. I will focus on the line you said is "dodgy" ... Everything I posted is true and accurate. If I post in forums like this they will always be actual things based on my experiences. Things that have happened on my journey. I don't say things just for the sake of it because that is pointless. I can go into much more detail and explain further with many more examples... But seen as it is the first time we have engaged allow me to share a little on me as you have done: I am not a newbie/first timer on fab. I left happy and rejoined happy. I have never been on any other website. I only have one profile, which is me. Don't need multiple ones with different settings. I am not superior to anyone else nor do I have superpowers, but I have years of experience on here. That enables me to share things with fellow fabbers. For the record: Due to me being a social butterfly I am well connected with people throughout the UK. I have friends on here from many different backgrounds/orientation. I don't take sides from one extreme to the other. I try to be as mutual as I can and say it like it is. On a side note and for others: I have made it clear previously relating to other threads and I will say it again I am all about personalities. #2019 Let's see how things will go  | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles
Had you agreed before that was likely to happen ?
If only you had come in earlier with that one line.
Im always late "I usually miss threads completely and post in them long after everyone else has moved on! For once I came in early, but I think I will stick to being late or wait for the one liner specialists to save my time   | |||
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"We have had a meet with this situation, guys profile said "straight" but his verifications were from guys. So we invited him into our home for a meet, as soon as my man tried to suck him he freaked out said he wasn't up for any of that. We soon showed him the door, boxers round his ankles "Been there done that ! Hahaha | |||
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"Maybe he only likes dick at the weekends. He 'Weekbends' " | |||
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"I the right place with the right people... Its be willing to gag hard on some meat! No idea who or even where I might be up for this" Put men on your 'looking for' list. They'll find you. | |||
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"I the right place with the right people... Its be willing to gag hard on some meat! No idea who or even where I might be up for this Put men on your 'looking for' list. They'll find you. "I get plenty of offers lol. | |||
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"Its a worry if you even need to add "100%" straight. You are either straight or bi in my opinion........ maybe they are feel ashamed of who they truly are in some way which in itself......is the biggest shame of all. I am straight......but if i wanted to even touch another man, I would say i was bi." For real man. People who include that on their profile are insecure about their sexuality. It's a shame. | |||
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