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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Why do people say they will meet yet never turn up, it’s so very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

setting up a meet is a real turn on for some, but that’s as far as they’re willing to go, which is why you never discuss what you plan to do prior to meeting.

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

I've slowly learned over my early years here that the more they talk and ask you what you'll do to them during a planned meet, the greater the chance they are having a wank while the wife is doing the ironing and actually have zero intention of meeting you (or anyone for that matter). I wish they'd stick to talking to others who just want a chatwank and let genuine people have actual sex.....

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Refuse to meet people that won't voice or video chat at some point prior to the meet...

It's not a perfect solution but it does out some of the fantasists..

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"Why do people say they will meet yet never turn up, it’s so very frustrating"

It's easy to talk to someone online and arrange a meet, it's still just fantasy at that point. But as soon as the time arrives to actually meet, it begins to enter the realm of reality, which is a-whole-nother dimension, and that's the first point that your confidence is tested. Unfortunately, many people fail that test, and bottle it.

As irritating as it is, I do sympathise with them to some extent. I've never bottled it myself, but I've felt nervous before meeting on numerous occasions. But, if someone doesn't have the guts to go through with it, they should at least have the guts to let you know ahead of time, otherwise they're just a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've slowly learned over my early years here that the more they talk and ask you what you'll do to them during a planned meet, the greater the chance they are having a wank while the wife is doing the ironing and actually have zero intention of meeting you (or anyone for that matter). I wish they'd stick to talking to others who just want a chatwank and let genuine people have actual sex....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled 90 mins one Friday night. Even on my journey, my meet was messaging me. Then I messaged to say I was 5 mins away and never heard from her again.....Fuming wasn't the word!

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